Oral Sex With Another Man

So I've joined the chorus of married men on other posts fantasizing about giving another man a blowjob. Seems there's a common profile of married, middle-aged men getting bored and curious, not really attracted to men or wanting to change their lives radically, but curious to try it out. Many will probably never act on it.

I've never acted on anything in real life, but I've gotten into a few online chats with men recently and it has always ended up with us fantasizing and chatting about them giving me head. A couple times I've masturbated and even orgasmed while doing it. I've never ended up wanting to fantasize about sucking them off.

I had an affair, and the other woman gave me really good head all the time. Maybe I just want that again, but can't really envision getting into another affair with a woman. It was too intense and almost ended my marriage. Another married guy craving cock giving head could possibly work out better. I'd rather have a good looking woman gobble my cock, but perhaps I could handle another guy doing it. It would be strictly about the blowjob, no hugging and kissing, and no other relationship really. When I'm horny I contact him and feed him my cock. He goes after it with gusto and afterwards I leave. Seems there are guys who are into this.

Does this make me bisexual?

 

No

 

Yes.

 

How does it make him bisexual?

 

how does that not make him bisexual?? lol

OP literally wants to have sex with both sexes, so...yeah

 

He just was a guy to suck on him. He says he doesn't want to do anything else.

 

i think it qualifies

 

[SIZE=10.5pt]He has sex with both men and women. That’s is bisexual. [/SIZE]In his case he is only receiving oral, so barley bisexual, I would say.

 

hes not bisexual. hes a creep!!

doing things behind his wifes back..

 

He is not even having sex, he wants to have a guy blow him. Don't think that is bisexual.

 

Hey Orison319, don't be cruel! Here's someone feeling he has an issue and risking to put it out there to understand himself better, and you probably just sent him underground in shame (hopefully not).

Here's someone who fucked around on his wife with another woman, and clearly values his marriage enough to not want to do it again, so in his mind he has found a way to get a need satisfied without actually having an affair. In an affair, presumably there is more than just sex - there is emotion, falling in love, cheating emotionally, not just sexually. We don't know what is going on in the marriage. We don't know if his wife hates giving head and just won't do it for him, but the fact that he likes it so much is making him look for it in other ways. We just don't know, so hold keep your uncivil judgements to yourself - geesh!

I used to be such a prude, and admittedly I really don't like giving head, really hate all those porn cum shots on women's faces, and am disgusted by shots of women eating cum. Gag me!!!! My husband has been a member of AdultFriendFinders forever, and that used to really bother me, but I also knew that I wasn't the best sex-buddy in the world so couldn't deny him, and he is the most loyal of men, I know he would never sneak out on me. But I also realize it isn't fair for him to spend his whole life denied things that he'd like. So, I have finally opened myself up to going on AFF with him and allowing myself to fantasize and grow sexually. It is really fascinating to see all the different walks of life on there, lots of bi men, cross-dressers, couples swinging, men fantasizing about their wives getting done by another dude and watching, etc. etc. There are lots of couples who swap, or one partner or the other goes and plays while the other isn't interested, but they have an arrangement and stay with the marriage.

xyzniloc, I don't think you are bi - I think you just found a way to make it ok to seek what you desire without cheating on your wife in your mind. Have you discussed your desires with your wife? Lots of us aren't open enough about our inner secrets to go there, but guess what? Life is short!

 

awe truth hurts.. :clown:
nice he wants to brings STDs back home without her consent..

sorry not all post here are to your liking. get over it..

 

Oral sex is sex. You're bisexual, dude....but ain't nothing wrong with that.

 

I would say it does. I have been sucked by a woman but not a man and it would be good to try that with the right person.

 

it would mean more bi-curious than bi-sexual

 

He's just human! Fuck the labels. They're all bullshit.

I would say to the OP, that your desires are simply normal sexual urges. We get fantasies into our heads; they give us a dopamine hit and so we crave it.

I'm not saying you should or shouldn't follow your desires. Obviously you are married and have made at least some kind of commitment to your wife. Just as obviously it would be very easy for you to find another married guy in your area who has the same fantasy, albeit he wants to suck - check Craigslist. I too enjoyed going down on a guy before, but I don't now that I am married with kids. I still fantasize about it a lot though. Jerk off to it a lot too. My wife isn't into oral unfortunately. (I also really crave eating pussy.) I also say it would be very naive to say I wouldn't cheat though. I don't put my self in situations where I could accidentally find simple discrete access to a gay guy's cock. I do business trips - duh. The temptation may become overwhelming. I hope not. I recognize the wrongness of it. But it wouldn't be the first mistake in my life I made because I wasn't thinking with the head on my shoulders as opposed to the head on my cock.

In the end, it's your decision. But be safe.

 

...it does if you want it too...

 

ummm, no

 

I'm a firm believer in "Bro-Jobs." It's not a gay thing, it's just a Bro giving his buddy a Bro-Job, helping his bro out.

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