There are rare some that do not cheat. Yes, man and female can love many people......that is normal.... Can one be in love with more than one at a time. I don't know about that...... I mean in love here, not in lust.
Okay.. another thing I've never understood.. Why people think it's impossible to love more than one person at a time? No one can fulfill everything each person needs. And the days of living happily ever after are probably over. Life moves too fast, and the world is getting smaller every day, and we all are living to much older ages. To say that all men cheat, is unfair.. women cheat too. And why to we have to call it cheating???? I believe marriage restricts people too much.. I would love to see marriage disappear or at least have open marriages if you feel you must have one at all... I'm all for relationship contacts that are renewed or not on a yearly basis. Plus the ability to have poly marriages or relationships.
I am just not into the sharing of everything....as with quantity....quality is gone....but as they say, different strokes for different folks....as long as everyone knows, and there is no lieing or cheating...all is good there....and yes, people love many people......can and should......
or to put it another way, one ceases to be special to someone, and is "just another one"....which is fine, if that is what something is....as long as everyone knows..... I still am a romantic, poet and idealist..... and believe that there is something more somewhere.....
...yes a man can love more than one woman...but most often love has little to do with cheating...its more a matter of lust...
