Gagging?

Discussion in 'Oral Sex' started by alliloola, Oct 13, 2014.

  1. alliloola

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    I thought I was pretty open and adventurous sexually but have recently been dating someone who likes me to gag on him, he enjoys oral while I am handcuffed and likes a bit of slapping thrown in, I am incredibly turned on by this but am also curious as to what the appeal is to the "gagging" and any tips on performing well at this
     
  2. mudlife73

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    I would label it as a control thing on the man's part, when you are tied up and he is forcing himself into your mouth and making you gag he is in control. Now gagging is gagging and as long as you don't hurl on him then it's all good....unless he is into that too and then that is another story. When a woman gags it makes her drool like crazy and drool is good when giving head.

    As long as you are good with it then it's all good.
     
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  3. RichardTheFrog

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    Maybe he watches too much porno.

    That might qualify as a sexual disorder. It doesn't increase his pleasure any to have you gagging.

    Personally, I love getting head (who doesn't), but if it's in any way uncomfortable for her, then I don't push the issue.

    Edit: okay unless the gagging causes that drool, then it does. I stand corrected.
     
  4. I'minmyunderwear

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    the appeal is that he watches too much porn and thinks that's what you're supposed to do. i assume he always goes gagging blowjob to doggystyle to anal, and then he pulls out and cums on your face?
     
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  5. maoy02

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    Well, for me, it's not so much control as a natural reaction. I often gag my wife when she's giving me a blow job. I always pull back immediately, but she said she doesn't mind, and it turns her on to hear me groan with pleasure. I never intend to gag her, but I would unconsciously push my cock deeper with each thrust as I get more excited. I think it's a natural reaction for the male to want to deposit his sperm as deeply as possible to increase the likelihood of pregnancy. What really complicates things is sometimes she has no problem "swallowing" my cock into her throat, whille other times she would gag with half penetration, so I really don't know when to stop.
     
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  6. RichardTheFrog

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    Some times they like it when you push their head down. A girl told me that one time. But also when they say it's too deep or they can't go down further, I don't force the issue. One time I took a broom handle to see how far I could put it in my mouth and it was HARD!!! Lol. I don't know how they do it but kudos to the ones who like to. That drool feels so good though, it's worth it. And you know, I would eat their pussy even though it's a little uncomfortable for me, so I think it's fair.
     
  7. oralover

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    I personally like it when a guy makes me gag on his cock
     
  8. KingWilly

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    I think the gagging thing is a semi new porn fetish.

    I'm a guy and love getting a blow job but seeing the whole gagging thing is a big turnoff for me and doesn't interest me in the least. Same thing with a lot of saliva (I'm talking ropes of it). I have no problem with a little spit for lube and such but when i see pornos with woman gagging almost to the point of throwing up and hucking out saliva I about want to throw up myself. I know a lot of weird things turn some people on and like the OP mentioned her guy likes it rough and sounds pretty dominating.
     
  9. birsha

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    I like it in the sense that I like to feel dominated and I like to please. I like that he's showing his dominance and using me. I like that he likes it. And from conversations with my boyfriend a lot of what he gets out of it is mental. It's a "she's doings this for me and not for her" sort of thing and it makes him feel powerful.

    I think girls who say they like it or love it are alll saying that because they must like the pleasing the guy submissiveness of it. At least that's how it works for me, It's certainly not because it feels awesome for me physically. :p You try it sometime guys.
     
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  10. RichardTheFrog

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    I did try it sometime. Didn't you read what I said about the broomstick? I could barely do it for a second. I like to get head and the sloppier, the better, but there's no need to gag someone just for enjoyment.
     
  11. Scarlet5

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    I used to have a terrible gag reflex and even today I find it hard to take it too rough. I never could understand the appeal behind wanting to see someone gag and I used to try my absolute best not to, because I thought it was embarrassing. However, the more I tried not to gag, the more my boy friend pushed me to try and make it happen. >.< It took me a while to figure out that he was actually turned on by it.

    As for advice. I would say the best practice is to let your partner push your limits. You're never going to be able to suppress your reflex without being pushed. If that seems a little too extreme, then try practicing with a banana. I know that works too. ^>^
     
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  12. oralover

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    I have blown a few guys that for some reason love to make me gag on their cocks. I personally like it when they do that although it's difficult sometimes. I have found that when a guy makes me gag on it he tends to cum ALOT which I like to swallow so I guess it's a fair trade. I do think it is a control thing though for some guys. If I lay my head back a 12" cock couldnt make me gag but if I have my head in a normal position I'm good for about 8" without gagging.
     
  13. RichardTheFrog

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    I don't feel right making a girl gag. It doesn't get me off. It does not add a significant amount of pleasure that it is worth watching someone be uncomfortable.

    I think it is some sort of sadism disorder when people want that so badly. But some are into it I guess.

    One time I gave head to a broom handle so I know it's hard. I said I would do that before I ask someone to give me head for 10 minutes. I could only keep it up for 4.5 minutes and even that was tough. Lol.

    Just so I could put myself in their shoes you know.

    Don't tell anyone I said that.
     
  14. Jayrizzael

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    I have had the pleasure of giving oral 3 times so far and I can tell you that gagging hurts like hell, but in a good way, for me it's really about humiliation (I also enjoy small amounts of pain) so the gagging felt good to me, the problem though was that I was the one initiating it whereas it should be the other way around, to me it seemed as though the men weren't enjoying it too much so I didn't do it too often but still I would love to have a man fuck my throat.

    Different strokes for different folks I guess.
     
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    This is pretty much how I feel too, worded a lot better than the way I put it above though.

    If humiliation is something that turns you on then it is very arousing to have the man encourage you to gag through various means. Being held down and handled dominantly feels very humiliating for me and I enjoy it a lot.
     
  17. RichardTheFrog

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    I get no pleasure out of making or seeing a girl gag.

    I like getting head, for sure, and the wetter the better, but it serves no purpose to gag someone for no reason other than to watch them do it.
     
  18. Jayrizzael

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    I have yet to have anything like that happen to me but I fantasize about it all the time, it's harder to find someone to treat you like their bitch than you'd think it was.

    I mostly attracted to women but lately I have thought more about males than ever, dominant women are extremely rare so I figure that I would have better luck with men, guess I'll just have to see how it goes.
     
  19. imperfectsoul

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    I will probably echo the sentiments above. I think in his case, it definintely is about dominance over you. I think the appeal of gagging for guys maybe, is them seeing us go through pain to bring them pleasure when they make us choke.

    I like this too, I think mostly because I find male dominance really sexy - when a guy takes control, gets what he wants or uses me just as he wants. It's humiliating, but a turn on at the same time, to feel like his toy. This especially when a guy takes charge and forces me to deep throat and gag on him. It's a love/hate thing for me, but I love it more than I hate it to be honest. lol.
     
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  20. MochaMood

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    In my experience, the smaller the cock, the greater the excitement if I gag. My gag reflex can be subdued, but it is very strong. I think it is psychosomatic because sometimes I feel like gagging just contemplating pushing a dick into my throat. But the smaller the penis, the greater the expression of excitement I observe from my partners when I gag. This makes me think it has something to do with some men enjoying anything that implies a big, hard to swallow erection.
     
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