Is It Hard To Be A Man? :(

Discussion in 'Free Love' started by TheSamantha, Oct 5, 2014.

  1. Annwyn'Bri

    Annwyn'Bri Member

    Messages:
    660
    Likes Received:
    285
    Groan....
     
  2. RooRshack

    RooRshack On Sabbatical

    Messages:
    11,036
    Likes Received:
    548
    Imagine that....
     
  3. Dejavu~

    Dejavu~ Members

    Messages:
    822
    Likes Received:
    186
    :-D I was trying for more of a moan, but close enough I suppose.

    Had no idea it was such a serious subject! lol
     
    1 person likes this.
  4. Dejavu~

    Dejavu~ Members

    Messages:
    822
    Likes Received:
    186
    :-D If you like, but I'm straight, just so you know...
     
  5. Annwyn'Bri

    Annwyn'Bri Member

    Messages:
    660
    Likes Received:
    285
    oh god.. I'm rolling on the floor now... [​IMG]
     
  6. Dejavu~

    Dejavu~ Members

    Messages:
    822
    Likes Received:
    186
    Oh yeah baby... that's more like it! :-D
     
    1 person likes this.
  7. Annwyn'Bri

    Annwyn'Bri Member

    Messages:
    660
    Likes Received:
    285
    LOL.. I knew you'd jump on that one....
     
  8. Dejavu~

    Dejavu~ Members

    Messages:
    822
    Likes Received:
    186
    And in turn, if you jump on this one, I know you won't regret it. :-D
     
    1 person likes this.
  9. Vanilla Gorilla

    Vanilla Gorilla Go Ape

    Messages:
    30,289
    Likes Received:
    8,562
    No, we all knew you'd cum first
     
    1 person likes this.
  10. Annwyn'Bri

    Annwyn'Bri Member

    Messages:
    660
    Likes Received:
    285
    This is so much fun..... [​IMG]
     
  11. Dejavu~

    Dejavu~ Members

    Messages:
    822
    Likes Received:
    186
    Look, I don't want to rub you the wrong way, but there's no need to lower the bar. I'm just here to make a substantial contribution to this intercourse like anybody else. :-D


    Shhhhh! Ratty and RooR are shacked up nextdoor! ;-D
     
    2 people like this.
  12. Vanilla Gorilla

    Vanilla Gorilla Go Ape

    Messages:
    30,289
    Likes Received:
    8,562
    Who doesnt have social anxiety? Most people suck

    I wonder how many people in Syria at the moment have social anxiety
     
    2 people like this.
  13. Cherea

    Cherea Senior Member

    Messages:
    12,114
    Likes Received:
    40
    It is if you are afflicted by the anxiety that dates and marriage are any different from prostitution just because the rad fems want it so. And if you waste any time in obviously male unfriendly places like swing clubs and, well...clubs. Whiteknighting chicks with zero qualities just because you need approval.

    The entry fee tells the tale.
     
  14. kool hand

    kool hand Members

    Messages:
    5
    Likes Received:
    3
    Not easy at all. Women can afford to be more choosy. I stay horny alot- fantasize alot, and just wish I could have more sex. I know younger guys get more, but as I get older, I've had to lower my standards. It must feel so powerful to have so much influence over men- you probably don't realize how much you have, or could have.
     
  15. TheSamantha

    TheSamantha Member

    Messages:
    1,546
    Likes Received:
    281
    Fuck it, just be a John, eh?
     
  16. Cherea

    Cherea Senior Member

    Messages:
    12,114
    Likes Received:
    40
    Yes, I think prostitution is a male friendly environment, as well as gay establishments, PUAs and the MRM.

    In those places they walk the talk. But you can't come in here telling me lovey-dovey stuff if I have to pay through the nose and suck up to you just to get the time of day. As VG says, you're going to get a specific kind of man if you do that, and a man I don't wanna be much less compete with.
     
  17. TheSamantha

    TheSamantha Member

    Messages:
    1,546
    Likes Received:
    281
    Are you talking about *me* or you in general? LOL I don't make men suck up to me. I approach guys at those parties. Can't fuck everyone. I was gonna do a mercy dicksuck at the last party to this lame 28-year-old child. But he said he's a cop and he said he's a dick to people and was laughing about it.
     
    1 person likes this.
  18. Vanilla Gorilla

    Vanilla Gorilla Go Ape

    Messages:
    30,289
    Likes Received:
    8,562
    Well, lets try it the other way around.

    If I said, come over to Sydney, we'll spend a Sat night at a few clubs I know, you'll be the only girl, there will be a hundred buff guys there, but you wont be the centre of attention,none of them will hit on you, a few patronizing conversations about our outfit, but other than that spend most of our time at the corner of the table sipping your drink watching them pash their boyfriends. How long would it take you to walk off in a huff? How eager would you be to do it again knowing in advance you'd end the night with the lady version of blue balls?

    Not that I really explain it to you. Not like all of this is really about you only now noticing with these swinging parties theres twice as many guys, not like you are actually unable to gauge how attractive they are, not like you are unable to tell if you are frustrated at their ability.

    Its only really now at this age you've started to put sex first, all materialism gets to be a bit of a yawn, making it all about attention is a nice ego boost, but doesnt get you laid properly, and you know now you are not really going to care about marriage or care about kids, not everyone has to.

    Still leaves the fundamental problem though, in order for them to perform for hours on end, they have to resist their own urges, not get too excited, and most importantly have to be actually able to in the first place. The guys have all the power in that way

    Ask Cherea what he pays, and what he gets some of the time, I'm sure 9/10 he gets cold starfish, with them looking at the clock, but there is always that 1 in 20 that are there for sex just as much as money, only want guys his age because the are going to last long enough for her to cum a couple times, puzzled as to why she cant get guys that age to hit on her outside the job.

    $40 to get into some swingers club with a whole bunch of guys just really parading their girlfriend or mostly middle aged couples bored of doing it to each other vs $100 for an hour with some 19 yr old college girl too horny to function,that looks way better, totally with the daddy issues that starts squirting everywhere as soon as he starts touching her.....whats to work out. Its only really becuase you werent like that at 19
     
  19. MochaMood

    MochaMood Member

    Messages:
    606
    Likes Received:
    224
    I like gay bars, especially if there is karaoke. I'll have a few drinks, chat some people up, we'll buy each oher shots, might even do a duet wih a new drinking buddy, might have a few dances, might do some wing-man stuff for a shy guy, and then when it turns into twinkfest at midnight, I might watch a few hot guys make out before they vanish into the bathrooms. I don't need to have prospects for sexual encounters to enjoy my night out.

    Teenage hookers are only more attractive to men who are more attracted to teenage hookers. Those girls gotta get their ends too, so I'm glad there are men looking for them. There are still always going to be men who are most attracted to my type. In fact, there are magazines and pornos full of my type. I have girl-next-door looks, no wrinkles, am in pretty good shape, and mostly attract men who like giant natural breasts, or long legs. Thanks to melanin, genes, and my aesthetician I'm not going to get wrinkly anytime soon, and there will always be men who like a sweet face and big tits.

    I think when it comes to looks men are in the same boat. My boyfriend has excellent muscle tone, gorgeous brown eyes, soft facial hair, clear skin, juicy lips, a tight ass, and broad shoulders. I have seen women stare at him. I have seen women get nervous and start stammering. There will always be women who are drawn to his type. He also has a big dick (average length, big girth). There will always be women who are looking for that too. I am not only far beyond my late teens, but five years older than he is. If he wanted a 19 year old, he could have found one for free (well, the cost of dating), let alone consorted with a working girl.

    I don't think teenage prostitutes are universally appealing as you seem to imply. I think there are as many preferences as there are people to fill them.
     
  20. Annwyn'Bri

    Annwyn'Bri Member

    Messages:
    660
    Likes Received:
    285
    I've learned that it takes all kinds to get people's motors running. I use to think that you had to be young and skinny, but now that I'm older, I'm meeting a lot of guys especially who love women of my age and size. It really amazed me, I couldn't wrap my head around it for the longest time. But I'm starting to understand. When I ask them why, it's very interesting to hear their answers.

    So you can't generalize attractions to one another.
     
    1 person likes this.

Share This Page

  1. This site uses cookies to help personalise content, tailor your experience and to keep you logged in if you register.
    By continuing to use this site, you are consenting to our use of cookies.
    Dismiss Notice