I don't know about being a man, but I'd like to chime in to say that being a woman sucks. Surely, I can get sex easily from men I find attractive, including at swingers clubs. But that's the only advantage. Our bodies are full of BS, with all the hormonal disadvantages, periods and the like. I'd never choose to be a woman, if it was up to me. I try to make the most of it, but I'd have even more fun if I were a man. And I've recently found out it is very easy for men to get sex on demand, too, without paying a prostitute. The ones who don't get it are just using a very bad and flawed technique. A side comment for the prejudices expiring from some posts. Why should anyone feel the need to offend a person who likes sex and chooses to enjoy it? Live and let live!
I haven't heard anyone berate you for being gay Pressed Rat, so why are you berating others? Oh well, I can see from the responses that the people participating in this thread aren't the least bit impressed with your tirade. Adam Lanza, really? Whose the sicko here?
Seems like each gender has to deal with unique socially-assigned problems and double standards. The nice part is that if a group of people decide that the rules don't matter, than the rules don't matter. A lot of social rules only exist if you agree that they do. It's pretty liberating.
I believe this is one of silverhippies many alters. When he got banned for them, a bunch, with the same personality (though somewhat different walks in life... but none too different) and many even having the same avatars, showed up. They've dwindled, so I could be wrong. Or maybe it's just his favorite. HF is the only place I've ever encountered the masturbation-trolls, but we do have a fuckton of them - let's pretend not to understand basic concepts and try to get people to describe sexual stuff in detail, and jack off to it.... what fun, can't see any better way to spend an evening. Or, maybe we just have like one or two, with thousands of accounts.... the new account almost seems to be the point - we have legitimate masturbators who stick around, and don't really bother me (as long as they're not nz male). Either way, I mantain my long-held belief that there should be some type of strict moderation of the sex forums, to stop them from masturbating into the rest of our brains. A post requirement to enter would be a great start. Hopefully the disappearance of the trashier feeling sex ads will help make it not look like that kind of place.
I wonder if NikeGirl is one of their aliases. Something seriously needs to be done about all the troll accounts on this site.
Yeah, they really do drag it down, and make it unpleasant to even check new posts, sometimes. I also maintain my long-standing offer to come up with effective rules and moderation practices that don't squash legitimate discussion (even that which is erotic in nature - it just needs containment and to be conducted by credible members), and mod the sex forums to kill that crap.
get rid of all the trolls and you'll be sitting around an empty forum talking back and forth with bbad all day. it'll be like that other forum, once andrew and josh were the only ones left.
HF is a lot less appealing to new people who might stick around more, than if it wasn't a giant circle-jerk.
Pressed Rat of all people. He just let it all rip, didn't he? Sharp tongues roll off my back sometimes, if they are not direced at me, of course...lol....as I heard 2 of the masters of sharp tonguedness most of my life.....and PR is only a light weight compared to those heavyweights....and many times, it was directed at me..not PR, but the one in my life other than here........and it hurt like hell, but now I am immune to it.....got the antitdote already. Look up Harlan Ellsion, PR....He was master of sarcasm and could be quite nasty. You remind me of him....but there is that softie inside, now isn't there?
Karen, he is now on my mine. My ignore list keeps getting longer by the minute. When you think about it, that's pretty sad. Unless that's his goal.
Aside from the response of PR and others from the morality police. thread is still a giveaway. You are not going to get the guys you really want in the swingers set, they are not going to put themselves in a situation where they are going to have a couple dozen other guys angry at them, or freely show up to have a bunch of women act like it would be such an honour to poke them when they know full well those women are a lot more hornier than they are and want it more than they do. 5 guys in one night means the first 4 at least werent worth spending the rest of the night with. "Big black dicks rule" is irrelevant with the guys that can make you cum without even touching you Your opening post, most of it sounds about trying to rub their nose in it, getting attention, that power you supposedly have over men....just let it all go, the ones you really want arent going to put up with that, whether its back when you were 19, or now, you never had any power over them and you never will Is it harder to be a man?, not in the sense that they are anywhere near as dependant on the ability of the other person as you are. That doesnt really even register with most guys