Fuck Buddies (Your Opinion)

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by James, Aug 16, 2014.

  1. James

    James Visitor

    Hello all,
    I am a newcomer to this website, and have noticed how good these conversations are getting. I thought I would start one about fuck buddies, particularly in Australia (that is if you live there etc).
    I've heard it's all in your actions as to whether you find one or not, and it takes time. I've recently been chatting with some girls about it, but location and time etc is a worry.
    I live in Melbourne, and it's been quite hard to find one, but I wanted to see if people here have similar problems or experiences with this in the Melbourne region, or anywhere in particular.

    Hope this can become an exiting topic, with stories and experiences to be shared.

    Thanks

    I'm also from Australia, Melbourne.
     
  2. AngelAus

    AngelAus Member

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    I've never found a problem in Perth, but it might be easier being female.
     
  3. jspader

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    Had to make another account, as guests don't work.
    So, AngelAus.
    I am a guy though... and was wondering now if you have ever done anything similar?
     
  4. -Yggdrasil-

    -Yggdrasil- Einherjar

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    If there's a distance issue between the girls you're talking about I'd assume you're discussing this online with them?
    Well the first problem if that's correct is a fuck buddy should probably live close to you or else they're kind of a buddy that you can't fuck and aren't fucking?

    And I don't think it's a case of "where do they live in Australia" it's more of a case of how the individual female expresses her morals and desires. You could live in a city statistically high of flying solo women and it doesn't mean you're going to hook yourself some no strings chick down to fuck every once in a while.
     
  5. jspader

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    That's not what I am after. I'm just asking for opinions on this topic.
    I've been talking to this girl that I don't particularly like a lot, but she is very funny etc. I've mentioned a lightsaber as a reference to a dick, and the conversations just get better from there. I'm not sure if she gets what I am talking about, as she hasnt directly said so yet, but I get a feeling she does.
    I told her that next time we meet, give me a signal for when you want to see my lightsaber, which I was referring to starwars or something.
    Do you think that could work?
     
  6. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Lifetime Supporter

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    Hm. FWB/FB takes a good amount of communication, just like an emotional relationship. Especially in laying out expectations an boundaries.
    Issues I see come up in FWB couples include: cuddling, overnights, hanging out that looks or feels like a "date," what happens if one meets and starts to date someone else, time frame for scheduling or canceling.

    Oh, also receptivity. If one partner is expected to always say yes, but the other always has excuses, someone. Is getting hurt feelings or a bruised ego.
    And that's a good reason to get out.
     
  7. AngelAus

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    How do you mean? I've had a few FB if that's what you mean..
     
  8. tammy126

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    Both he and I have fuck buddies. My husbands best friend often takes care of my sexual wants when the husband travels. Both of us are Bi so not only does he service me but his wife Anne and I enjoy girl time. My husband and Allen also have man sex all the time. We have never been happier.
     

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