spanking help

hi everybody, im new to hipforums so i look forward to discovering more about spanking as i explore these forums.

i'm looking to experience the pain of a hard hairbrush/paddle/belt spanking, but i have no one to spank me. due to security reasons, i don't want to meet anybody new and give them control to spank me so i am looking for advice on how to experience the pain of a real spanking by myself.

the only implements i have available are a small paddle, a small wooden rod, a plastic ruler, and my hand. one problem that i run into is that i am unable to finish the spanking because i quit when it gets too hard. please help thanks

 

U can't get the same effect the other person is like half of it I think u need to go out and start dating someone and after u r with them for a bit then u will trust them. Or maybe u have a friend that would want to spank u.

 

Hi Everyone!
I'm also new to this forum and I have always wanted to be spanked but I'm not sure of the best way to start our who I might go to. My spouse has no interest in spanking and this is something I'm craving. Does anyone have any suggestions for me? Thanks

 

I’ve done that with self spanking. Matching instrument and stokes. Painful but satisfying.
Vanilla spouse so I need other means of gratification.

 

If you need a dad figure to instruct you I volunteer. I’ll be glad to have you bottom burning and tears flowing.

 

I ended up going to a few fet life meetings. The tame ones but you could spank or be spanked. Clothes had to stay on but you could wear the briefest of underwear to meet that rule. I learned a LOT from getting hit and getting instructions on how to spank. Where to place my hands or the paddle or whatever, how to "read" the bottom you're touching up. All that. They were all strangers so it was fine. A little difficult doing it in front of other people but I watched for about 10 minutes before I was willing to drop my pants and give it a try. Somewhere I saw a self spanking device and I'll post here if I find it.

 

Don't post links please to commercial sites though . Just a picture will suffice
Thank you

 

Here's a pic of that self spanking machine (no link and I'm grateful for the reminder!). I assume that there are settings for various strengths and intervals, etc., but I'm not sure. Not as convenient as a willing partner but I bet it feels good when the mood strikes and you don't have a friend to bend you over!

 

What you need to do is find someone safe and sane and communicate by email. Get to know the person, share your desire and needs, and ask for a punishment order. You would then follow through on the order. A good disciplinarian like me would respect your limits and start you off slow. For example, when I do it, I order 10 with the hand, then 10 with the paddle, both at medium force. It’s not terribly painful, but will teach you a lesson. I would continue that punishment for a while until you got used to it and then order an additional 5 swats both the hand and paddle. In time, you would be able to properly chastise yourself.

 

with self spanking you really have to get in the right head space or have a plan like the number of spanks and with what so you must complete the spanking and in time it can be rewarding .

 

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