I've inserted candles a few times, but I usually try to avoid them. I'm just afraid that they might break and it might be pain in the ass (pun intended) to get the pieces out. So I stick to really smooth pens or lately cucumbers. I'm into submissive stuff, so I made myself a rule that if I want to stimulate my anus, I must insert something that is at least the same size as my own cock. I guess it's similar to the ''if you want me to swallow your cum, you better be prepared to do it too''. Only it's ''if you want to fuck me with that cock, you better be ready to receive it yourself.''
As I mentioned earlier, mine broke in the middle, but I had wrapped the whole candle with adhesive tape beforehand! So it did not get stuck in there.
Hmmm! First of all, a DILDO is the safer and better one! :book: When I was young, I remeber that some young boys and girls doing it, candel in ass or pussy. I thought, it is weird! However, I am a mide age adult. I am not gay. I am stright, but also bicurious! Some days ago, I wanted to feel something in my ass! I never thought about it before and never been done. But my ass was very tight! After searching some advices from the net, I started to stimulate my anus using some toys (lubricant). First it was not easy. After some tries it worked. It was opening my ass, good! I was just fingering myself. oh yes! Some days later I wanted to try big thing in my ass. some cylendrical ting. Be aware :dizzy2: it should not be small and prepare not loosing it inside your ass! Make the end of candel big and thick, to make stop it at that point. You have to grab and hold tight the candle in your hand! Be careful of fragile material or easy to break, use Hygiene! It is safe to put the candle in the condom and tie string to the mouth. Its better to wrap it with a tape and then in a condum! Use enough water based toys to ease and please! Dont be in a hurry, take it easy ! good stimulation, rithmic breathing, relaxing. Then it goes in very well. In and out gently. Oh yes, Its nice, mmm! I did it and used a 23 cm candel in my ass. It's maybe fun but weird and may be danderous. :bigcry: I strongly recommend a nice dildo. Dont push the candel or other thing hard. should be comfortable and no pain! I recommend a nice or soft didlo, which you can buy from Sexshop! Have a pleausre! :daisy: View attachment 1016 '
It was perfectly safe when I used one every day after school. I used a long slender one I found in a drawer. Just lube it up and know what your limitations are. Don't hurt yourself but go ham that was my go to for years