Hello everyone! Im in a long distance relationship and have been for 5 months now..we are great together! I love her unconditionally and she loves me the same...its one of those loves I guess that we have all had probably at some point indescribable! However I was wanting some feed back. has anyone else in here been in a long distance relationship? If so how did it work out for you? I live 500 miles away and we have both been traveling often to see each other. we message daily and talk as often as our busy lives allow us to. we both want to live together and we both have kids tht makes things slightly complicated. Becuase we cant just up and move. I just wonder how something like this has worked or didn't work out for others. what struggles you faced and maybe how you overcame them. Thanks Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-N900A using Tapatalk
longest distance relationship so far was about 120 miles, we saw each other on weekends and spoke on phone - then when I moved inn with her (I lost a job when the contract got transferred to a different company) she became a monster.
Wow im sorry to hear that it. So seems like it was great when you werent living with her then everything fell apart. We both have talked about moving I to her or her to I she would have to sell her house or I would have to up take my daughter further away from her father. We both have jobs we have been at for years. I love her and feel im willing to consider me moving an option. Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-N900A using Tapatalk
it is not that I would never consider it again, she just happened to turn out to be an abusive person. In fact I am starting to really like a friend I am talking to from a much longer distance - cross-country (it just has not reached relationship stage yet). I think if you take the time to get to know someone it can work out.
Im ready for the next step for her to move bc thats what we decided. She says she loves me and cant imagine life without me... she admits shes scared and I agree...at first I pushed the subject..then I thought to myself tht is selfish and I stopped told her to do what she wanted to do when she was ready and I would help her in any way she wanted me too..all she has to do is tell me.. Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-N900A using Tapatalk
I am happy that things are working out, I guess just be as supportive as possible and she will decide that the two of you can be together when she feels a bit safer and more comfortable.
I have been in one and it did not work out. I have faith in others who have long distance relationships, but it is just not for me. They only problem I had was anxiety and my other cheated on me. But luckily told me right after.
I started dating a girl I met off plenty of fish. We lived 1500km away and dated for 8 months before she came to my city to pick me up to move in with her. This was the first time we met and we were moving in! It was very weird living with her and we fought a lot and broke up a handful of times and are currently not living together anymore but still dating. Long distance is hard though and I would not do it again. I am quite an affectionate person and not getting what I need because of long distance made me want to wander. I think that was the hardest part of it.
just an update, I had met someone long distance last year and we just messaged as friends for very long - recently it became serious and it turned out she was lying all along, yet another scammer - NEVER will I consider someone I do not know IRL again, period
Hi everyone, I'm new here but thought I would share about my LDR (sorry this is a while later than the post!) I worked in California last summer and met a girl there. I had never considered being in a relationships with a girl but there was something about her and we have been in a really stable relationship since then. I live in England which means a 5000 mile relationship! It's a long way and we have to work really hard at it. She visits me and I visit her, but we are both students and it costs a lot of money! We have made it work for 1 year and 3 months so far still going strong! She's hoping to move here next year so fingers crossed we will keep going, I can see myself with her forever!
