Would you forgive a Cheater?

Lol....

Altho... now I'm thinking this thread may not be worth a relevant story...

 

Real love doesn't exist.

 

How do you know that for certain when you only had an online relationship?

 

Who the hell is this person? lol.


(be back in 20 mins.)

 

I cannot know... but yeah, and Asmodean, would you forgive a cheater or not?

 

Maybe you just never yet experienced it.

Maybe those of us who think it does are deluded. But if you don't believe in real love, why so big a deal over sexual monogamy?

 

Because I think it's disrespectful to cheat on someone.

 

It's like those guys that have a filled in block on a tattoo where the ex GF's name used to be.:daisy:

 

I could but they would most likely be out (of the relationship) anyway. In the end it would all depend on the actual details, it is easy to say no in a hypothetical situation. That's why I regard most of your opinions as pointless (well that and you're probably a caucasian male yourself)

Happily people don't cheat on me (i'm very intimidating) :cheers2:

 

You don't believe in love, but you expect them to respect you?

 

If you were in love with someone else it might be disrespecting yourself, the other person and even nature itself not to act on it.

 

Respect and love are two different things.

 

Also, both necessary in a healthy, adult relationship.

 

Yep, so hence why I said I won't fall in love with someone else while in a relationship.

 

If you don't believe in love, but at the same time think you can control love, you seem to be in a bit of a muddle.

 

If a person does not love you but only respect you, then goes to another girl who he doesn't respect at all but who he loves and makes loves to is he then cheating ON you or cheating WITH you? :mickey:

 

If he only respects me, then there isn't a relationship, period, lol. :sunny:

 

But you claimed to believe there is no real love anyway! Does this mean there isn't a relationship atm?

 

Okay... two situations. How do you know once you're with someone for 2, 4, 8, 10, 20, 30 years (whatever... a while.) that the relationship, although both people love each other, couldn't go through a rocky patch which leaves either person in it to be more susceptible to falling for someone else? When things like that happen, some people chose to leave and other people realize that they want to work on the original relationship. To automatically not forgive the other person after 2, 4, 8, 10, 20, 30 years is a bit silly considering in MANY, MANY cases after a situation such as that the people who both decide to stay together and make things work end up MUCH happier than before?

Also... Sometimes people just get messed up with a friend and do stupid things cause they're drunk or something. That can be just a spur of the moment thing that wasn't given any thought at all and the person could feel very, very bad about it.

It just seems like to assume that neither of those (or other situations) would NEVER happen in a 10, 20, 30 (whatever) year relationship to either person is a bit silly. Not that those things always happen... but they happen a lot. Some people work things out. Some don't. But it depends on the total situation... whether the relationship is worth it, if the person truly feels bad, etc., etc., etc. (it depends on a lot of stuff. a lot!)