I'm not a lesbian, but...

I can't help finding the female body so attractive. I've noticed that when I choose porn for masturbation, its usually either male/female (mostly romantic style), or female masturbation. I'm not really "confused" about my sexuality. I've had a few experiences having sex in the same room as other couples, and each time the other girl would initiate playing with me like groping my breasts or kissing me. And I've had one threesome, and during the threesome I did lick her vag (which I wasn't really turned on by!). I know I do not want to hook up with another girl but I still find *watching* or looking at the female body sexually arousing. And I would say its mostly lipstick or very feminine women I find attractive. Hmm maybe I'm a closet lesbian haha.

 

Kicks your potential from 50% (men only) to 100%. Seems like a good deal to me.

 

Lesbian is just a word. Why not just feel what you feel and enjoy what you enjoy? I guess it's only natural to analyze though.

 

Whatever makes one 'happy' is all that ever matters

 

The female body is very beautiful. It comes in so many different shapes and forms. The male body isn't as exciting or interesting at all. At least that's how I see it but then again I'm gay. Like wcw wrote, Lesbian is just a word. Just go with the flow

 

To worship the female body for THEIR pleasure, is strongly desired. I don't go both ways, so that cuts me down to 50%. And then since I'm old----probably about 1%. Dammit!

 

happilyinlove, I feel exactly the same! . I don't think I'm a lesbian, either. Women are just sexy.

 

Well I'm really glad that someone else shares my feelings!



I've wondered about this in the past, whether I would/should act on my visual desires. I've decided that I don't want to. I have never had a compelling feeling to do something physical with a woman - just appreciate our beauty


Thanks for the support you guys

 

It may be that when the time, mood and person/s are right, then---------you know--maybe.

 

I'm the exact same way. I only watch lesbian or masturbation porn because I really have no desire to watch men in porn. I love women and think they're beautiful, but I also have no real urge to have sex with a woman. I just like looking at them!

 

I've had a guy masturbate in front of me… i don't now if it was the fact that I didn't like him more than a friend or what but it did not turn me on at all. Yet on the other hand if my fiancé starts rubbing his dick I will get so turned on..even if he like strokes it juuust slightly Im like omg! But as far as watching male jerk off porn, it doesn't do much for me. Yet watching female porn like, up skirt or whatever Idk its hot!

 

I am not one, either...but do appreciate the beautiful female body in all of its art forms, too....Never been witha girl...Thought about it...but I think that is just a natural thing to do....did not act on it....not yet, anyway...! LOL....do not plan on it, either.

I understand what you meant here.

 

As an older 'hippy' I've come to the conclusion, from a long time spent contemplating just this subject, that the male body is more of an acquired taste for all. Where-as the female body and face, is more beautiful and much more palatable.

My girlfriend is exactly the same. She's adamant that she's not a lesbian or bi but only watches what she calls 'women porn'. I'd call it lesbian porn but sex is very black and white for me. I've also heard this same opinion from many non-lesbians, as well.

I am bi but I have to be in the right mood to act on it and most often, afterwards, I've been pretty uneasy about what I've just done. That's never happened when I've been with a women.

Maybe I'm not even bi, as such, either. Maybe I've just gone with situations and it's been about the person I've been with. Or persons. Yeah, I think that's a bitter way to see orientation ie there isn't such a thing, there's just those that are more open to different experiences with somebody else. With gender not being an issue; although that in itself can be a turn on. Because it's a bit naughty.

I'll point out that I don't gay-up at present, being in a relationship an all. Be nice if I could, maybe but it wouldn't be decent and that's just not cricket.

 

Eh when I look at an attractive girl, I normally think "I wonder what skin products does she use" or "who does her hair" =)

But yes, girls are aesthetically pleasing.

 

Sounds like you have it figured out and are having fun. Enjoy

 

Females look and feel amazing, appreciating that doesn't make you a lesbian, it just makes you openly human in my opinion. I'm personally incredibly attracted to women, but I definitely prefer men. Not straight, don't really think it matters much though. ^_^

As for the female porn thing, I get that too. I enjoy watching what the man can do for the woman (or in my mind, me) not the man himself.

And as for watching your fiance touch himself but not enjoying male masturbation porn, that's probably just you enjoying him enjoying himself. An emotional connection can do awesome things to a monogamous sex drive!

 

I believe a lot of women feel that way, it is perfectly fine.

 

I'm the same way. I love massive tits and buttzillas. I masturbate to naked women. Some people would say that I'm putting myself in the girls position and wish I looked like her. That's not true! I find that very annoying. I look AT the girl. Sometimes I fantasize that I'm a guy watching a woman undress and fondling her.

But I don't get turned on by eating pussy. I feel nothing when I do it. (Then again, I feel nothing when I suck dick too).

This revelation was very disappointing. I have an investment in the LGBT community. I was peer counselor at my alma mater's LGBT center, I've been to two gay parades, I marched in one, I watch the gay channel LOGO, I took two Queer Studies classes, and I'm a member of DCBiWomen. So the bisexual identity isn't just about fun and games or threesomes to me.

Right now I'm leaning towards not using labels, just doing what I'm interested in. People don't take bisexuality seriously anyway, they think bisexual men are just gay and that bisexual women are just straight women who want to impress people. So I don't know...

 

imo mayb the women tend to look like they are having the most fin. Whilst the men are more like the silent partner, there to enjoy the female(s).

 

It sounds like a fetish more than anything else. The female body turns you on, and I think that's normal as it is a physical reflection of your own form, and in that regard you should admire it. But it doesn't sound like you attach any emotions to this visual fascination of yours, and unless there are some profound feelings involved you got nothing to worry about.