Anal deprived

Years ago my wife told me "we don't like that anymore"
Lol

 

Hard to say OP. I never had Anal with my wife prior to our marriage (little did I know I would fancy it so as I got older). So too my wife's credit we go down the Hershey highway only a few times a year and with mixed results, so it's not a regular.

It could be she's fed up with having diarrhea or cum dribbling out her ass after a few years of pleasing you, or it could be something else. I for one realize it's not a "natural" aspect of sex in that it's not exactly how our bodies were built. While some woman may derive pleasure from it and so much the better for them and their happy husbands, I think may woman have yet to discover that pleasure and for them it's a chore.

Course I could be talking out of my ass too...

 

'natural', whatever. as if we obey what's 'natural' for our bodies any other time, except when we're trying to make some moralistic point.

 

Lol.

 

If it's that important, divorce her. No point in cheating. If you are not willing to divorce her, then it's not that important to you.

I agree with some of the posters, maybe she never really enjoyed it and is tired of the chore. You never did say why she stopped doing it.

Hemorrhoids can be a problem too. Do you have kids?

Maybe the extra 70 lbs is a turn off or it makes it painful or not as pleasant. Only she knows, ask her!

 

Anal is anal, not everyone likes it and IMO she probably let you but got tired of it. Only she knows really but for guys to expect it because they have wives or girlfriends is just ridiculous.
When will you anal whining guys believe many don't want something in their ass? I am starting to think this waaaa, over anal is kinda funny. It's nice knowing there are more like me who wouldn't allow it just because we don't want to.
Try putting something in your own ass and if you like it buy her a strap on and take it all you want, or,,, buy one of them big ass anal foamy asses they sell on the web. For twenty five bucks you can stick it in all you want and the reciever won't have anything to say about it because it has no head or pain or Ikkk responses to deal with because it's just an ass.
How many of you who complain about your wives not letting you stick her in the ass can say you want one in your ass? Any? Become the reciever and life goes on, happy happy happy,,, everyone happy.

 

Maybe try talking to her and asking her why she will not allow you.
Did she ever like it herself?
And intentionally it is her body.
13 years is a long time though.

 

I see some didn't like my post that said stick something in your own ass, haha

It's one thing to expect it for yourselves but tell you to take it yourselves and it's suddenly not such a fun thread huh.

Anal is not a given in sex. It's a preferred thing for few maybe but many women do it because they think that'll keep their man happy, if you already had it and she ended it finally why be here complaining to the world your wife shut ya down?

 

She might be having problems that she doesn't want to discuss. I've heard that you can get anal fissures from anal sex. I did not hear that from a doctor or any other expert. I probably heard it from women I used to work with, I'm not sure.

 

Well when you get a tear you just stop for a while until it mends. =p

 

Scary thing would be, a tear on your hand you can watch it and make sure it heals up, you can't see inside your butt to know when it is fully healed and did it heal right. I am thinking a cut like thing where poop has to pass with all of it's bacterial stuff might be a bad thing. A cut on a hand can heal by using medical stuff to help if you see it isn't clearing up.

 

Married 13 years---the wife gets tired of butt-fucking---and someone says get a divorce?? Is that what he should claim on the divorce papers as a reason? What the fuck??

Good thing there're no serious issues to worry about.

 

I say ask her and if she says it ain't happenin then he needs to realize she gave already and has a right to shut it down. A guy wants to be glad she didn't shut it all down, she has the right to say when she is done with the back door thing especially because he was lucky she would in the past. For many it's just a pipe dream. I am sure there are other bits on her that are just as much fun to play with that she might even get her jollies from.
Divorce her? Ha that's good if she ain't into sex at all and he was but to be a baby about it and leave her before thinking about what else she does that's great would be his mistake.

 

I like your idea, Sally. Goose--Gander---------

 

I have to call this one, half hour ago? Really? All cleaned up and ready to go, webbing it?
I dunno but I can't even report on any of my sexcapades in half hour, this almost sounds like, in the back door, out the front door and heading for the store,,,, for smokes, don't your mate wonder why you ran for the computer so soon?

Sorry I had ta because it just sounds kinda funny, so I ran with it. Hee hee

 

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Reason for divorce: wife stopped taking it in the ass.

 

Hey, I think the OP was lucky to have gotten any at all. Now, myself, I used to be really appalled by the idea of it. My hubby has been watching lots of online butt action, sandwiches and stuff. I felt very judgmental. But, when he'd sneak a finger around my asshole, it felt good! I couldn't deny that. A finger inside made me want to shit, and I worried I actually would, but still it felt good, as long as he had his damned finger nails trimmed!

I actually bought some ass toys after I started to get a bit aroused watching butt-fucking action online. It still scares me, though.

Now, I never had kids but I do have hemorrhoids, and this brings me to the question: can I ever have successful anal sex? The other night, I tried to let my hubby push in, but it hurt sooo bad I had to stop him, and then he discovered blood and felt really bad that he had hurt me.

Until you've had something that big try to go up your ass and cause unimaginable pain, you can't complain - zero, zip, zilch!!!

As for gaining 70 lbs, and she has stayed the same?! Geez, dude, just imagine if the reverse had happened! My hubby is about 40 lb overweight and pretty much has always been that way except when we both slimmed down for our wedding. Though I accepted him that way going into our relationship, I have to say that fat does NOT turn me on, on myself and on a man. I love him for lots of reasons, and of course would love if he lost the weight, but it isn't a deal breaker for me. I might be more into sex if he did, though. You might try losing half of that 70, if only for yourself and your health. When people let themselves go, I think in part they've stopped caring about THEMSELVES. Why should she care if you don't? I know it isn't easy, and my hubby is trying to lose weight for himself.

 

I feel your pain bro. My wife doesn't put out either. We've talked about it (going once a week) but she won't follow through with it. She won't even TRY. She wonders why I watch so much porn and masturbate so often.

 

I think your wife never really liked anal, and you never picked up on that. She eventually got tired and stopped doing it.

If your wife were enjoying anal and orgasming from it, she would probably be still into it.

Too many guys treat their wives butts like it's for their pleasure, and she has to bear through it. I have been married for 13 years and I admit, anal is not as often as it use to be, but wifey asks for it a few times a month cuz she knows I go all out with the oral and massages etc....

 

Not even allowed to try anal play or anything. Can touch her butt, that's about it.