Sex With Person Of Same Sex - Under What Circumstances

Under what circumstances would you be daring enough to have sex with someone of the same sex as you & but maybe you felt uncomfortable about trying it , what circumstances would you be daring enough to.
Even if you are either a straight guy or girl or maybe just bi curious ?

 

Pretty unlikely for me. I can't say it would be a 100% no go but I don't see many scenarios where that would happen. But to each their own.

A few friends and I were recently talking about this scenario...what if you're getting the best blow job you've ever had and at some point you find out that she is a he? What do you do? My friend who is one of the most conservative people I know said "If it's that good...shit. Why stop?" I was pretty surprised so I said "Ok...but...knowing what you know....do you go back for seconds later? That's the question." He said "You already did it. Why not go back for more?" I was kind of shocked. It doesn't bother me at all but I really wasn't expecting him, of all people, to say that.

 

Never. It's just not my thing.

 

During a three way (me, another guy, and a woman) I had sex with the other man.. It was nice! Id repeat the experience maybe if I trusted the people a little more.. Or if I was drunk enough (which I was)

 

i guess there's a few situations. something along the lines of "i have your mom hostage, and i'll kill her if you don't buttfuck ronny" is definitely one of them. another would be if i was offered large sums of money. i mean, i wouldn't require millions or anything. maybe 5k to pitch or 20k to catch. it's hard to negotiate a price without actually being in the situation.

 

But would you take $2000 to catch? Because...now we know it could happen but we're just negotiating prices?

 

only for you. :sunny:

 

FIXED...:2thumbsup:



Cheers Glen.

 

The deal just gets better!

 

Watch out because Backdoorman "Loves anal whores!" He didn't specify which gender.

C/S,
Rev J

 

Under what circumstances would I have sex with someone of the same gender? The exact same ones under which I would have sex with someone of the opposite gender.

Down with the gender bias :2thumbsup:

 

Under what circumstances? She has to be someone I'd want to hang out with, and be easy on the eyes. She also has to make her interest unmistakably clear. I'll be the aggressor with a man, but I NEVER make the first move with other women.

 

Ever since my adolescent years of regular Circle Jerks with my peers, I had always known that I frequently had fantasies of the Gay inclination, but had always been told that this was perfectly normal, and that all Straight men had these fantasies. However, not surprisingly, no-one I knew would admit to having them, which convinced me even more that I was probably just some kind of pervert.

It wasn't until many years later that I came to learn that there was no such thing as being Gay or Straight, just varying shades of grey along the Bisexual line.

Eventually I got up the nerve to see if I could go through with it for real, or if they were nothing more than mere fantasies.

I signed up for a free account with Adult Friend Finder & was soon contacted by someone who was in the area on business who said he'd like to meet up for some NSA sex. I agreed & went to his hotel room.

Right up until the last minute I wasn't certain if I could go through with it, but as soon as he stripped off & I saw his erection I realised that I, too, had one to match.

After a while of Mutual Masturbation & Oral Sex, he suggested we move on to the next level & have Anal Sex.

My heart was pounding with fear & excitement. This was a big step, but I knew I had to go through with it. I assumed the position, Doggy Style on the edge of the bed, while he approached from behind, standing on the floor. Once thoroughly lubed up he started to penetrate. At first it hurt like hell, but once he was in, the pain gave way to pleasure, and as he began thrusting, pressing against my prostate, I was amazed to find that despite my being so highly aroused, I couldn't maintain my erection, yet I felt I was constantly on the brink of an orgasm, until I couldn't hold it back any more & had the most powerful orgasm I had ever had before, ejaculating through a totally flaccid penis, without my even having to touch it.

Ever since then, despite having previously denied it from myself, I knew for certain that, despite being mainly Straight, I do have a definite leaning towards being Gay as well - probably about 70% / 30%.

Although physically I thoroughly enjoy Gay sex, there's no way I could get romantically involved with another man. Even when having Gay sex, the simple idea of kissing on the lips still repulses me.

 

I'd have to say I'm about 90%-10%. I have done a little experimentation with the same sex, all situations have had me very horny and drunk/under influence. But these times are very very few and only ever include mutual j/o and/or oral. Never anal or kissing, it's a purely sexual thing and I have only done this twice in my life. However it is interesting to kinda get out of the way some experiences so that you know beyond the shadow of a doubt that you love pussy.

But the original bj comment from the "conservative friend" that was made in one of the earliest posts pretty much sums me up although I don't know how often if at all I'd go back for a bj. I'd say "damn that was good" but it would end there.

 

Must. Give. Reputation.

 

Under no circumstances could I imagine kissing a dude, or having anal with one. A blowjob could be one thing that's not totally out of the question, and I could maybe picture it in a MFM threesome scenario, -if- the girl is really turned on by seeing it happen, and is encouraging us to go for it. But without a girl being present, no way it would cross my mind, as I'm not turned on by men.

 

I've only ever done it when I was drunk as hell.

About 10 or so times idk.

She has to be hot as hell. I like pretty feminine women. I'm feminine myself and thats what I have always preferred. I've never been the aggressor with a female. Each of the women who I hooked up with suggested it or just came up and started with me (all friends of mine). I've had friendships where some tension existed but neither of us would ever do anything until an outsider suggested we do so.

Conversely, I like men who are very masculine looking but very sweet, caring, emotional and sensual.

 

Well, if I knew the woman and felt a spark there. I'd have to be very comfortable with the person and it would be preferable if she made the first move. I identify myself as bisexual but have never had sex with a woman before. I'm nervous about it, and I'm with someone. Those are the only reasons I'd hesitate.

 

You say you are bi sexual - are you just afraid if you made the first move, the may dislike your actions maybe they tell you to go away ?

 

I will add that one time I hooked up with a friend was by her suggestion.

There was a horny guy at a party we attended (he was on leave from an all guys military school). He creeped / scared the crap out of us. So she had the bright idea that if we acted like we were lesbians, he would not be interested and it would turn him off (16 year old reckoning). It did quite the opposite for all the guys there. A little counter productive.