Fidelity and bisexuality

Discussion in 'Bisexual' started by exploring_bottom, Nov 21, 2013.

  1. Si69

    Si69 Senior Member Lifetime Supporter

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    since the OP hasn't been on here since Jan 2014 I think we can assume that the result may not have been good or he might have told us all about his bi-experiences

    Simon :)
     
  2. alexmc69

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    My female partner of 10 years has known about my cock sucking fantasies for a long time and is very comfortable with me seeking a little man on man fun every now and then. In her mind I'm seeking something she simply can't provide so there's no reason to be jealous.

    I love the idea of a MMF threesome but I'm not sure if she should see me in full enthusiastic cock sucking mode!
     
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  3. Vanilla Gorilla

    Vanilla Gorilla Go Ape

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    No, in her mind she gets all the other advantages of a husband without having to have sex as often
     
  4. Si69

    Si69 Senior Member Lifetime Supporter

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    Depends on what she accepts as 'now & then.'

    Simon :)
     
  5. QCDude

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    I can think of nothing hotter than my wife watching, even encouraging me, as I suck off a thick cock.

    Unless it would be her reaction if I said I wanted to give someone a blow job. Ouch.

    I know my partner, her acceptance of me wanting to do that would be eclipsed only by her total freak out if I said I wanted to act on that desire. Offering to let her witness the act would be like trying to put out a bonfire with a gas pump. Ill advised.
     
  6. sexcrazzed1

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    I told my wife that I was having fantasizes about sucking cock.Of corse she does not want me having sex with other men or women for that matter. But she also said I could fantasize about it all I wanted as long as it remained just that.... a fantasy. She even suggested that I could buy some porn on the subject and when the urge was there that I just go in the bedroom and watch and play. It was a win win sitution for us .First of all I dont have to hide those feelings from, I remain faithful for her, and the pleasure I get from watching porn and playing full-fill my needs
     
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  7. Ironhead

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    I would not every think about that so i have no need to tell my girlfriend she keep me ok
     
  8. lickandsuck

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    When I came out to my wife she told me that it would be alright if I found a guy to fuck because he offers something I crave that she isn't able to (I'm a total bottom). But when i filled out a profile to find a regular cock for those days you really want to suck and ride a nice dick, she was upset and and asked why she wasn't enough. She is a great woman and i love here very much and I'm not looking for a romantic relationship with a guy. In fact I don't find guys attractive. Their cocks though hmmmm. So is it cheating if you go out and have a same sex experience? Technically yes. But if your only out to get laid by the same sex partner then you are seeking something that your partner physically can not give you. This is easy for me because I'm a total bottom. I understand both sides on this topic, however I don't think its cheating if it stays same sex ( not oh well I can share the neighbor's cock with his with cause I'm wanting a bi experience that I can't get at home) then I say its alright.
     
  9. Shopfloor

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    People are not the same. Some partners prefer their partners seeing people they are of the same sex with than to for example a man cheating with another woman, you are in competition. But with a man its a totally different ball game. If my man wanted to spend time with another man I would have no problem at all. Cheating is when its done behind my back.
     
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  10. Melanie 99

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    I am a bisexual girl and I know your pain totally. But these are not the reason why you cheating on your wife, I think you need a thorough and rational conversation, this is for your wife, and responsible for your own. Only through the exchange and communication can solve the problem, cheat cannot bring any progress in your relationship
     
  11. Melanie 99

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    I am a bisexual girl and I know your pain totally. But these are not the reason why you cheating on your wife, I think you need a thorough and rational conversation, this is for your wife, and responsible for your own. Only through the exchange and communication can solve the problem, cheat cannot bring any progress in your relationship









     

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