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#1 Just_a_woman

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Posted November 11 2013 - 05:50 AM

How is sex life? How often do you do something sexual? What kind (oral, intercourse, anal)? Tell me anything you feel comfortable to share.

Would you like to have more sex? Would your partner like to have more sex? Would you like something to be different from the way it is?

Are you happy?

If it has been bad, and now is better, what have you done to provoke the change? Or what has your partner done?

Thank you for sharing.

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Posted November 11 2013 - 04:27 PM

How is sex life? How often do you do something sexual? What kind (oral, intercourse, anal)? Tell me anything you feel comfortable to share.
My sex life is awesome. We have sex as often as I want it. Depends on my mood. Sometimes every night. Sometimes once a week. Usually oral and intercourse.

Would you like to have more sex? Would your partner like to have more sex? Would you like something to be different from the way it is?
I'm good with the amount that we have. I'm sure he would like more sometimes. We're pretty open so its good the way it is. We push each other to try different things.

Are you happy?
I'm very happy

If it has been bad, and now is better, what have you done to provoke the change? Or what has your partner done?
We had a dry spell maybe 9 years ago. We were both busy with our own things. I think we just weren't emotionally as connected as we needed to be. We were always committed to our marriage but life gets busy and things get neglected. We started focusing more on our marriage and sex came along with that.

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Posted November 11 2013 - 06:20 PM

How is sex life? How often do you do something sexual? What kind (oral, intercourse, anal)? Tell me anything you feel comfortable to share.

Would you like to have more sex? Would your partner like to have more sex? Would you like something to be different from the way it is?

Are you happy?

If it has been bad, and now is better, what have you done to provoke the change? Or what has your partner done?

Thank you for sharing.

Average, maybe once a week or less, intercourse , would prefer more sexual contact from her, she wont initiate sex thou , happy - reasonably,

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Posted November 11 2013 - 06:40 PM

Sometimes I wish I'd never even had an orgasm, let alone had sex. I feel as though I'd be physically stronger, more compassionate, and just a better person overall. No scientific proof of this, it's just a hunch.

I'd be wasting a lot less energy if I never thought about sex or felt I needed it. It's an addiction in a sense, and this predatory opportunistic culture feeds it with the hyper-sexualized imagery you're taking in all the time without realizing it.

Sometimes I masturbate just to be done with it, to exorcise a demon in a way. Maybe sex works in the context of marriage, when fidelity is a sacred priority, but this culture hates the idea of sacredness. It's morally loose at best, morally bankrupt at worst...weak...subversively destructive. Just awful. I must have been a thief or a real scoundrel in a past life to have been incarnated in such a place.

Anyway, sex should be okay as it's natural, and non human animals seem to have it arranged in their lives correctly. But we just can't handle it somehow. People kill and are killed over it. Fuck that. Killing in the name of love. Like killing for Christ. Yeah, like I said, fuck that.

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Posted November 11 2013 - 06:46 PM

Sometimes I wish I'd never even had an orgasm, let alone had sex. I feel as though I'd be physically stronger, more compassionate, and just a better person overall. No scientific proof of this, it's just a hunch.

I'd be wasting a lot less energy if I never thought about sex or felt I needed it. It's an addiction in a sense, and this predatory opportunistic culture feeds it with the hyper-sexualized imagery you're taking in all the time without realizing it.

Sometimes I masturbate just to be done with it, to exorcise a demon in a way. Maybe sex works in the context of marriage, when fidelity is a sacred priority, but this culture hates the idea of sacredness. It's morally loose at best, morally bankrupt at worst...weak...subversively destructive. Just awful. I must have been a thief or a real scoundrel in a past life to have been incarnated in such a place.

Anyway, sex should be okay as it's natural, and non human animals seem to have it arranged in their lives correctly. But we just can't handle it somehow. People kill and are killed over it. Fuck that. Killing in the name of love. Like killing for Christ. Yeah, like I said, fuck that.

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Posted November 11 2013 - 07:00 PM

erm, it's ok. sometimes I feel like the emotional connection is lacking which ends up very significantly impacting the physical connection for me.

For me, love and feelings come first, sex and lust come afterwards :)

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Posted November 30 2013 - 04:09 PM

7-10 times a week..counting the 'quickie blowjobs'..ALWAYS! initiated by my wife
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Posted November 30 2013 - 04:23 PM

How is sex life? How often do you do something sexual? What kind (oral, intercourse, anal)? Tell me anything you feel comfortable to share.

Would you like to have more sex? Would your partner like to have more sex? Would you like something to be different from the way it is?

Are you happy?

If it has been bad, and now is better, what have you done to provoke the change? Or what has your partner done?

Thank you for sharing.


How is sex life? How often do you do something sexual? What kind (oral, intercourse, anal)? -- Very satisfied. We have sex every day, 2-3 times per day. I'm not especially horny (ok I am), we do it so often because we can't keep our hands off each other. We just love each other a lot. He drives me fucking crazy. One thing we really enjoy is gossiping/sharing with each other outside of sex, as well as nonverbal communication during sex. My fiancé is a big non verbal communicator so he can read me by my body and sounds. We do everything, and it seems like every time is different. I just recently let him do anal with me. I wasn't really into it because it was painful, but he has started doing other ass play type things that I enjoyed so maybe we will work up to it. I really prefer romantic sex, the moment we're both sooo excited and enjoying it is the best. My absolute favorite time to have sex is in the middle of the night I wake up in the mood and just roll over on top of him. Sometimes I'll wake up to him spreading my legs which is really sexy.

Would you like to have more sex? Would your partner like to have more sex? Would you like something to be different from the way it is? -- Lol, he would love to have sex constantly. I mean literally 24/7. I wouldn't change anything.


Are you happy? -- Very. Im so lucky and my biggest fear is losing him! Because I know I would be so unhappy without him. It's like reaching the height of ecstasy and not wanting to ever come down.

If it has been bad, and now is better, what have you done to provoke the change? Or what has your partner done? -- It's never been bad. We suffer though hardships like any couple. When we do, I'm usually less willing to be vulnerable with him. He also describes being between my legs as a privilege because he believes that if a woman is making love she is being most vulnerable with a man. He is really sensitive and difficult to anger, so if Im upset he will be even more tender which diffuses any tense situation. We go back to making love.

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Posted December 02 2013 - 08:19 PM

How is sex life?
i have not had sex with another person since Easter. I masturbate.

Would you like to have more sex? I haven't been desperate, not really missed it that much though a shag now and then would be nice. I don't have a partner, so it's not as if I have problems in that respect.

Are you happy? Extremely. Abstinence is easier that you know.

Ahhh. I wish!


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Posted December 02 2013 - 08:21 PM

a joke

like literally. I laugh.

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Posted December 02 2013 - 08:24 PM

i was never a big fan of 20 questions.

my sex life is basically non-existent. besides what i do by myself of course.

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Posted December 02 2013 - 08:50 PM

I wouldn't have a sex life with my wife unless I had to initiate sex every time.
Basically, I have to either ask if she wants sex or I would never get it as she wont initiate at all. I feel very short changed because she will never try & attempt to make the first move & initiate. It just seems far too much of a challenge for her.

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Posted December 03 2013 - 05:48 AM

It is way better then I would have ever imagined it could be at this point of my life! We are very active on a regular basis as well as setting aside whole nights just for sex including a little booze, weed and porn. Lots of oral going both ways as well as intercoarse. I never have to ask it just happens all the time. My lady has a huge sex drive so we work very well together. She is also super multi orgasmic and a big time squirter which makes it even more fun for both of us. I think the fact that the communication between us is so good is a big factor on why our sex life together is so good. There is nothing we don't feel we can say to each other fantasy or real.

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Posted December 07 2013 - 09:30 PM

It is great. I get it from my girlfriend whenever I want it. After 4 years its still great. The burning flame in this arrangement is she has 3 kids and I want a couple of my own, and I don't think she wants any more. Plus she is very absent minded. Can't even support her kids. I am going to start fresh with someone with no kids. As girls my age with no kids are hard to find and not getting any easier. lol
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Posted December 08 2013 - 02:03 AM

Answering my own question, my husband has always been an egoistic lover. And I've accepted that for a long time.

Things have finally changed. I had to demand the change and this makes it less nice. I wish he naturally liked to please me in bed.

But with the months, I do think it got better in his mind, he gets some satisfaction satisfying me.

Anyway, the end result is that we got to the point he works on my pleasure every time we have sex, and he seems to enjoy it a little. So, our sexual life is very good, now. He has become a lover I'd seek for sex, even if he wasn't my husband and I wasn't in love with him.

This has increased his confidence and that is a good thing, since we have sex with other people, together, or not.

I still often do things just for him, like the long blowjobs he loves, isolated from other sexual things, but I've always enjoyed doing it for him, so, no problem with that. Sometimes he even does it for me, I mean, giving me oral, out of the blue.

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Posted December 08 2013 - 01:02 PM

Good. I've been dating a sexually astute woman for a couple years. Daily ejaculations are very crucial to male emotional , mental and physical well being. From prostate issues to self esteem ; m/f sexual well being is key to any relationship. Sexual chemestry should be addressed early and often in the relationship.

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Posted December 08 2013 - 05:45 PM

It's dwindled a bit since we moved in together. I lived with him for a year with his mother and we barely were able to be alone. Then we moved to Central Florida and were having sex 4-6 times a week and after about 6 months it's been less. I'm lucky if it's 3 times a week. But I guess every couple goes through those periods.

I've talked to him about it and he's been more sexual towards me the past few days so hopefully it'll change.

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Posted December 11 2013 - 10:05 PM

I don't have a sex life. Other than masturbation and occasional porn.

Am I happy? - hell no. I'm a very sexual person, it's been over 2 years and I'm starting to crumble. It's getting depressing. I'm tired of people telling me I should have all kinds of men after me. No, guys don't just come up to you.

I have a mental war between morality and desires and I just want to fuck. a lot.

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Posted December 11 2013 - 10:29 PM

How is sex life? How often do you do something sexual? What kind (oral, intercourse, anal)? Tell me anything you feel comfortable to share.

Would you like to have more sex? Would your partner like to have more sex? Would you like something to be different from the way it is?

Are you happy?

If it has been bad, and now is better, what have you done to provoke the change? Or what has your partner done?

Thank you for sharing.

We have a good sex life. The frequency varies from maybe twice a week to 5-6 times. We do most everything, and swap a few times a year.

Sex is funny. If we're in a rut, sex is fun, but nothing spectacular. If we have an intense, passionate session or two, we really crave it and want to do it more. :hurray:

Yes, I'm happy! :)

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Posted December 11 2013 - 11:05 PM

its been great.. i get it on average once a day

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Posted December 13 2013 - 07:31 PM

I'm taking applications if anyone wants to give me a sex life :(

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Posted December 13 2013 - 10:31 PM

I'm taking applications if anyone wants to give me a sex life :(


Oh me too! I'm down for applications as well. My sex life is quite pathetic...and actually for very legitimate reasons.

-I work a ton
-I'm very serious about my work and I believe it is important
-I'm extremely shy in person, but a sex animal behind the curtains, and so my shyness makes it hard to approach women even though I believe I'm attractive
-I'm honestly too lazy to put the work in to "pick up" a girl at a bar...I don't care about that...I'd rather fuck like animals with someone I can relax and have a great conversation with

So yes, my sex life is virtually non-existent. I've had moments where I've decided that I can't go any longer without it, and I'll put in the effort...and I'll get the results I need. But what I really want is a great fuck buddy that I can connect with and come/cum to time and time again. I don't enjoy being fake at a bar just to take a girl home. My personality is too real for that.

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Posted January 02 2014 - 05:53 AM

fuck twice a week usually a weekend morning wood fuck and a night mid week fuck, 95% always on our sides with me behind,access to her superb titties,occasionally get to fck her titties and then get a her on her back fuck.she also occasionally wears panties for me, but not often as i usually rip them of her

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Posted January 02 2014 - 05:55 AM

I wouldn't have a sex life with my wife unless I had to initiate sex every time.
Basically, I have to either ask if she wants sex or I would never get it as she wont initiate at all. I feel very short changed because she will never try & attempt to make the first move & initiate. It just seems far too much of a challenge for her.

my wifes the same been together over 20 years and cant remember the last time she asked for sex. But give her her due every time i want sex she ALWAYS takes the cock, day or night so not sure why she never asks for it??

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Posted January 24 2014 - 06:38 AM

How is sex life?


On a scale of 1 (bad) to 10 (good), I give myself .... 7.5

How often do you do something sexual? What kind (oral, intercourse, anal)?


If you consider touching and kissing as something sexual, then it's everyday few times a day.

But if it needs have the "ritual" of getting naked, like changing clothes in front of each other, bathe together, then it's almost daily.

Finally, (I think this is what you means) we have intercourse about 3 times a week, oral is lesser, but fingering and sensual touching is almost a prelude to all intercourse.

Would you like to have more sex? Would your partner like to have more sex?


Sometime yes, most of the time no.

Would you like something to be different from the way it is?


Mentally, yes, physically no. I wish my wife & I can have sex daily, but our healths don't permit, and our children tired us out with daily chores. So we wish we can relive our honeymoon year, where we made love like rabbits, but can't. Hopefully when our kids grow up a little more, we're not too old to relive our youths. :love:

Are you happy?


I would say, generally contented.

If it has been bad, and now is better, what have you done to provoke the change? Or what has your partner done?


There are ups and downs in our sex life.

I learn a lot from the Internet, how to "make love" rather than just "have sex". I try to improve by acquiring massage techniques, foreplay techniques and make sure my wife's satisfied each time we make love.

She learns to accept me as a lover, and gained sexual confidence through the years. She changed from "never an initiator" at the beginning of our marriage to a "regular initiator".

Best of all, as I posted in another thread, she changed from a "no-doggie" to a "bend over and wait naked" girl. :crowngrin: :hurray:

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Posted January 24 2014 - 07:45 AM

sex life is good
i have sex 2 to 3 times a day and play with myself 4 to 5 times a day
more sex would be great
would love more time alone just me and my partner
yes im happy and as a couple we are happy
things have been bad, and we got through it by talking and taking things slow and only have days when we can just touch no sex

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Posted January 03 2016 - 09:07 AM

My contribution...

 

How is sex life? How often do you do something sexual? What kind (oral, intercourse, anal)?

It sucks with maybe once and if fortunate twice a month. I am always the one to have to start and most of the time rejected with some lame excuse. There is no pattern, especially since she put the Myrena and it has recently become more of a masturbation sessions rather than penetration.

 

Would you like to have more sex? Would your partner like to have more sex? Would you like something to be different from the way it is?

Obviously, a once or twice a week will be great and she taking the leading role rather than I.

Are you happy?
Obviously not.

If it has been bad, and now is better, what have you done to provoke the change? Or what has your partner done?

It has been bad and is now becoming worse

 

 



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Posted January 27 2016 - 11:37 AM

At this time I don't have anyone in my life so it's been some time since having sex. I am fortunate to have found someone online that I do have voice sessions with and they are incredibly hot. So that's about what my sex life consists of righ now.
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Posted January 27 2016 - 11:48 AM

I've been single since November of last year which wasn't that long ago. I haven't had sex or did anything sexual since than. 

I'm waiting until I find someone that I can connect with. However as of right now I'm just relaxing and talking to people as friends.

I know eventually I'll find someone.


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Posted January 27 2016 - 11:54 AM

How's my sex life? Too much life, not enough sex. I don't currently have a sexual partner, and it torments me. I am a very sexually driven individual. No sex makes me sad. I am not happy. And the older I get the worse I feel because I'm wasting all my youth away not having sex, which I'll never get back. At this rate I'll soon be a miserable old man who's too disgusted with his own body to have sex even though it's all he's ever wanted in life.  :wheelchair:

So yeah, everything's great for me. X_X


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