Question for Bisexual Men

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Hello,

I have some questions and wanted to ask for advice.
I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months. He told me 4 months ago that he thinks he is bisexual but has been hiding that aspect from everyone. It doesn't bother me at all that he is bisexual or has had sex with men. We love each other so much and we both think that we could spend the rest of our lives together. He is having identity confusion issues because he is worried he might be gay or in deep denial about his bisexuality because I one of the only people that knows. We have been so open about it but we broke up this week because he feels that he needs to figure out his sexual identity without me, otherwise we can never be together.

My question is how do I/we know if he is gay or bisexual? What could he do to help figure out his identity? I want to help him find his identity and be happy with himself so we might have a chance to be together forever.
I am open to suggestions and any help!,,,

 

I am a true bisexual. I love the look, smell, behavior of women. I also love to suck dick and be fucked by men. I have no preference. Just depends on my mood.

 

Hello,

I have some questions and wanted to ask for advice.
I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months. He told me 4 months ago that he thinks he is bisexual but has been hiding that aspect from everyone. It doesn't bother me at all that he is bisexual or has had sex with men. We love each other so much and we both think that we could spend the rest of our lives together. He is having identity confusion issues because he is worried he might be gay or in deep denial about his bisexuality because I one of the only people that knows. We have been so open about it but we broke up this week because he feels that he needs to figure out his sexual identity without me, otherwise we can never be together.

My question is how do I/we know if he is gay or bisexual? What could he do to help figure out his identity? I want to help him find his identity and be happy with himself so we might have a chance to be together forever.
I am open to suggestions and any help!,,,

 

That sounds a lot like my boyfriend he loves sex with me and we have a lot of great sex, he loves everything about women but also has the desire for sex with men, but has been faithful to me. He is confused because he spent so much time suppressing that side of him. Do you have any advice for me to help him? Or how we know he is also bisexual?

 

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That sounds a lot like my boyfriend he loves sex with me and we have a lot of great sex, he loves everything about women but also has the desire for sex with men, but has been faithful to me. He is confused because he spent so much time suppressing that side of him. Do you have any advice for me to help him? Or how we know he is also bisexual?

 

If you are ok with it, tell him to get on a site like a4a and hook up with a guy and see if he likes it. No harm in trying

 

Hi Samantha,
My experience has been straight, but I had a torrid affair with my best friend and his wife that was very bi. So even though I don't do it now, I call myself bisexual.

 

Well I am female but I really like to watch gay sex on screen.I am running my own Escorts agency in Manchester.I have saw so many men are coming and asking for gay sex

 

I heard a funny story recently. I live in France but am from an English-speaking country. A guy I know told me that here, when he puts up a photo on Grindr with his face clearly visible, some guys won't reply to his messages; but he tried recently putting up just a body shot and some of those guys who wouldn't reply before contacted him. And when he showed his face after, they told him they liked it! Some guys are so concerned with being "discreet' that they end up behaving in an erratic manner. I think a lot of guys are so scared about being labeled. Which comes back to the whole "you are gay or straight" thing - a lot of guys don't want to be confronted with the idea that they themselves might have some homosexual tendencies, so they prefer to brush away the idea and say it doesn't exist.

 

Welll if he likes sex with both men and women then I would say he is bi, the problm in this case sounds more like he is supressing he's desire to have sex with men, maybe you should both consider the option of either an open relationship, or threesomes with other bi men or simply just letting him have sex with men every now and then

 

I am 53. I always had a thing with dicks..since I was little, I loved looking at dicks. Around 8 or 9 my cousin had me playing with his dick everytime we visited. In my teens, I finally explored sucking some dicks. Depending how the pressure and the situation,at times I loved it and others I hated it. Because of society and it's judgement, I always hid my feelings. Now, I love to suck dicks,but am in no way attracted to men. I still have to keep everything a secret because of my job, reputation and my fiance is taboo against it too. I am definately bi...I've had some fucks, as top and bottom, sucked multiple dicks at once...My ex wife was cool with it for a while after I told her, we were bi swingers, then changed her tune and left...I wish I could just be open and enjoy it. As for gay or not...definately not...just bi

 

It's complete bullshit. Gay is a lifestyle. Gay is homosexuality, women IN LOVE with women and men IN LOVE with men.

Bisexuality for me is just sex. I want a man in my ass hammering away. I don't LOVE the guy. He doesn't even have to be attractive, not that I'm attracted to men. I'm all about the deviant sex. No relationship needed.............. EVER!!!!!

 

. Same for me.

 

that makes sense to me too clears a lot of the bullshit up thats goin on in my head

 

yep i agree

 

this sounds like a Cult

 

I have a theory that bi and gay are very very different animals. Some will say that bisexual men are transitioning from from straight to gay. And I think a very small number might be making the switch.

Gays, 100% homosexual people, as a group have smaller hypothalamus glands. A very large number of my gay friends are fairly asexual. They have partners and they just really don't have a sex life. The ones that consider themselves sexually active are usually only into oral.

Bisexuals, men and women, love sex. Where gays for the most part are in it for a relationship, bisexuals are in it for a cheap thrill. And I count myself among those hedonists.

 

gay is at one end of the scale.......and straight is at the other...bi is in the middle...and if anything only 50% gay...but then its 50% straight too...

 

I only date and have relationships with women but I've been with men..heteroflexible is a term I like..I'm very sexual and open minded and being with guys is purely physical..so I'm reluctant to label as bi..definitely not gay..I'm prefer woman involved when I'm with a guy and I see it more like a taboo fetishe then a lifestyle or as an identity.once in a while someone might incorporare food or toys into sex, i look at it like that..dont need it, but also no regrets...I'm very str8 looking and acting..educated self aware..unlikely I'm in any kind of denial...sexuality is a continuum not a box and I'm open to exploring all aspects of it..