Question for Bisexual Men

Hi bisexual brothers,

How do you feel about the notion that men who have sex with other men/watch gay porn, etc, are flat out gay, that bisexuality in men doesn't exist, that they are off limits to women once they have one same sex experience, forever to be gay? Does that bother you or do you just ignore it?

 

None of this bothers me in the least. This is a simply a major fallacy!

KD

 

Okay first post, forget introductions, jump right in.

Sometimes in life people decide to be stupid, as opposed to actually doing legitimate research and using good old fashioned logic and reason. We're all guilty of talking out our ass, from time to time however; there is a lot of people doing this in regards to bisexuality, and yes it's annoying but more so it makes me look down on people, and think less of them.

 

If people claim that bisexuality doesn't exist in men it's because they dont feel it and thus dont understand it.

I would class myself as bisexual man and im proud to say it. If folk dont like that then it's their problem. Just like what you buy from the supermarket has nothing to do with me my sexual preference has nothing to do with anyone else but me and my partner. It doesnt make me less or more of a person.

Life is for living.

 

well im not a guy but i call that bs.

 

It is total BS to label someone that way. It seems to be a different standard for the females; bi seems more acceptable and seems to be seen by few as outright lesbian...but gay is pretty much the normal label for men that consider themselves bi. I generally ignore it as I think little of people that are judgemental in that way.

 

i agree with you guys, it's BS all this stereotyping. if i am gay or bi or whatever, who cares, it doesn't matter to anyone except me.

 

I am physically attracted to both men and women......this happens regardless of other people dismissing the concept of bisexuality.

 

Hi all. We are all wired differently. I have watched and been involved in conversations (arguments) between dems and reps. They are pointless because you cant change a basic belief system in someone. Likewise, you can't make a person that sees everything in black and white, see variations. We have a difficult time not becoming frustrated when we hear something like this. Most of us understand that we are hearing someone spout "their" beliefs and easily tune them out.

 

Woah, stop the wagon!

As a young teenager I was having sex with both genders. I am attracted to male, female and I once had a thing for a friend. Very feminine looking. Feminine feature including breasts and such but underneath, a working penis that was very pleasurable to have inside.

 

I have had many people say, when informed that I'm bi, that I'm either gay, or undecided. Well that just ain't the case, I'm most definitely not gay, and as for being undecided, I tell them that I'm completely decided, just greedy.

 

I am attracted to women. The sight of an attractive woman turns me on and I start fantasising about having sex with her. I am not attracted to men in that way. However, I enjoy having sex with men. I do not feel any emotional attachment to the men I have sex with. What does that make me?

 

Horny. :sunny:

 

I like women. The hairier the better.

 

Bi is real to me and I have thought long and hard about it, hhhhmmm long and hard!

As a kid I was turned on by girls but found myself attracted to boys too. I quashed those attractions to boys and tried to convince myself they are not there and I am not gay.

As time went on an I matured I explored the same sex side more and more, enjoyed it more and more and still enjoy/fantasize about it. Now I just accept it is a part of what makes me who I am am.

I am in a committed realtionship with a female, more committed than many purely straight males I know. She knows I am bi, she has seen pics of it and likes it. I have not been with a guy for a while now (the last treated me bad) but it could happen again.

It is real, I am not confused, I am not in denial, I know who and what I am.

 

I agree with Goodbi. You are what you are and there is nothing to be ashamed of. It does not make you less a man.

I love woman. I adore them. I can sit and watch women pass me by in the street as I walk of that walking art but I also enjoy sex with men. I am more physically attracted to women but I fantasise a lot about men.

And should you find yourself in love with another man. Love is Love.

 

Hmm, interesting, I can see where this insecurity might be coming from...

Having more than one lover/partner in itself can be complex. That other partner being of the same sex causes more thoughts to flow in.

I feel, personally, communication can overcome this kind of thinking.
Jealousy and insecurities kinda ruin the fun though!

All this is just on the surface, dig deeper TheSamantha
Trust is the foundation of everything!

 

Load of crap!

Simon :sunny:

 

It's so interesting. This board gives visibility to bisexual men, where in life they seem invisible.

Gay men are very visible, bisexual men not so much.

It's just another creepy double standard.

I have no problem with dating a bi guy. Fuck what society thinks.

How do you feel about the stereotypes that you carry disease and are ultra promiscuous?

 

I am bisexual and am physically attracted to men but I dont feel emotionally attracted to them. I just enjoy touching them.