I'm a 16 year old virgin but that's fine with me... much less to worry about. More than likely I'll lose it next year when my boyfriend can see me. Our little problem is that he's in college in Nebraska and I'm in high school in Georgia, and it doesn't help that while he's willing to drive the 2 day trip, my parents won't let me see him. Grrr >.< I'd rather wait until then and deal with the crappy hormones rather than do something I regret. Its kinda crazy that some people here first had sex at like.. 12 or 13. I don't think I even knew what sex was until I was at the end of my 13th year. O.O
I was 16 and it wasn't a great experience it hurt. I wouldn't have done it if I wasn't on birthcontrole or had him use a condom, I was too afraid. It was ok I just didn't get that feeling I guess your suppose to have, no sparks I guess...I regret giving away my virginity to him but after the first time I liked sex but I think it would have been better with someone I didn't just go out with for the hell of it, someone I actualy wanted to begin with...Oh well i made my share of mistakes but yeah the first time was just ok, and I did love him...
i was 16 and my boyfriend was 15. we were in love but damn, that kid was baaaaaad in bed. it lasted about 5 seconds. seriously. ick i hated it. but i wasn't nervous. i'd much rather make love to someone who can hold it in for at least 10 minutes. haha.
It was Feb 27 2003, and i was 14, I'm still with the guy, so i guess that tells you something. He was a virgin too, and we decided when we first started going out, december 9 2002 that we were gonna wait at least 6 months...but obviously we didn't. we used a condom and i'm allergic to latex (i know now) so it hurt me really bad..lol and we couldn't finish. and I didn't realize it was the condoms that were making it burn so we kept doing it until we did it in his hot tub without a condom cuz the bromeen kills semin i think. and it didn't hurt at all. So i just got on birth control and i don't use condoms.. I havn't gotten pregnant yet and we've been doing it without a condom for a long time, is there some way we could tell if im barren or he's sterile by looking at his cum..cuz it's not really white like the porn stars is like whole milk...his is like translucent white...IM me on ShortBrutsbabe76 on AIM thanks
The first time I had sex, I was 18, a freshman in college. It was with a girl I had dated a little bit in high school. We dated on and off but I finally really fell in love with her after we went off to separate schools (me in NY and her in FL!). We were home together for Christmas break, and we fooled around a bunch here and there. We were naked together and all, and I had never had a moment's nervousness about sex or anything with her. It all felt natural because I wanted it, and I knew enough about my body, a woman's body, and sex. I knew that I could get and stay hard very easily, and that is always aided by being really turned-on by the person you're with. I also knew I had a loving touch, and was smooth and gentle and passionate. The only trouble was that sex was a "no-no" for her because she was religious. So she always felt bad afterward, at least for a while anyway. It became easier, I guess. But the desire for passionate lovemaking is hard to deny, especially when the girl has a guy who's really good at it, like ME! We'd make out, and I'd start to massage her here and there, and finger her pussy, and before long she'd be hot enough for me to eat her pussy, and then we'd fuck. And then I'd eat her pussy, and we'd make out, and we'd fuck... and on and on. But because of her religiousness and the guilt associated with it, it was a while before she would face up to the fact that we had indeed been having sex. It dragged me down a little to have her unable to feel good about it (I mean afterwards: during, she felt juuuust fiiiiine!) -Jeffrey
My first time sucked. I was 15 and really drunk. I did stuff with him before a few times, but I didn't even really like him. I just thought he was hot. I wanted to get it over with... so I did. He was huge and it hurt like hell! It wasn't weird, just painful.
See, what I don't get is, if I had trouble keeping it going for a while like he did, I wouldn't just sit there helpless and be like, "Well, that's it," Isn't there plenty of other stuff to do as "lovemaking" besides just penetrative sex? Did your boyfriend not do that? IF I had that problem, I'd still be going down on the girl, or kissing and stroking and all that other good stuff. I sure would not be leaving her feeling like it was a waste of time non-enjoyable experience! -Jeffrey
OMG either our schools are failing miserably, or you've dropped out of school, in which case the schools are blameless. It sounds like your judgment could use a little tweaking, 'cause you sure as hell don't sound like you're that concerned about how fucked up your life would be if you got pregnant at 16. And people wonder why many of us feel that teens just have no business having sex. YOU ARE NOT MATURE ENOUGH TO DEAL WITH IT. Just by virtue of the questions you ask, you tell us that you don't know enough to be having sex. You think that you can't get pregant because you had sex in a hot tub. You ask if you can tell by looking at his "semin" (it's "semen") whether he's sterile. And you flippantly say "I haven't gotten pregnant yet," as though it wouldn't matter to you, like, "Meh, so it hasn't happened yet but if it does, meh." Jeez. I mourn for the coming generation and what it will do to the world. -Jeffrey
You should have had oral first, or some 'petting'. Heh. Petting. But seriously, the foreskin can produce it's own lubricant if arroused early enough before the act.
It was on my 15th birthday, with I guy I was, and still am, madly in love with. It didn't hurt or anything, and just like two other girls here, i don't really remember much of it, because I was probably to hung up with the fact that I was actually doing it. LOL Anyway, so we're still together and all that stuff. It was really quite succesful actually.
haha! i wish i could have told him that. he was religious and after he was done, he felt bad so i was always left hanging. now, however, i have dave and he's not like my first boyfriend at all which is nice, for me at least. hehe.
hahaha... oh god.. it was so bad. i was 17 and i was dating this guy who turned out to be a complete psycho. well my parents went out of town and left me home alone on new years eve, so me and my (ex)boyfriend ended up having sex. he was really bad.. no rhythm! and it hurt like a bitch.. and only lasted like 2 minutes. haha i think ive blocked most of it from my memory.
Hahahah true. I guess I blocked that whole RELATIONSHIP from my memory. 'cause we ended up breaking up and then he went crazy and we had to change our phone number and he tried to get me arrested (for nothing at all) and tried to say i RAPED him. hahah i was like.. yes.. i want to rape men with small penises. and i am soo much stronger and bigger than a guy, so that woudl really be possible. i hate psycho ex boyfriends!
hahaha yes, yes he was. i cant stand those ones. oh then he called me and was like "I JUST TOOK A BUNCH OF PILLS! IM GONNA KILL MYSELF" so i called his mommy. needless to say he ended up going to therapy!!! haha when i was 17-18 i really knew how to pick the winners, eh At least now i have matt and hes just dandy
aww yes, i am well pleased with dave as well. yeah, my ex "tried" to kill himself several times. he never actually went through with any of it. he threatened more than once, however. gah what an idiot. pssh.
The first time I went to bed with someone I was young. It was under a blanket in the middle of a feild just behind the house. She was a friend and she told me that it was something she wanted to try. I'm easygoing so I went along with it. I'm not going to say how young I was but I was in public school when it happend. I've been a sexual deiviant ever since! HA!
Damn my 1st time was wonderful, at the time...See, it was right before my 16th birthday and lol he said i passed out at one point.i believe him cuz i dont really remember much, cept telling him to get off me cuz we had to go to school. It was great and i loved the parts i can remember. But sadly, he broke up w/ me 4 days after my birthday. We were apart for the whole summer, then when school started agian, he said i was a whore, he naver loved me, i was psycho, and that i slept wit him every nite...it sucked. Cuz it was all lies, and when i got a new bf, he told me new one all this shit. But luckly my bf stayed wit me, but finally i think he couldnt deal with the lies, which he thought were true, cuz he never asked ME about them. Damnit, the sex was great, the guy wasnt.
