Spanking as punishment

Discussion in 'Spanking' started by PandaSquish, Jun 18, 2013.

  1. PandaSquish

    PandaSquish Member

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    So I have this kink where I want to be punished. My boyfriend knows and he tries, but the most I get is a little dirty talk and maybe one slap on the ass. How can I encourage him? Like I really want like a fake fight and him to bend me over and spank me hard and then 'make' me suck his dick or something. I just can't get him to do it. He wants to, but he doesn't want to hurt me and I don't know how to explain to him exactly what I want. I want him to be dominant and 'force' me to do things (only in the bedroom, not a lifestyle thing) Anyone have any ideas?

    Also, does anyone else like pussy spanking?
     
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  2. kairilove

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    See other post...

    And yes, I love having my pussy spanked :devil:
     
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  3. qbdf

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    Several of my GFs have enjoyed roleplaying punishment via spanking. Sometimes with a hand, sometimes with something like a ruler or hairbrush. and sometimes combined with some other punishments. It seems pretty normal to me, and I'd simply bring it up with him a bit more specifically. I bet you can get what you want!
     
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  4. PandaSquish

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    Haha I hope so. The thing I hate is that spanking websites only have spanking (no real sex or other punishments) and BDSM websites have spanking and punishments but they're a little too hard core for me :(
     
  5. Sharkman84

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    I know how you feel PS.

    I've been wanting my girlfriend to do that to me for a very long time.

    Nothing makes me hornier than the thought of a woman dominating me.

    It's something I think about a fair amount and I just wish that she could strip me naked and spank me hard and just dominate me in bed.
     
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  6. NovexusPrime

    NovexusPrime Grand Poobah

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    Sharkman, if she won't then I will
     
  7. Sharkman84

    Sharkman84 Member

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    Looking as good as you do NP, that would be seriously a major turn on.
     
  8. NovexusPrime

    NovexusPrime Grand Poobah

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    NP? I hate that I don't know what that means.
     
  9. Sharkman84

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    I was using the first two letters of your username.

    I do that on most forums.
     
  10. NovexusPrime

    NovexusPrime Grand Poobah

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    Oh! Well thank you!
     
  11. Sharkman84

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    No worries. I've always wanted to be spanked by a hot woman and looking at your pic made me fantasise about you doing it to me.
     
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  12. Krakadil

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    Being a big fan of spanking, nevertheless never wanted to spank or to be spanked as a punishment unless that was a part of play.
    However it happened four times in my long life, thanks God no bad consequences, and it was much more exciting that rare bedroom plays. I know many have fantasies about spanking, but in real life it could turn ugly, dirty, and dangerous. At that time I was too young and did not understand the risk. Again, I'm lucky nothing bad happened.
     
  13. HorseLoverGirl

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    I actually like being spanked as punishment for some action or attitude. It helps get my attention to clean up my act. Luckily I have not needed to be spanked often but when I do I know it is coming and that yes I deserve it, so I bend over and take my spanking. I feel a lot better afterwards though, aside from a sore behind.
     
  14. virginiacherry

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    Don't like the spankings themselves. But there's are needs for it, practical and emotional. It's not sexual, at least not when I'm being spanked. Mixing spanking and sex doesn't work with me.
     
  15. mojado5

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    Turns out it can be both for me! I just need to know the intention of the swat right before or immediately after, and the correcting swats must be painful, or I jut get turned on!!
     
  16. mojado5

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    Now I just need to find some one that will spank me on the usual for "being naughty"!
    Any takers?!
     
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  17. EYEWONTTELL

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    All of you need to be spanked for even talking like this. Line your asses up and drop them drawers, y'all need to be taught a lesson
     
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  18. mojado5

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    I'm waiting!! ;P *bending over*
     
  19. snowtiggernd

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    Iv got my paddle in hand here.
     
  20. mojado5

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    I bent over the bed with my pants around my ankles! Waiting for a car to pull up! *sly smile*
     

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