From reading these posts, looks like there are quite a few people who have had group encounters, but it seems like many people do so at swinger/lifestyle clubs or as part of organized gangbangs. I've been a part of a couple organized gangbangs, but most of my group experiences have been with friends, or friends of friends, or someone im sleeping with, has slept with, is sleeping with etc, girl gotta girlfriend types of things. Is this uncommon? Seems that its more common for people to engage in these types of activities in social clubs vs their own social circle. Agree/Disagree??
I always prefer to swing with people that I don't see in other social contexts. Don't like to run into them at the super market when I am with my kids.
Personally I've only felt comfortable with people I see often. When I do see these people in social situations, it doesn't seem strange, in fact, I can't help but get a smirk on my face just knowing what I have done with them
Yeah it seems like its commonly one or the other, either you're not comfortable with people you see in other social contexts or your only comfortable people you see in other social contexts. I am more comfortable with people i know, or at least have a connection to through friends, as there are more liberal or no ground rules, don't always have to use protection etc. Creampie, is that your experience as well when having encounters with people you know?
absolutely, I feel way more comfortable with people I know. For instance,I had got it on with husband and brother in law....I know my brother in law is a very safe, clean, non-diseased person so I don't have to think twice when he is involved.
I prefer within circles of friends and people I know, it just keeps things relaxed and comfortable and safe; not to mention open to influences of the preferences of those involved
would love group sex with friends but where does and how to start is way beyond me ! love to hear 1st experience situation
here's a story about group sex, my husband was fucking me when his brother came over. He told him to come back to the room so he could record us doing it. He was recording us and as he did this, he whipped out his dick, before I knew it, his dick was in my mouth and hubby was fucking me from behind. Things took off from there. I rode my brother in law as hubby fucked my ass. I am horny just thinking about it
I've never done anything spontaneous like that, but there have been a few times that I've been at a friends house or bar/restaurant and it was discussed before hand, invite people over, have some drinks and let it progress. Those times ended up being 4 or 5 of us. Others have been more planned, ie. come over for that express purpose. My 'gf' now, has had another woman with whom shes been sleeping with for longer than I've known her. I obviously pushed for her to join us, and one night we were out and she was talking about not being with a guy in 6months, her likes/dislikes etc., and we planned on her coming over the next day. Us 3 have been together 6x now, but never anything that 'just happens'. That would def be hotter. But since shes a friend of a friend, we are all comfortable with most things, not using protection, and her only ground rule is not going directly 'ass to ass', which is still a weird hangup for me, but whatever...
I can't say if it is common, or not. I'd love to have group sex with friends, but my husband only wants it with strangers, so, it's swingers clubs for us.
I assume that "Group" sex means three persons, or more. The Three Persons is not too hard to arrange, especially if the husband has friends that he knows may be hot for his wife. But the one thing that makes it a "group" is that both men must be included in the activity. It is much harder, however, to put-together a group of four, since it may involve two married couples, and the assumption is that the men will fuck each others' wives, which depends on the wives' preferences too. The only time I was involved in a "foursome" was with my wife and another couple, in which the husband had already fucked my wife, and I had fucked his, in earlier "threesomes". It was just a matter of putting it all together then, when we included both wives!
We have a small group of long time friends we play with at times. We've known each other for years and we feel safe with each other.
Hey... are you Dustin's wife? If so does he still post here at all? And nice to see you too. (if you're not the same person, sorry... haha!)
He and I always hang with our like minded sex group. We have parties where there is no sex and we shop, boat and do what others do because we like them outside the bedroom as well. Having a group of friends that you care for makes the group sex thing much more enjoyable. It's funny because of the 4 couples that we play with, I know what each man feels like and his technique. My husband travels a lot and sometimes I need the attention of a man and it's alway our group of friends I call. It's comforting knowing that I'm safe and secure with the same friends.
22 years maried couple here.we like not swinging but like to do sex while other watch us or like to watch other...and have one shemale friend and we do sometimes trisome..
My husband and I engage in group sex all the time. These people are friends that we have developed over years and at least for us is way more comfortable having these get togethers soon people we know and socialize with. With open swinger parties we can't be as free and comfortable.
Like This Cream Pie 420 Apr 22, 2013 here's a story about group sex, my husband was fucking me when his brother came over. He told him to come back to the room so he could record us doing it. He was recording us and as he did this, he whipped out his dick, before I knew it, his dick was in my mouth and hubby was fucking me from behind. Things took off from there. I rode my brother in law as hubby fucked my ass. I am horny just thinking about it I am tuned on by your hot story .... I hope that you may tell more about your experience . On the other hand I think that every think was arranged before between the to brothers , so it is not that spontaneous .
No not at all, we see them at social functions and we act as though we are just friends and nobody knows. Understand that that is the arrangement that in the presence of others no one needs to know what we do in private.