Straight/Bi Guys who like ass play or anal penetration...get in here...dont be shy

For somebody like you, who is in an enviable relationship, regardless whether you have "cock fantasies" (a fair percentage of males do, BTW--see this website), the main question is whether such an experience would jeopardize that fabulous marriage! Not worth the risk, IMHO.

I'm in a similar situation in some ways, but my wife is not very into receiving pleasure. And though she's very open to pleasuring me, that's a real buzz-killer, and there are other problems as well. In my case, if I ever acted on this fantasy (and I do have it as well), I wouldn't be risking nearly as much!

I highly recommend not rocking the boat you're in, even if she were to say she's OK with it. Women are "pleasers" by nature, and if you approached her about it she might say what she thinks you want to hear, rather than the truth, and in any case it might not even be possible for her to know in advance how she would react.

I'd say that unless there's a lot you're not telling us about your marriage, this is one of those fantasies (like pedophilia or bestiality and others), better left unfulfilled.


Solano

 

Geez, you must have a very unstable relationship. All I said was I like the pegging but would in the end never have sex with another man. Comparing my story to fantasies like pedophilia or bestiality? I guess you are in the wrong forum and should overall check your attitude.

 

I'm married. First time 11 years. Now 30 years. I would say I'm bi-sexual. I went with men after I was married first time, between marriages and during second marriage. Wanking, oral and anal. No romance, kissing or cuddling. Just sex. I think most of the men I went with were much the same. I've never looked at a man and thought, I'd love to fuck his asshole or suck his cock. It was just sex. I've also been sex mad all my life. Playing with the girl across the road, literally. Looking at magazines. Now unlimited internet porn. Retired now so plenty of time to indulge my fantasies. Online anyway. Not had sex with a man for 9 years now. Still have a sex life with my wife. Both 65 so can't complain. Erections good. Climaxes good. Both of us. I'm rubbing my stiff cock now.

 

When i was trying to fuck my girlfriend ass again, she said it's painful i can't take it any more, and i'm telling i will do it gently, but she also refuse then she said ok if you can take it i will let you fuck my ass again, then she start fingering me, oh yeah it was painful then she said aha see how is it and it's only fingers, then she try a bigger thing- cucumber - then after many times - we use to start with me then with her then sometimes only giving me anal masturbation, i start enjoy it, and i cant stop that, any advice?!?!

 

Best advice I can give is to continue to enjoy it.

 

Dont worry youre not bi or gay cause like you said youre not attracted to men
and I would know lol Im a bi male who used to do amateur porn. Everyone seems to think that because you get it in the ass youre gayor bi and simply not true. You have every right to experiment bud. Have fun and I hope your gf takes care of that ass lol my x gf sure did mine.

 

@johnnycastle,

Yeah, I totally missed the part where you said it would probably never happen. I was just so jealous of your marriage to such a sex-positive lady, all I could think was "man don't mess that up!"

I absolutely don't (and didn't, but that's beside the point) compare or equate your fantasy with those acts. I was saying, it's best to keep it a fantasy (in a similar way to how those things are best kept as fantasies, and a lot of us fantasize about *all* of these things, myself included), considering how much you have to lose.

Had I read more carefully, and seen that you really weren't considering acting out that fantasy, I would not have posted. So definitely my bad, but it's not an attitude issue! It's a not paying attention issue. I must have been in a helluva rush that day! Anyhow, my apologies.

SJ

 

I love when my girl puts dildos in me ..ive never had a real penis.and the bigger the better..somtimes I think it would be fun to try real thing. .I dont find other males attractive. But thought it might be fun to try.also maybe if he came in my face..

 

I love assplay a lot. It is one of my favorite things to do with a woman. Licking asshole, fingering, tongueing, toys and other random (but small) objects in an ass is very sexy. I also enjoy playing with own asshole when im alone and have time to relax and do so. Like some of the other posters on this topic, I started touching my asshole when I was very young - like 6 or 7. I think this is something that always stuck with me.

I am not into other men or cocks near my ass. Im straight. But I do like being licked and fingered back there. It's been SO long since that's happened, but it is something I would love my wife to do. In any case, i like putting things in my ass that are small and more for the mental turnon that im doing something kinky, rather than the actual physical senstation. Rubbing the outside feels amazing, but bigger things in my butt hurt. Still, if i was with a woman who wanted to try a smaller toy or strapon I would let her. When I get really horny, almost all bets are off and I'll do just about anything.

 

It started a few years ago when i bought my first sextoy. It was a medium buttplug, Man was i excited.

When i picked it up and took a look at it, i remember thinking "WOW, this can never work"
But i started working it "up there" slow and when i finaly got it in there...what a feeling(!) THAT was the beginning of several years of doing this.

Now, i have a 9'' BIG dong that feels a bit small, so i orderd a 12 inch length, 2.43 inch max shaft diameter, 7.25 inch max circumference Deep Derek Ejaculating Dong

I like putting my medium buttplug inside me and just go out and walk. I feel kind of kinky... because i sometimes go out in the woods, surrounded by houses and people nearby and playing with myself in the open

 

Im 26 and married to an amazing woman. Im straight and never had any desire for men or cock. But I love taking a toy in the butthole.

I have always loved anal porn, something about it just always drove me wild. Occasionally, when masterbating I would finger my ass a little, in the heat of the moment. Mostly I was curious and it felt good. But after I came I always felt shameful about it and regretted it. But I was still turned on by anal porn and wanted to try it.

Early on in my relationship with my wife we tried anal but it hurt her so I kind of gave up on that for a while. Thankfully, we tried it again about a month ago, this time doing it right. Starting small and going really slow, ensuring she is relaxed. It was amazing for both of us! My wife had an anal orgasm and I came inside of her asshole, it was exhilarating!

We have been doing anal a lot and she recently told me she likes it better than vaginal! Im in heaven! We both love vaginal sex and still do it more often but anal is our dirty little secret. It has brought us even closer together. She says I made her an anal whore and she loves it.

But really what I wanted to comment on was how during this time I began reading online about how anal can be so enjoyable and found out that a man can have an orgasm from prostate stimulation thru the anus. Another kind of orgasm that I never knew about. The more I thought about this the more I wanted to try it.

Well even tho we are very open in my marriage, it was hard to tell my wife I wanted this but I did. She felt awkward about it at first but wanted to try it. when she penetrated me with a lubed up butt plug and it hit my prostate it felt amazing. We proceeded to have amazing sex that night but I felt a little shameful afterward. I don't know why honestly.

The next day at work all I could think about was getting my ass penetrated by that toy. When I got home I told my wife I wanted more. This time she gave it to me good, I told her to keep fucking my ass and I had a mindblowing anal orgasm. So good throughout my whole body and not like anything I ever felt before. It was the first time I have ever released so much sexual tension. I was so calm and at peace afterward.

It was so good I totally gave up all feelings of shame. I don't care if it's weird or whatever it feels amazing. Now that my wife has seen how powerful it is she is in to giving it to me too.

This has been such a pleasurable experience I had to share it. I really have an anal obsession both giving and receiving and I don't hide it or anything because my lover does too. We are looking to get some more toys, definitely looking into a strapon, maybe a double dildo. I want to try something vibrating in my asshole.

 

I am 33 years old straight guy but i had anal sex with a man when i was 14-15 years old. well actually it wasnt my idea.. something like i was forced. we had to sleep with that 18-19 years old boy on the same bed cause there was no place to sleep seperately.. and he just started to touch me. i was awaken and i didnt get what was going on at first but after he touched some places like my hips and dick i got what he wanted. i was shocked. even parallized. pretended like still sleeping and let him do whatever he wanted to do cause i wasnt even able to move..i was even erected cuase it was nice to be touched..and he got me layed on my face and fucked my ass..it was painful but not too much. i just tried to be silent cause there were people in other rooms. finally he finished and turned back to sleep...the interesting one was that i came too...i never had sex with a man after that night but sometimes i used to do anal masturbate...i stopped it after i started to have sex with girls..but i like it sometimes my gf fingers me in the ass...i think a man can enjoy prostate massage...it gives us a different kind of pleasure. ever wanted to try with a man again? dont know ...i am ok with women ...i just wouldnt like to be dominated by a man like being fucked in the ass.and i dont have romantic ideas like kissing cuddling with a guy in a passionate sex..not for me...

 

Liking it in the arse does not make anybody gay. It just means you like your arse being fucked. Nothing wrong with that.

I enjoy having my butt pounded.

 

Bulldust...



Cheers Glen.

 

I know men who get it up the butt from their wives. It does not equate to homosexuality.

 

Why Don't They Get Themselves A Male "Friend With Benefits" And

Experience The Real Thing Instead Of A Lump Of Cold Plastic

Containing Two Batteries....???



Cheers Glen.

 

hi, am 17 straight boy, and want to have anal masturbation, can you share your experience with me??? how can i start?? how does it fell? is it painfull?? what can i use as dildo ?? should i use condom and ect. thank you :*

 

My hubby is straight. Does not care for men or real cock at all.. I even had him try it.. He enjoyed himself, but he said it over and over he rather me do it to him then some guy. We have a pretty interesting sex life. Just because you like your ass played with doesnt mean your gay

 

SO i m new here..ive been readin about how to massage my mans prostate/gspot whatever. He let me try last night and I couldnt find anything like a "walnut sized" thing lol and he seemed to be okay with it but told me to stop cuz he felt like he had to poop! maybe cuz it was the first time? Should we try again he seems like he wants to btu I want it to be spectacular for him..may my finger is too small? any advise? thanks

 

Hey, nothing wrong wiv liking it in the ass. I love it and I have tried many dildos in mine. Now I have found a local sex shop which has a cinema in it. At least once a week I go in there and watch a bi movie wiv other guys. When in there I stick my dildo to the arm of a chair and ride up and down on it wiv my ass. The other guys in there get real horny and as long as they have condoms and a real big cock then I will do a bit of sucking. Sometimes I get so horny that I bend over the seat in front and get one of the guys to fuck me deep and hard. I am not gay but I am about 25% bi and 75% hetero. I just luv having my ass pounded....wether it be by a girl wearing a strapon or by a guy wiv a real hard big cock. I luv getting pounded. And if I can watch a movie with strapons in it or chicks wiv dicks at the same time then it's even better!!