Desperate for anal

Any other women often feel themselves over come with the need for anal? I often get horny and fancy a bit of vaginal sex but nothing is ever quite so overwhelming as my need for anal sex. Sometimes I feel like a dog chasing a bitch in heat. haha!
It is pretty cool when I'm around someone who can help me out but currently my husband is away for work for 2 weeks, my regular sex buddy is on holiday and I've been ill for so long that I'm not used to touting my arse around fuck buddies and the like for sex. Le sigh. Sometimes I almost wish I didn't like it so much because I always seem to want it when I can't have it.

Anyone get over come with the need for anal to the point where it distracts them from doing much else? I've barely eaten for the past few days, just sat watching porn and playing with my **** and arse. :sunny:

 

I hope you find someone to scratch you itch for you. I get like that about sex in general. It can be very distracting indeed.

 

Pity the world is such a big place.

 

I see we're both UK based. :sunny:

 

I feel your pain, though if I'm in the mood to be sodomized I'll just go out and find someone who'll do it.

 

Yes I get like this about sex and anal.Love to give and receive anal.Wife is not keen on receiving and seldom puts on her strap on.Both drive me wild.:devil:

 

I do. It isn't often. Usually, I'm just desperate to be fucked with it ending in orgasm. But sometimes I feel such a desire to have a cock in my ass.

On that department, my husband will usually oblige.

 

Usually my wife takes around, 15-20 minutes, preparing herself after her shower. It does not matter if morning or evening, it's always roughly the same amount of time, after her shower, that I hear the bathroom door open up, and her come out to dress or undress,whatever.
My wife is sort of a church lady with a bit of wild stripe to her also. She loves a ladies breasts and nipples. But to get her to tell me of it,(back when we first met) was like pulling teeth from a live alligator!!
She was used to her first husband berateing her about EVERYTHING, so she learned to dummy up, keep it to herself.
Over the years, as I introduced different love making positions, or differnt ways to give her pleasure, it's been very hard to read her, and when I would ask, I could see she felt uncomfortable giving me answers.
For a while now, occassionaly, I'd hear the shower water shut off, and in just a few minutes, the door was opening....H'mm so I'd come out of our home office area, and walk into the livingroom, no she's not there.
I'd check around, and then heading back towards the office, I see her foot, in the air..... so I go to the bedroom door, and she's face down on the bed, ass up the air doggie style, and she has reached back behind her, gentally pulling her sweet cheeks apart!!!
I'm gobsmacked, and horned up terribally bad very quickly!! I did not know if she wanted filled, anal, oral???? So, just as I come out of my daze, she sayes very quietly, would you lick me back there?
I thought I'd cry, as I knew how hard it was for her to say those words to me, and tears for joy, that she is finally telling me exactly, what rocks her world.
She still only likes a finger anally, and while I'm licking her pussy. I'm fine with that as I only care to give her pleasure, or see her being pleasured. I love her having an anal craving, and showing me how to satisfy it for her.

 

This has to be the most painfully sexy thing I've read in a while.

 

Do you have plenty of sextoys for using for anal on yourself - some toys may pleasure you a lot more & in different ways than a penis can.

 

I can see no reason why any semi attractive women or gay man would have trouble finding a ready and willing anal partner.

 

I feel you I went through that a while back. It was horrible. I hope you found a solution

 

Jesus I wish I had a woman like you around me with that problem Id help out for sure haha. Jesus I knew one girl who would have multiple orgasms doing anal like every few minutes for hours. But unfortunately she just sexted with me and lived in a different state.

 

How do you find them exactly? Do you 'pop the question' after chatting with someone at the bar for a bit?

 

Hello! I'm glad to hear that your wife starts to feel a more complete sexual person.

First of all, relax yourself! Relax yourself! Calm down, be patient and understand her! Women fears and taboos have been entered in their minds for centuries by countless idiots in society, government and church. And you’re aiming to unset all or some of those fears….so relax and be patient. If you need to masturbate yourself previously in order to be more calmed when lovemaking then do it! Being nervous is the worst way to start a sex session with a “fearful of society” woman.

O.K., Now you are craving for her asking you for some anal sex....GOOD! but be patient with that. And you're on the right path when you're able to stick a finger in her ass... and she enjoys it. That's the key.. she should associate anal play with relax and enjoyment. Otherwise anal sex will be painful. I practice anal play giving and receiving from women so I know what I’m talking about.

Now you just need to provide her with her first anal "related" orgasm... without penetrating her. And then after some good experiences she will be ready to upgrade to bigger things, like a small vibrator and finally you'll reach your desired goal! but be patient.

Besides of ass rimming when doing oral and fingering, i know two other techniques that never fail for me:

A)
Try to circle the rim of her ass while fucking with your lubed finger, start with a small finger and then end up with your thumb, exerting everytime more pressure until you feel that her asshole just relaxed and opens up and allows your finger a little bit, then at some point start fucking her hard while you keep your finger circling and pressing and let the finger “accommodate”...eventually your finger will slide in her relaxed asshole, and you will be able to press your cock from the asshole. Keep circling but this time massaging the vagina wall from her asshole, if you are able to stand the rythm and she's in the mood, then she will probably explode in seconds...but then keep pounding with your cock and relax the finger movement, and kiss her and be tender with a finger in her ass...THIS IS KEY. YOU’RE MAKING LOVE!
If she demands more, move your finger really tender and slowly... remember to be lubed, and tell her how much do you love her! For this to be effective you need to avoid cumming yourself, and your brain will make you cum in a second when you realise that you're achieving your goal, so you better masturbate and cum like 6-to 8 hours before actually fucking!

B)
The other technique is my wife's favourite, but also the one that all women that i've been have loved and cummed from it!! Start with tender caressing and kissing on legs, progressing to her thighs, ass cheeks, tits, kiss her in her mouth, pussy, tits and clit, rim her ass, be sensual, enjoy it yourself, make her feel that you love it, with your respiration, moaning a little bit yourself, use your hands to caress tenderly all over her body, feel the electricity on her skin.. don't be in a hurry,…. then eat her pussy and start rubbing the path from her **** to her asshole with your whole palm of your hand, lubed in her juices or else.. be patient, enjoy yourself..
Then begin eating her clit and finger her pussy, start slowly opening up her labia, kiss her at her labia, keep relaxing her pussy and massaging with your hands... try to stimulate the G-spot for a while and when you feel it's the time to go, start circling her asshole with one free finger while other finger/s are in her pussy. Gradually lube her asshole, and exert more pressure on her asshole..the goal is to relax her asshole to achieve that your finger sinks in it spontaneously! Keep stimulating her G-spot and exert more pressure while circling and pressing until your finger enters just a bit, then keep that finger there for a while, circling while you keep the other stimulation...
Be patient, probably your finger will be sucked by her ass...Make sure that your finger and her ass are thoroughly lubed, with her juices or whatever. Once your finger is totally in, press the inner vagina wall with one finger from her ass and the other/s fingers from her pussy, and massage it slowly circling, then at some point begin sliding both your fingers keeping your fingers as a pincers.. she will feel that very powerfully. Remember to alternate that with other moments of pause, not sliding but circling your fingers, and other movements stimulating her G-spot.. If enough lubed don't get your finger out of her asshole, slide them deeply but don’t get them out and be patient. Sooner than later she will explode with the one of the most powerful orgasms ever!

The best position for both techniques is missionary or spooning, but for the first technique also doggy style works provided that you're able to reach her mouth and be able to have eye contact.

I hope you enjoy it! =) Unfortunately my wife is on a long-term depression and i can not do it to her, but my mind will feel your joy through the universe!

For now my wife accepts tenderness and my loving care, but rejects plainly all kinds of intimate caresses and sex, so i should be in a kind of Zen state to stand it ...but i cannot control myself and i'm horny all the time...

When you're able to make her orgasm that way like 2 or 3 times, then the next step is to stick the tip of her vibe or smallest buttplug while fucking, fully lubed and keep upgrading the size of "objects" pushing a little bit while kissing or keeping eye contact to relax her, until her ass accepts bigger objects.. Once some object is inside her ass, ask her to press it with her ass and push it, then press a little bit and slide slowly... make her feel that movements while fully relaxed, and she will learn to associate that stretchy and sliding feeling with joy and not with pain.. Be patient with that step.. she needs to adapt with that feeling gradually, and she might need several days or more. The key is that you change a little bit some element everyday so she just don't feels like "utilised" but loved.

Hopefully one day you'll be able to stick the tip of your cock on her ass, and then it's key to have her relaxed, previously orgasmed and willing. And keep eye contact and tenderness to the highest level possible. Sodomizing someone is something very spiritual, it's not just sex.. It's a question of thrust, surrender and devotion.
Once your tip is in, take it easy, kiss her, let her adapt to it, and let her set the path and tempo, let her push and slide the cock gradually in her ass as she's able to take it.. don't push, don't be in a hurry. The first time it must take like hours if needed, and you must keep stimulating her by other means, Once totally in, take a pause, kiss her, make eye contact, tell her how much you love her, make your love bond stronger, she will feel totally yours. This is a very strong feeling for her.
After some pause, keep stimulating her and be a little be more passionate, and slide really slowly while stimulating and take another pause to kiss her and check if she's fine.. if everything is all right, you both will enjoy from one of the biggest orgasm ever. Just remember that you must slide very slowly to not cum too early and allow her to reach her orgasm... Again it will be helpful if you masturbate and cum yourself like 6-8hours before.

You see that you'll need a long time to achieve your goal, so plan a special night or better an special morning or afternoon to do it, with plenty of time.. A great way to start this great time is to perform a good massage on her back and legs and thighs with almond or scented oil, It's a wonderful feeling to be oiled (but not too much oiled) and be able to slide your body on her body, and the scents fill all your senses.. The goal is to overwhelm all her 5 senses, with your eyes, with your hands, with your respiration moaning and words, with the oil and sex scent, with your kissing, and with a right atmosphere with candles and incense.

Sorry for the long message,.... i hope you really enjoy it..

And i hope to set fire to some lady when reading it Hehe
It will be very nice, and i'll be very happy if some lady can comment on this message, give some other counsels or just explain the feelings that i created on her when reading it

Be Happy and spread happiness!

Remember and talk to her (if needed) that you're dealing about lovemaking :love:, independently if it's oral, fucking or anal lovemaking (maybe deal with that later).... I'm sure that she finds spirituality with you while lovemaking. And i'm convinced that if you're patient enough, after a while, she will also find spirituality with you while anal, and she will be fine with that! I don't think there's something in the bible or in the Jesus legacy about anal sex or other kinds of lovemaking... so if somebody has ever forbidden it it's the church or the governments in order to increase their control over us. We can all be spiritual and meet god and each other without the help of the church.

 

Yes I do Crave it a lot just like you do!

 

Me too and I crave putting my tongue in that clean asshole.:2thumbsup:

 

Me too I crave to do it to a woman so badley. Unfortunatly my wife wont let me go to that department

 

OMG, I wish my wife was as horny for anal as you, and I've been trying to make her my little anal slut since high school! At least she gives it to me but once in a blue moon, if it was up to me I would fill her butt every other night. I wish I lived in your area Yellow forager,lol :love:

 

I wish my wife was as adventurous & horny as me at some things I want to try again or haven't tried.