Why do I enjoy sucking cock so much?

Discussion in 'Bi Sex Discussions' started by BiGuy602, Mar 8, 2013.

  1. Fandangoman

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    Hello everyone. I don't see what's the obsession with labels but to each his own. I was married until recently but have always been attracted to men. Bisexual or gay, whatever. I had four encounters with another married man while I was still married. He is my best friend and all we did was me sucking his dick and swallowing. To me it was great and having him cum in my mouth was like showing him how much I appreciate him. For him it was more like doing something taboo which he couldn't handle and talk about at all. He flirts with me and I have let him know I want to do it again and go further, especially now that I am divorced and free to pursue the issue. But he keeps shying away. I am trying to figure out what I want as far as my sexual life. Women are out, at least for now. I need someone strong and positive and this I don't want from a woman. Hopefully my friend will decide he's ready to fuck me (he dis offer once but I wasn't ready for it, stupid me). But now I can't wait to go all the way with him. Just wanted to share this experience with you. Love to all!
     
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  2. Wombatso

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    For a little bit of humour regarding blowjobs and deepthroating...

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zg6bnxOccOk"]Naughty Charlene and Bananathroat - NSFW - YouTube
     
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  3. JimInPhila

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    He's better at it than I am. Great curvy. Got me thinking.
    Actually, I met someone like that once. Smoking hot.
     
  4. gagforreal

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    Correction - water isn't wet, it makes other things wet!

    I'm not gonna rip into you BiGuy I have no idea why all these other doofuses posting in your thread are being such assholes to you. I'm at a similar stage of life as you are.

    I always loved straight porn. I love seeing women suck dick, I love bukakke, seeing those hot women swallow loads. Little by little as I was wacking off to that, in the heat of passion, I was like "god I wish that was me". Yup for real. Didn't have a lot of success with women tho. I loved women in my teens, but something wasn't quite right, like it just didn't get me excited enough.

    then I saw a transsexual, and realized, this is my holy grail - I love transsexuals. That shit gets me hard as a motherfuck. I don't know why a beautiful woman with a cock gets me hard, they just do. So I found some transsexuals to have sex with. Best ever! I mean these gurls deepthroat balls deep and swallow. Lightning in a bottle. Friend of mine has a similar story. He made out with a beautiful girl, who turned out to be a really pretty boy.

    Much like you, I don't like men or boys. I know trannies are men, technically, but they don't look like men. They look like supermodels with cocks. And that's awesome to me. So I would suggest that to you. If you love cock, hate men, but love women - go get yourself a transsexual. You may like it a lot.

    More to your question - why you like to suck cock. I love it too. Nothing gets me harder and I mean nothing. I love the taste, I love being on my knees with a cock in front of me and I love when I shove it all the way to the back of my throat. It's an amazing feeling. I actually quiver. I hold it with both hands, stroke it, spit on my own, spit on the one i'm sucking. I can do it for hours. With my dildo, I do do it for hours! I can maintain a steady constant boner all that time and I have these little microcums...I love cum.

    But why you say? Why do you like straight porn and like you said "love watching women suck cock". Cuz I do too! So why? Let me ask you this - when you watch straight porn what do you look at? The cock or the mouth? Pay close attention - if you're looking at the cock going into the mouth and when it comes out you quickly look at the head and then at the woman with an ecstatic expression on her face, then you're "projecting" - that's a psychological term. Imagine as if the woman is your Avatar. You're basically experiencing oral sex through her. You identify with her.

    Now this could be due to one of two reasons: either a) over the years of watching porn, you grew accustomed to seeing the woman suck dick and more and more extreme acts, blah blah blah porn is addictive whatever... OR b) you always had it in you.

    To elaborate, I remember the first porn I saw. I was very very VERY young, and it was a beautiful woman getting pork-roasted. I loved what I saw. Since then, it's been a slow transition to the point I'm at now. I too was projecting when watching women suck dick, but when I picked up a dildo and started sucking it, and saw how rock hard I got just from doing that and how my body quivered the second the head hit the back of my throat, I knew it. I was a bottom, not really straight anymore, and even though I don't like men and never have, I do like transsexuals and I love cock.

    Cock by itself is a wonderful thing. The problem is what its attached to - now you're thinking like a woman! lol. Well for you and me that's true. We love sucking a dick, but hate what it's attached to.

    But you that doesn't have to be the case - you can try hooking up with a transsexual and see if you like it. I love it more than anything. Just be careful some of them are dirty motherfuckers.

    Anyways to the point of what all these people on the forum label you as: I don't think it matters - they can call me gay or bi, and that's fine. But think about this. Think about yourself before you knew you loved sucking cock, back when you only liked women, and think about yourself now - do you feel any different? Did sucking cock change your personality, or your value system, or any other part of who you are aside from your sexual preferences?

    NO it didn't. Life is a journey of self discovery and you just discovered that you love cock. Ey so did I. In time, I'll probably suck some real cock and whatever who knows where life will take me. You don't know either and that's the fun of it.

    What I do know is that there is absolutely no point in arguing with these idiots on this forum who try to put you down instead of actually answer your question. I stumbled upon this forum because I googled your question - why do I love sucking cock???

    Sadly the forum people didn't help they just made fun of you and acted macho sarcastically acting too cool for school and what have you. As a human being undergoing this identity crisis in a society that maliciously witch-hunts closeted gay/bi's until they come out, it's no wonder you're reaching out hoping for a ray of hope and understanding. I don't understand how these people can put you down because of that.

    Bottom line is, you are who you are. You are a complex being of many nuances, values, beliefs, preferences, etc. Things change with time and opinions and events reshape you as a person, and you metamorphisize into another being completely that is still you, just with another added layer, another lesson learned on life's journey.

    Think about it, when we're all dead and gone, and the Earth is swallowed up by the sun 10 billion years from now, there will be no evidence at all that any of us even existed. I doubt that anyone will remember you or me 3 generations from now. So don't waste your time arguing with other people over your life decisions, and most importantly of all don't lie to yourself.

    You only get one life, and if you don't move with it, it'll leave you behind. Get some action while you're young, and have fun with being who you are. Because ultimately, even my opinion shouldn't matter to you. I just hope it helped.
     
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  6. melissafox356

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    God!, I too am bisexual, also love sucking penises. I love having my man good erect and give him oral sex, fascinates me and I love seeing my man's face. We also see some gay porn and the like, we do all kinds of things and with friends of mine
     
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  7. 139mikemyers

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    I love sucking cock also. Like others the taste and feel of a hard cock in your mouth is so exciting. I also love knowing I can please a man so well and have had many tell me what a good cocksucker I am.
    I am married and when we are together I am dominate and the man but when I am with another man I am fem and love being on my knees with him face fucking me and talking to me the whole time.
    I go to our local park where mostly married men go to get bjs from other men, we go into the woods and I will suck them off. I love when they tell me they are about to cum and I tell them to cum in my mouth and I swallow every bit of it then clean their cock up and put it back in their pants for them. They always say thank you. Sometimes a guy will suck me off and sometimes they will suck on me a little to get them horny then they want me to finish them.:drool5:
     
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  8. cantabile10

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    I think the apparent anomaly you are talking about can be understood very simply: narcissistic lust. You are sexually hyper-aware of your own body, penis and balls, "maleness" in a broad sense. You would like, at some unconscious level, to have sex with yourself, which is what you are symbolically doing in sucking other men; it is 'hot' at the level of narcissism, but does not otherwise extend into any other aspect of your psychic/emotional life, in which you are genuinely and deeply attracted to women.
     
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  9. cantabile10

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    Me too. I just haven't had the nerve to do it yet.
     
  10. cantabile10

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    He didn't say he was straight, he said he was "otherwise straight." Your gratuitous put-downs, your talk of "little aprons, baking cookies," etc, are in fact expressions of self-contempt that you deflect from your conscious awareness--because too painful, too yucky--and displace onto other men.

    "Know thyself," as the Greek said.
     
  11. cantabile10

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    "God don't like it?" Thank you for logging in God.

    "We are born sick, and commanded to be well."
     
  12. biNfla

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    I performed and received oral sex with guys before I had sex with a female, but that was always the goal. Somehow, I got sidetracked into oral with a cousin and then boys at camp and then another cousin and then two friends and then….. When I was 17 and dating girls with the hope one of them would put out (this was the early '60s and that didn't happen much) I quit doing guys. So I suppose I was gay then and didn't know it because I never hugged or kissed a guy, didn't find boys cute, didn't lust for their bodies, didn't want to date them or anything else gay. I just liked to suck dick. After about 40 years of humping a LOT of women and marriage, I got back into sucking dick (damn internet porn lured me in.) And now I still lust for women although the ones I can get don't want to fuck much. And I suck dick. I still don't kiss or hug or date men. I've never performed or received anal sex and have no desire to. I just like sucking off guys. I am bi and I admit it. When I was young I guess I enjoyed doing it because it was nasty or taboo and I think the guys who let me do it to them did, too…boys like nasty stuff. Why I do it now I have no clue.
     
  13. weal

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    I have this fascination with cock I cannot shake. While having a gf I once met up with a guy I met on Grindr to suck his dick. It felt so amazing. All I think about it sucking cock.
     
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  14. JimInPhila

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    Life is too short. Presue your desires.
     
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  15. wudlyk2

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    The power sensation when sucking a man is what its all about.....they all love being sucked and I find more so called straight men love a man giving them oral....western new york here if you'd like to drop me a line....
     
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    Interesting. I am a bio female, but my brain got a high dose of male hormones in the womb and now I'm all gender orientations, depending on the orientation criteria. I'm about 60% transmale, but been married to males several times and have kids. I also am very attracted to women, but shut down if my imagination goes beyond a kiss. I think of males as peers, pals. BUT I LOVED to suck my last ex's cock, fuck his ass, dominate, whip, tie up, then switch places and be the female...but only with HIM. Nobody before my last ex, and nobody since. I am asexual otherwise since my female/male aspects cancel each other out. I don't even get myself off unless I happen to think of my ex, then I'm instantly excited.

    Women are the most beautiful, wonderous creatures on earth.. BUT the thought of female genitals revolts me-doubtless because at some level my male mode rejects my female body. I can be considered gender fluid, bigender, lesbian, straight, whatever, but I know what attracts me and what doesn't..it's not something I choose.
     
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  17. birdpics

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    you might want to look for a woman with more male hormones since they
    tend to have a more male-like libido. Check the ring fingers..long ring fingers mean more male hormones in the womb, so more chance for high desire. My male partners used to make fun of me, call me a "nympho" -even lose desire if I showed any interest in the sex act, plus my women friends used to complain about how their husbands made them have sex TWICE this week. I was thinking more like twice a day..or more, but said nothing. I found out early that males never matched my own libido, but took care of myself.

    This is one of several articles I've read recently, about how relative finger lengths result from early exposure to hormones in the womb. Sure enough, I have a longer ring finger than index finger, indicating early exposure to testosterone and also indicating possible links to dyslexia (true) and high musical ability (true).

    http://viewzone2.com/fingers.html
     
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  18. biNfla

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    At first, I was gay…only because I was a kid and girls didn't put out back then. I started sucking dick and loved it and did it to a lot of guys. I never considered getting fucked, fucking them, kissing, holding hands or anything else. It was just sucking cock. I started getting pussy but still sucked when I could. That was 50 years ago and in the meantime I have sucked off hundreds of men and fucked a few dozen women. I still have never fucked a guy or gotten fucked or kissed or anything else. I am bi as I play with both sexes. I love fucking girls and I love sucking off guys. I love swallowing cum. Now in my early 60s I admit it's harder to get pussy because the young ones don't want me and the old ones are fat and droopy and don't put out, thus I tend to be more of a cocksucker. It's as exciting to me today to see a new cock in my face as it was 50 years ago.
     
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  19. AceK

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    So u like penis but u identify as straight? I'm confused...that sounds a tad gay to me
     
  20. JimInPhila

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    AceK, It's not that easy. It's called part of life and life is never that easy.
    If those words/thoughts work, that's a good thing.
    No real need to rain on a guy's parade.
    "Walk a mile in my shoes," etc. Ya' know!
     

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