I'm not sure how to ask this but here goes... I recently had sex with a friend of two years. He is 28, healthy , good looking guy. We had sex twice that night and he ejaculated fast both times. What i want to know is why? Was ite? Did he do it on purpose?
Maybe you just got him aroused faster than you thought. I get aroused & ejaculate very quickly just seeing my penis entering my wife sometimes. Other times it depends on what she does to me or visa versa. Don't panic if he does everytime, there's obviously something that you did or he enjoyed so much, he coukdn't hold back & let loose so fast?
some people just cant control when they get off i literally cum as soon as i get my dick in my gf she too was frustrated i also have a 4 inch dick so im fucked lol but hopeully your man just was extremly excited and things will change my girl now will give me a wink and go tell me to go jack off and come and then meet her in bed so that i last a little longer it helps take away the edge a little bit
At 28 he should be able to control himself better. Especially the 2nd time, you should of been at it for ages. Let us know how you get on next time. If he does it again then its most likely down to that being the way he always performs, some guys are just quick on the draw.
It sounds to me more like inexperience - especially if you took his virginity. Perhaps you should consider extending the foreplay to include masturbating him to completion an hour or so before following through to full pentration. This should automatically result in increasing his stamina for subsequent sessions. Also, especially if this is a case of inexperience, get him to hold back on his thrusting pace. I remember my first time I started off hammering away hell for leather, simply mimicing the technique I had previously used to masturbate as my logic told me that masturbation was merely a matter of using your hand to create a vagina, and therefore the action should be identical. It took me totally by surprise when she insisted that I "Take It Easy", at which point I slowed right down, not believing I would be able to get anywhere at that tempo - amazing myself when I still managed to reach a climax, despite going at a snail's pace. Typical Porno Pounders do not reflect the best way to experience sexual enjoyment to it full potential.
Been fucking my wife for years. I still cum very quickly once she mounts me or I enter her. Even when she sucks my dick I get aroused and almost fire so quickly. She says it doesnt bother her, but I would love to be able to get a BJ that lasts longer than than 30 seconds.
Maybe you are just very, very delicious. The more excited a guy is, usually the faster he ejaculates. Sadly ......... many of my lovers tended to "drag the chain" a bit. Using my logic above, what does that say about me????????
There's a lot of contributing factors. The first, as already mentioned here, is excessive arousal - especially where virginity & overall inexperience is concerned. Another can be brought about by excessive foreplay, so that he's on the point of cumming just before he penetrates you. Another cause is thrusting too hard & fast, instead of taking it slow & easy. Also, the glans can be over sensitive, in which case using a one of the lubricants which contain a local anaesthetic may help (for that matter, if not already doing so, using a condom might also help). Finally, Premature Ejaculation is a common problem & can often be easily dealt with by your G.P.
The first handful of times I'm with a girl it's usually over in a few minutes. It's a psychological thing - I get kinda nervous about disappointing her with the quick cumming - and then inevitably do. When I'm more used to being with her, I get over my anxiety and can pump hard for however long she needs me to...
Sounds like buddy is lacking in experience! Probably has not figured out that better sex comes with learning how to control yourself. Here is hoping that he learns to eat pussy well and lots of it. Doesn't matter how good looking he is if he does not do what it takes to please the people he is with.
did he moan or shake? If he just ejaculated and never orgasmed he may have suffered from a premature ejaculation...
young guys have a harder time lasting, also you have to help them to slow down.......guys do not realize that women do not like fast and it is better for both to just slow down and enjoy......
I hate to say it but.. I can hold some times but not others. a lt depends on Who I am with. the love of my life when I was with her and I was very fast every time. yet in the year or two after when I had a fuck buddy I could go on as long as I wanted.
