Are you one of those women? I've always been someone that enjoys keeping my mouth busy and stimulated over having something go in and out of me down there. I also love seeing the other person shoot their load. What can I say...I just love to lick. Bad sex to me is only doing penetration and not being able to suck.
Nothing really, I'm hormonally imbalanced and pretty sexually frigid. If I'm going to come, it'd generally going to take way too much clitoral stimulation that I'm hurting before I even come. The good ol' in and out does nothing for me and I don't like the feeling of sucking dicks (minus a rare occasion where I think he deserves a dicksuck enough to turn me on for it)
Well to me a blow job for a guy gives him relief and then you should have a longer fuck when you is ready to do you...
To me, it's the exact opposite! I get really turned on while giving head so I would be sooooo mad at my man if he didn't take care of me after I pleased him. That'd be enough to convince me not to give him any for a bit.
BJ = Sore mouth/throat I don't cum + semen up nose and in tummy. No conversation. (he talks if he wants, but.....) sex = nice cuddle, yummy internal workout, I cum + semen in vagina/botty. Plus conversation. penetrative sex any time.
i like giving blow jobs. generally as foreplay, but i put pride into sucking dick when i do. i've been told i do a pretty good job, by a few partners.... makes me feel good about making others feel good
also have never minded swallowing. i've always thought spitting would be grosser, than just getting it over with.
What does being pounded even to supposed to feel like? All what I feel is the feeling of urinating. I just don't feel what most women feel. P in v sex alone is so boring without the kinky stuff. I was hoping to find other women like me, so I feel less alone. It make me angry why I can't be like the stereotypical heterosexual woman. All I know is that I like to give oral.
Yeah, that's what I feel. Thrusting...but it doesn't quite excite me as much as other acts. When I lick something, I get this tingly sensation all over. Ha, I'm a little emotional before the holidays. I know I shouldn't get angry. Every woman is different.
@Anya and Amethyst, I just wanted to make a sidenote and say I wish more guys understood that women can technically feel the same sensations physically, but how it's interpreted by each women's brain COMPLETELY determines if it's a good experience or a bad experience. And that it's not necessarily the guy's fault, especially if he's doing his best.
I know. It's because of the mental arousal, that I think big dicks matter to women, it psychologically arouses them to know how much they're taking in of a man, and that causes increase in physical/mental pleasure which causes them to peak or reach vaginal orgasm possibly easier for some. But yeah men do need to last 5-15 minutes minimum imho, and they need to vary pressure, stroke, and other types of touch.
no "need" for penetration but since there were only 2 choices the penetration wins over blowjobs for sure. :sunny:
if you guys could take a pill that could change salt to sugar then you would have to prize me away from your masterblasters:daisy:
hey don't stress about being different, just think of it that you're special I'd have a 69 over straight sex any/every night of the week.
My guy friend and my family member said most men want to pound pussy over anything else. That's why I'm considering dating women. Women appreciate someone that wants to worship and lick their body. I dont feel that men appreciate blowjobs. My issues with penetration stem from not really liking guys that much. I like giving bj's and rimjobs, but it stops there when it comes to men. I could write a whole list on why i think women make better long term and sexual partners. I wish I had a great girlfriend, but I'm in a shitty town for bi and lesbian dating!