I think more guys are going to be looking at a girls breasts . You can get basic idea of what she has with out seeing her naked .
The outside size has no bearing on the inside (vagina). You can have a large outer one and be tight. Or vice versa. I know it's hard not to be self conscious when all you see is ads telling you what's wrong with it and how to fix it (vagisil/waxing etc.) Just ignore those ads because they are trying to make $ by making you feel insecure.
I'm not picky on the aesthetics, but are vaginas with thicker labia (inner and outer) less prone to tearing? If so, I'd think the thicker the labia the better. Besides, the more there is the more can be licked and sucked too.
One of the nicest things about pussy, is that they are all a little different. So far, I have not found one I did'nt like!
Who cares about what random people on the internet think? THere are going to be people that prefer bigger ones and people that prefer smaller ones. Regardless you shouldn't be turned down because of it. Whatever your pussy looks like, it's normal.
The things that people will compare around here.. We are not plastic Barbie dolls who all look the same... And I realize that it's women who have these insecurities the most and worry if they measure up to other women... Pretty much every guy has told me.. If you have (fill in the blank), that's all I care about....