Bondage

Have you or your partner even been tied during sex?

 

Yep.:sunny:

 

Yes we have.

 

Not yet........ a friend of my BF's has an old fashioned set of "stocks" he wants me to try them out naked and my BF thinks it would be a great idea......yeah I can just imagine I would be very vulnerable

 

vulnerable is most defintily the key word

 

strange though I am warming to the idea

 

Yeah. I have a long piece of purple Japanese bondage rope and its really soft and enjoyable, feels great on skin. I've got cuffs and restraints too but I like the rope.

 

I wish I was tied up more often!
But tying up my boy, is so crazy, enjoyable..

:drool5:

 

Of course! :angel:

 

Yes..

 

Yes.

 

Oh yes... both cuffs on wrists and ankles, and with ropes. Bondage is my favorite part of being kinky.

 

Tied and been tied.. Love it!

 

Handcuffs...

 

I have a question primarily directed to the people who are really into this beyond experimentation, is the turn on primarily the fantasy aspect of helplessness or does it accentuate the physical submissiveness during sex? Basically is it more erotic as like a role-playing thing or erotic in accentuating sex?

 

For me, it's a combination of factors. Part of it being submissive and being told what to do (and never knowing what that will be next) and part of it, is yes,the helplessness of it.. and that takes a lot of trust. But I've also found it helps me to slow down and let go. I am a control freak and multi-tasker and have a hard time relaxing. Being cuffed or tied forces me to let go of being active all the time, to just stop and reflect and meditate. And the explosive orgasm doesn't hurt at all either...

 

I love when I'm tied down so well I get scared and then he says something like trust me and then I get fucked so well that I forget my fear and know only pleasure

 

And there is something about the pain to pleasure thing too...

 

Yes