How did you learn you liked spanking?

Discussion in 'Spanking' started by kairilove, Oct 2, 2012.

  1. kairilove

    kairilove Member

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    Those of you who are also into spanking/being spanked, erotic and/or disciplinary, what introduced you to it and how did you respond to that first experience? Has your desire progressed or stayed the same?

    It has always been fun for me to see how the beast was unleashed in others; I've heard almost as many answers as people I have asked :)
     
  2. kairilove

    kairilove Member

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    Really? Everyone looking and no one talking? :)
     
  3. wowzer

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    A partner of mine wanted to get kinky and started doing it to me and it got me very turned on
     
  4. foresting

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    Bit o' pain with the pleasure.
     
  5. Mayor Salt

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    I like to be firmly but gently spanked, which I learned when a previous partner spontaneously did it.
     
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  6. PiperStLennon

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    i wasn't really aware that i liked being spanked until about 4 years ago when i had a friend with benefits that was also into S&M. one day, he asked me if i wanted to be spanked and although i wasn't sure what i would feel, i was up for the adventure. he pulled my pants off, laid me over his lap, and made my ass right red, talking dirty the whole while. i loved it.
     
  7. Sxyldybg

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    A part of me always responded to the thoughts of spanking and when I finally got up the courage to ask my bf I loved it so much I never stopped. I have a paddle with my name on it. Just wish my now bf would do it harder and for punishment too.
     
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  8. janus1970

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    I have known since I was 12, whenever I saw a girl with a nice behind I would fantasize about pulling her over my knee, weird huh....
     
  9. Sallysmart

    Sallysmart Raynstorm Serenade

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    I think I thought young that I would like it, not sure why tho because I wasnt exposed to it alot as a kid,,, once it first happened in a relationship I knew for sure I liked it.
    It was erotic. I dont think I would like it as punishment tho, nor would I do it to a kid. A single 'smarten up' smack maybe for a kid.
     
  10. happyMrsM

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    I have always been turned on by the rear. I love to be spread, smacked, grabbed, spanked... just about nothing off limits and it started well after I got married. It started when I was a teenager and read erotica or watched a flick, I was always most aroused my the rear. It wasnt really touched (focused on) though, until a few years after I was married. Spanking is such a turn on.
     
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  11. birsha

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    Guys are pretty happy to slap you on the but (if you're a girl) pretty much all the time whether you want it or not.

    Didn't take more than once to know that I liked how it felt
     
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    I was pretty young when I discovered that I actually liked the feeling of being spanked. And I was actually ashamed for such a huge part of my lifetime. But now it's great and I don't care.
     
  13. Annwyn'Bri

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    I was never spanked as a child, but years ago I watched porn where a girl was cuffed and wearing nipple clamps and was being spanked. All three became kinks that I craved for and I'm now getting to have.
     
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  14. UKhedonist

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    Would I be right in thinking it's all girls that's replied to this?

    I've had fantasies about being spanked for quite a long time.......... But it was only recently that I plucked up the courage to place an advert on 'CraigsList' to find someone who'd do it.

    I was lucky enough to find a guy who claimed to be a retired Headmaster and was used to handing out discipline. I didn't care if he was or not! When we met, I saw he'd arrived with a bag full of implements he wanted to try, most of which we worked through!

    I enjoyed it so much that I then asked him if he'd be happy to slap my penis for me.... He did this too, both with it on a hard table and also on a softer cushion.... I was surprised to find I stayed pretty much erect during the whole process........ Despite the swelling and bruising, I then jacked off for him while he just watched...... I loved it all and want a repeat!

    By the way, As you'll have guessed, I'm male, but I was also 69 (a great number) before I got round to realising my ambition. I think now, I'd like to have a female do it for me........
     
  15. Logan 5

    Logan 5 Confessed gynephile Lifetime Supporter

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    I learned it when I was a kid and that was the only attention I got from family. :(
     
  16. imagemaykr

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    UKHedonist wrote
    "I was lucky enough to find a guy who claimed to be a retired Headmaster and was used to handing out discipline. I didn't care if he was or not! When we met, I saw he'd arrived with a bag full of implements he wanted to try, most of which we worked through!

    I enjoyed it so much that I then asked him if he'd be happy to slap my penis for me.... He did this too, both with it on a hard table and also on a softer cushion.... I was surprised to find I stayed pretty much erect during the whole process........ Despite the swelling and bruising, I then jacked off for him while he just watched...... I loved it all and want a repeat!"

    Nice work, but headmaster should have beaten you again for masturbating and made you clean it up.
     
  17. DieselGirl

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    First time I was swatted was by my husband during sex years ago. I like it when he throws a spank in here and there, and I've dished some swats out to him as well :) More recently, I read 50 Shades and then some other similarly themed erotica, and really got turned on by it all. My hubby and I have been investigating swinging, and I came across a guy who is a Dom and his profile talks about sensual BDSM, not for humiliation and not so brutal as to leave bruises, but he talks about pain-pleasure ....I was so intrigued I contacted him. Unfortunately, he's an attached male who is doing this on the sly, and my hubby doesn't want to play with straying men. He's afraid the wives will find out and burn our house down or something! He can be so dramatic! I also don't like to reinforce cheaters. I've been cheated on in the past and have been the cheater with ugly consequences, so choose to live an above-board life now. However, I keep thinking about what SensualDom could do to me....I want to try this stuff out!

    My husband isn't dominant enough, and though he's spanked me a couple of times, I don't think it's in his nature to be a Dom for me. Hoping an opportunity will come along again...
     
  18. imagemaykr

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    I first realised that I had a feeling for SM when I was young, too young to understand it. I think I would have been about nine years old. I knew then that when I read about people being whipped or caned, like for instance the old naval floggings - Mutiny on the Bounty or Two Years Before the Mast :book: - I found it strangely fascinating as if it meant something more to me, as if something was moving in me.

    One day at that time, I was playing with two other boys my age. It was some probably kind of battle game and it was suggested that a prisoner should be whipped. I imagine I must have volunteered with indecent haste. The actual whipping with a length of white household string was too feeble for me to feel it across my bare back, but the feeling of excitement was real enough. I didn't realise at the time that it was a sexual excitement, but that is how it has remained for me for the rest of a considerably fulfilling BDSM life. However, the visual memory of that moment remains very strong.
    As it happened, later that year I started at a public school where the rattan cane was the default punishment for even minor misdemeanours and punishment by physical pain became a scary reality.

    My own family were kind and gentle and I believe my enthusiasm for domination-submission and with sado-masochism is just another part of an explorative nature. :) indeed
     
  19. Nelser

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    Me and bf were goofing around and I was on top of him, then he lightly spank my bottom with both his hands, and I kinda liked it and I told him he could do it harder. He smack my butt so hard like four times and, idk why, but I loved it so much. He felt kinda bad afterwords tho because he noticed my butt was red, but I told him it was okay because I liked it. And I thought it was normal for girls to like that kinda of stuff but he said it was kinda freaky. He likes doing it tho :)
     
  20. OffTheRecord

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    indulged in my first spanking this weekend.

    no planning or anything, she was laying face down, the ass was there and I just slapped it as hard as I could.

    she didn't react, so I did it again. then I repeatedly did it, found my rhythm and before You know it I'm just there repeatedly slapping this ass and enjoying watching the bounce.

    my hand started to hurt, then it went numb, pins and needles, then I had to stop and she asked me to kiss and rub it gently.

    strangely had zero desire to switch hands.

    ass temperature sufficiently increased with each slap.

    she said the pain she felt when taking a bath the following 2 days turned her on reminding her of the spanking.

    I will be doing this often. this is a lifechanging revelation.
     
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