Is gaping safe?

Exactly, you took the words right out of my mouth. Gaping is not dangerous at all, it just means you are very very relaxed which is a good thing. Because a tense anus equals pain and pain equals damage.

 

Gaping is such a turn on. But damn, it's got to be painful for chicks to get it as wide as a baseball bat...

 

gaping = relaxed = control Could not have described it better. Awesome description Myttia.

 

No pain, it is all in the positioning of your body. On your knees arse high up and presto.
The perfect gape.

 

What does gaping mean?

 

It means when your asshole is stretched to the point where it makes a big hole.

 

I've only had anal sex once.. the only girl who was up for it wasn't very long term.. it was one of the best orgasms I've had.. so tight.. we tried it with my ex-wife but couldn't enter her.. I think the next girl had done it before.. maybe she was already "opened up".. even writing about this subject has given me a massive erection..

 

not if you work up to it slowly.. could take years. not quite pain, but very intense. not that im there yet, but my guy seems to feel as big as one!!

 

My gfs ass gapes every time we do it anal it's lovely. And she can take a baseball bat in her ass.

 

Plenty of rimming, lube and finger work, build up to it

 

wrong actually. its when its RELAXED to the point.

if its overly stretched, violently, you'll see it gets swollen and puffy. while that can be
sexy in itself (if no pain is involved, or it's consensual or whatever), it's not going to stay open. i can get that way with rather vigorous play, but i certainly wont gape at that point. its a fine line between too much and perfectly gently stretched to the point of relaxation.

you cant just slam something huge in there and then expect a gape, dont work like that.
you can see the evidence of that over and over in many porn videos. only the non puffy gape, and they're pro girls.

 

Muscle control does it for me, I am the bottom in my relationship and am comfortable taking 8 inches up my ass 2-3 times a week. It took a while to get to this level of comfort though.

 

anal is perfectly safe as long as you dont over do it. And make sure to have plenty of lube because unlike ur pussy it does not make a lubricant so without it could possibly be dangerous.

 

Is anal gaping safe

 

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