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#1 mangochick

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Posted September 21 2012 - 10:54 PM

Quite a few guys I have been with have tried to make my ass open up during anal.

Is it safe for me?

#2 disruptive

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Posted September 22 2012 - 01:41 AM

I'm curious - In what way have they tried to make you "open up"?

#3 FunHogg

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Posted September 22 2012 - 01:50 AM

It's supposed to open and close. Poop exit and stuff, y'know? Defecation does not happen via osmosis.

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Posted September 22 2012 - 01:52 AM

It's supposed to open and close. Poop exit and stuff, y'know? Defecation does not happen via osmosis.


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#5 staylow23

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Posted September 22 2012 - 04:20 AM

The ass can gape on its own without anything going inside. It's relatively safe but I would research "anal prolapse" and see if thats caused by gaping. U don't want a prolapse, I don't think. Some people do but it's very unattractive and it would take away everything that makes anal sex fun for me. I prefer my girls ass to be nice and tight.

#6 mangochick

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Posted September 23 2012 - 01:51 PM

I'm curious - In what way have they tried to make you "open up"?


Various ways. The ones that work are pulling out and going back in again several times, using a butt plug for a while before hand and pulling it open with fingers while he fucks it.

That the physical ways anyhow, there are also chemical options ;x poppers obviously...but I seem to gape easily when I'm on x too. Does anyone else get that?

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Posted September 23 2012 - 02:15 PM

Is it safe for me?


dating gross guys is generally not dangerous, but i still wouldn't recommend it.

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Posted September 23 2012 - 03:56 PM

my buttplug makes me gape a little when i have it in for awhile

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Posted September 23 2012 - 05:27 PM

Quite a few guys I have been with have tried to make my ass open up during anal.

Is it safe for me?


Yes, but it's dangerous for the planet. Methane is a greenhouse gas.

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Posted September 23 2012 - 06:35 PM

Quite a few guys I have been with have tried to make my ass open up during anal.

Is it safe for me?

Ask a proctologist for that answer. What you should consider is what you get in return for a wide, gaping asshole: the goods, commitment, and ultimately love. Keep working at it with progressively wider dildos and over time you may at the very least earn a million for yourself by way of community property. Who knows? You might end up with the love of your life as well.
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#11 disruptive

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Posted September 24 2012 - 02:25 AM

Various ways. The ones that work are pulling out and going back in again several times, using a butt plug for a while before hand and pulling it open with fingers while he fucks it.

That the physical ways anyhow, there are also chemical options ;x poppers obviously...but I seem to gape easily when I'm on x too. Does anyone else get that?


Ok, well as long as your anus isn't being forced, you go slowly and aren't in any pain.

Have to say though, much as I like a woman's anus I've never felt this urge to make them "gape". And pulling open with fingers whilst you fuck? What's that all about? I like the anus to be clasping me tightly not pulled wide.

#12 myttia

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Posted September 24 2012 - 06:45 AM

dating gross guys is generally not dangerous, but i still wouldn't recommend it.


gaping is defacto gross?

what is with this hippie board and all these conservative opinions?

i dont get it.

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#13 myttia

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Posted September 24 2012 - 06:46 AM

Ask a proctologist for that answer. What you should consider is what you get in return for a wide, gaping asshole: the goods, commitment, and ultimately love. Keep working at it with progressively wider dildos and over time you may at the very least earn a million for yourself by way of community property. Who knows? You might end up with the love of your life as well.


see? now BDM's just being sweet. *swoon*

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Posted September 24 2012 - 07:22 AM

as for gaping, a true good gape cant be forced. pushing out doenst make it gape, that just pushes all your insides and organs towards the outside (much like forcing out a dump...).

true gaping is when it's a nice wide open RELAXED hole. so you have to learn to relax, and you need to be a bit experienced. the muscle has to be toned from stretching, and also need some mental training for it, to increase the control of that muscle. most people have no control and it just slams shut after use. learning to relax is key - I can kinda do it! :) makes it gape. as ive admitted before i can even do it - if im on all fours leaning over with my body below my hole - pulls your insides away from the hole, allowing it to open if you're relaxed. helps to have been freshly fucked or played with of course, though i can gape like a finger width before usually if i do that an concentrate.

no doesnt mean you run around with a loose floppy asshole, just means you have more control. Go find some of wildassholeslut (aka deaa)'s videos on the net (my bf is a big fan, ahem.) - she's as tight as a virgin even after extracting jobsite-sized thermoses from back there. it's all about practice, tone, and control.

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Posted September 24 2012 - 11:28 AM

Im not sure as I haven't let anything near my asshole except soap and a sponge.

When I'm fucking a girl anally and shes aroused, if I pull out, theres gaping for a little bit. Your asshole will open/close. You want to stay gaped forever, lol

I don't spread the chicks asshole though, just to see it wide open... and I've seen in a porno once, I guess she was pushing out... that's gross!! All the insides are like coming out. I think it was Kelly Divine, who I find extremely hot! Damn, she killed my boner that day... her asshole was inside out :(

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Posted September 24 2012 - 01:12 PM

I don't spread the chicks asshole though, just to see it wide open... and I've seen in a porno once, I guess she was pushing out... that's gross!! All the insides are like coming out. I think it was Kelly Divine, who I find extremely hot! Damn, she killed my boner that day... her asshole was inside out :(


thats rectal prolapse and my guy and i find that gross too. much better when its just open and relaxed, a deep inviting dark cave of pleasure :) i like to do it for my guy, not sure exactly why he gets off on it, perhaps because it shows im in a receptive mood.. :)

#17 mangochick

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Posted September 26 2012 - 11:59 PM

I actualy enjoy gaping, but I have no inclination to turn my ass inside out.

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Posted September 28 2012 - 01:40 AM

I actualy enjoy gaping, but I have no inclination to turn my ass inside out.


That is a disgusting thought. :puke:

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Posted September 28 2012 - 08:39 AM

thats rectal prolapse and my guy and i find that gross too. much better when its just open and relaxed, a deep inviting dark cave of pleasure :) i like to do it for my guy, not sure exactly why he gets off on it, perhaps because it shows im in a receptive mood.. :)


You got that exactly right myttia. A well fucked & gaping asshole is a thing of great beauty.
When my wife gapes it means she is relaxed and enjoying our anal play. She gapes best when she has had an orgasm.
A gape is a sign that I have done her well so to speak - that I have not caused her any pain (well maybe just a little at first), and that she is satisfied and happy.
Nothing gives me more sexual pleasure than to look at her gaping ass and then shoot my load all over it, knowing too that the pleasure is mutual.

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Posted September 29 2012 - 07:38 PM

thats rectal prolapse and my guy and i find that gross too. much better when its just open and relaxed, a deep inviting dark cave of pleasure :) i like to do it for my guy, not sure exactly why he gets off on it, perhaps because it shows im in a receptive mood.. :)


Dark cave of pleasure is a great way to put it. I wish my wife's asshole would stay open longer. It gapes good but doesn't last. I actually find it hot looking in her gaping ass.... It's nasty but so hot.

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Posted September 30 2012 - 09:57 PM

true gaping is when it's a nice wide open RELAXED hole. so you have to learn to relax, and you need to be a bit experienced.


Exactly, you took the words right out of my mouth. Gaping is not dangerous at all, it just means you are very very relaxed which is a good thing. Because a tense anus equals pain and pain equals damage.

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Posted October 07 2012 - 04:49 PM

Gaping is such a turn on. But damn, it's got to be painful for chicks to get it as wide as a baseball bat...

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Posted October 10 2012 - 08:15 PM

gaping = relaxed = control Could not have described it better. Awesome description Myttia.

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Posted October 10 2012 - 08:18 PM

No pain, it is all in the positioning of your body. On your knees arse high up and presto.
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Posted October 11 2012 - 11:07 AM

my buttplug makes me gape a little when i have it in for awhile


What does gaping mean?

#26 Bond007

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Posted October 12 2012 - 08:58 AM

What does gaping mean?


It means when your asshole is stretched to the point where it makes a big hole.

#27 andmoreagain72

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Posted October 12 2012 - 03:54 PM

I've only had anal sex once.. the only girl who was up for it wasn't very long term.. it was one of the best orgasms I've had.. so tight.. we tried it with my ex-wife but couldn't enter her.. I think the next girl had done it before.. maybe she was already "opened up".. even writing about this subject has given me a massive erection..

#28 myttia

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Posted October 20 2012 - 12:55 AM

Gaping is such a turn on. But damn, it's got to be painful for chicks to get it as wide as a baseball bat...


not if you work up to it slowly.. could take years. not quite pain, but very intense. not that im there yet, but my guy seems to feel as big as one!! :)

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Posted October 20 2012 - 02:21 PM

My gfs ass gapes every time we do it anal it's lovely. And she can take a baseball bat in her ass.

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Posted October 22 2012 - 01:35 PM

Plenty of rimming, lube and finger work, build up to it