Watching your man masturbate. Turn on or Turn off?

Discussion in 'Sex Polls' started by hotdamandcheese, Aug 8, 2012.

  1. Sunlover1954

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    The thought of watching her from the closet makes me so aroused!
     
  2. ScorpioLady11

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    I love it!
     
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  3. Ashalicious

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    Watching my husband masturbate is definitely a turn on for me.
     
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  4. jmadre

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    I love this!!

    A big turn on for me is watching via Skype or sexting...but nothing compares to masturbating in person!!
     
  5. jeecan

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    In the beginning I never ever watched guys, I didn't want to see their faces when porn tapes showed them but I liked watching the famous facial cumshots. I preferred to look at women masturbating but women usually only squirmed and that’s it. I soon discovered that more was going on with men. I’m not gay but I prefer now to watch men and crossdresser’s jerking off. Later as webcams came on I found it so difficult to get a woman’s attention because too many other seekers so it was easier to watch men or tyrannies or crossdressers. Also the fact that Adult Theaters, contrary to stories of women in every corner is far from the truth. It’s usually all seniors and geeky looking guys, the kind without girlfriends. But there I seen many dirty acts of jerking off, I never knew somebody could jerk his hips so hard as he ejaculated or having their legs pulled wide apart just so they could be wide open to full view, the groaning and grunts you hear as his cock spurts it’s cream is so horny looking.
     
  6. Jenny40

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    Huge turn-on, to the point of wanting to join in.
     
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  7. Passion.Within

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    I love to see another person masturbate especially of its my partner so for me... it's definitely a turn on x
     
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  8. Running Man

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    I totally agree with Jenny and Passion. Watching your partner masturbate is an amazing turn on, especially if you talk to him/her while it's going on.
     
  9. chili

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    Love some mutual Masturbation!
     
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  10. Running Man

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    Me too chili.I like watching somebody else masturbate but I LOVE being watched and spoken to whilst I do it; it's an amazing turn on!
     
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  11. iamjustme

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    True.
    Same with me, I also prefer seeing women masterbate as I am not gay either. When it comes to videos, I have never watched a guy jerk off. Cam sites however, like Chaturbate or OMGChat (which is a LOT better)...the woman are either there to get suckers tip them for a two second glimpse of their tits or they just sit there with the cam showing a little cleavage and never do anything other than amuse themselves by all the rubes telling them how beautiful they are.
    Men however...are there for serious business. I also enjoy watching some get off, and thoroughly enjoy getting an audience to watch me masterbate.
    I guess part of it is the good ol' male ego...I am 50 years old and I admit it is pretty awesome to be able to attract a reasonably sized audience getting off at me...getting off!
     
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  12. hotbrowni3

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    Turn on! I especially love to see him stroke himself while giving me oral.
     
  13. cuddlefart

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    Mm hm, especially when he does it right overtop of my chest ;)
     
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  14. Sakie

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    I say turn on, yes. But not enough to get me off. More of an initiating thing, or foreplay.
     
  15. sexologystudent

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    Definite turn on.

    It's intimate in a way nothing else is.

    I used to find him jacking in the middle of the night, it never made me feel bad, I had bad insomnia and if he thought I was asleep he would never ever wake me.
    But to watch him, quietly beside him, taught me how he likes to be touched, how fast and slow to go with my hand later if I'm giving a HJ, how much pressure he likes.
    It was like getting personal instruction without talking at all. Made me better at both HJ and BJ.

    For those who dislike it because they think that having a partner means to never need to touch ones self, this doesn't mean you are doing something wrong.
    Sex with a partner take more work than alone time. There is no one else to please but yourself. Stresses of life can cause extra need to relax, maybe one of you was really tired and couldn't please the other to higher satisfaction. In any case, if it bothers you that the other touches themselves, talk about it. Find out why they need to do it. Sometimes I like self love more than partner love, I know myself better than any other person on the planet.
     
  16. Ldolber82

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    I love having one on each side of me jacking off, one fingering me and other one with finger in my ass.
     
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  17. Mr. Man

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    So you do this not just with your husband, but other men too? Who are usually the others? Friends of your husband's? Or other men you know?
     
  18. Ldolber82

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    Friends, relatives, sons friends (over 25)
     
  19. Mr. Man

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    Oh my, you are my kind of naughty woman! Which elatives have you done this with?
     
  20. Ldolber82

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    Can't really discuss that all here. My older sisters brother in laws.
     

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