my dad and I have been having sex 15 years......
Posted June 18 2011 - 01:51 AM
Posted June 18 2011 - 09:04 AM
that no one believe me
Don't ever say that, there are people who will listen and help out. 16, your still in h.s, i'm pretty sure your school counselor is able to help you out, or a close by community center.
I live there is it even sexual assault anylonger
yes it is.
If anything u can PM
Posted June 18 2011 - 09:16 AM
to clarify things for you, YES this IS SEXUAL ABUSE! Do not try to convince yourself that any type of related behavior on your father's part is ok, because it's NOT.
I encourage you to get help, but unfortunately I don't have any good suggestions. I know several teachers who have told me that getting proof of parent abuse is near impossible even when they know it for certain themselves. It's a damn shame. With rape there are examinations that can be done within 24-48 hours for "proof." I'm not positive but that might be something worth looking into as you begin defending yourself.
do you and your father openly discuss things, you say he told you he touched you as early as when you were 1 yr old...I was just thinking, perhaps you could record him saying stuff or coming onto you, or whatever might be good evidence against him. Doing that might take some time, but I honestly think it might not be too bad of a plan as long as you can conceal the recorder and get good sound quality.
you can pm me too if need be, for anything. i really want you to know this is wrong, and i encourage you and support you in getting help!
I am. I love. It is.
Respect and SUSTAIN GAIA, for it is she that sustains us.
Posted June 18 2011 - 11:45 PM
Posted June 18 2011 - 11:51 PM
plus I think it is extended because of the nature of the crime, too. the way things are nowadays, if you accuse him, there WILL be an investigation.
Posted June 19 2011 - 06:20 AM
when I was younger he talked about the good old times. He never talks about it now. He usually uses a condom because I have sex with other girls and I've infected him before. I don't think people would believe me since I've been promiscuous and my dad seems reputable that it wouldn't sound plausible. Plus people think I'm disgusting for letting it happen. I'm 16. And the age of consent is 16 why I wonder if it's abuse or not.
Your a minor still, so its sexual abuse, and your father is sick, and you can't predict what people will think of you. If you want this to stop happening you should go to a counselor asap. if you don't speak how can someone help you.
What state do you live in?
Posted June 19 2011 - 06:31 AM
Posted June 21 2011 - 11:05 AM
"I woke up this morning and I got myself a beer, 'cause the future's uncertain and the end is always near..."
Posted August 23 2011 - 08:22 AM
Posted September 02 2011 - 03:48 PM
you just need to know that your dad is a sick man...
no father in their right mind would do that. he needs
to be institutionalized. he could possibly have mental
problems which lead to his criminal behavior...
Posted September 15 2011 - 09:49 AM
but it's so terrible at least you can stop the cycle detain the offender so he can't hurt you, can't hurt anyone else anymore.
Posted September 15 2011 - 09:53 AM
Posted September 15 2011 - 10:14 AM
Posted November 20 2011 - 05:55 AM
what has been happening to you is wrong your farther is a very sick man who needs not only help but needs to be brought to justice, you don't have to continue being abused, i know about how scary it can be feeling no one will believe you, thats what i thought that no one would believe me, but they did he went to jail and he also got the help he needed to realise he was sick, and what he did was very wrong.
if you are to scared to talk to your mum of family member find a friend or someone you trust to go to the police and you mother about everything that has happened, she may not want to believe it, but this has to stop and most importantly it is not your fault in any way, you could not have stopped this, he is the sick one not you.
stay strong and i hope you get through this and we are always here if you need to talk.
Posted December 08 2011 - 04:00 PM
Posted December 08 2011 - 05:16 PM
Posted December 08 2011 - 05:17 PM
Please tell somebody sweet how can help you more then we can
Posted December 08 2011 - 07:10 PM