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#1 cman

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Posted May 23 2011 - 09:40 AM

I'm curious what women think of this as I have fantasised about me and my wife having one

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Posted May 23 2011 - 12:18 PM

My girlfriend says, "Sure.. it would be interesting."

I would think no matter what the responses are, that doesn't change the fact that your wife has her own opinion, and is the only one that can tell you what that is.
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Posted May 23 2011 - 12:22 PM

I've never experienced it, but I think is extremely hot.

I now feel like I'll never get to. Anyways what Duck said is right, your wife is her own person and we can't read her mind, if you don't know, then WE definitely will not.

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Posted May 23 2011 - 12:23 PM

I now feel like I'll never get to.

How come?
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Posted May 23 2011 - 12:29 PM

How come?


Because my bisexual boyfriend ended up being gay (or more gay than straight).

I feel like there's a level of intimacy needed for me to do that and if I was in a relationship with a guy who expressed interest in it, I'd be somewhat paranoid due to my own experience.

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Posted May 23 2011 - 12:36 PM

Oooh. Condolences.

Hopefully over time you will leave this nasty experience in the past =)
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Posted May 23 2011 - 12:44 PM

I'm curious what women think of this as I have fantasised about me and my wife having one


my wife is not interested in doing this and it will probably never happen but I want to know other women's response on how they feel about it

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Posted May 23 2011 - 12:47 PM

Oooh. Condolences.

Hopefully over time you will leave this nasty experience in the past =)


Hahaha, well he's not dead or anything :p, we're still best friends.

Maybe eventually I will. It's all very recent. I'm not even thinking of dating, much less mmf threesomes lol

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Posted May 23 2011 - 01:26 PM

I know how she feels but I just wanted to know other womens thoughts on the subject

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Posted May 26 2011 - 12:34 AM

I know how she feels but I just wanted to know other womens thoughts on the subject


my wife went along with it at first for my sake but then found she was rreally turned on by gay sex - seeing me with another guy and then sharing sucking and playing all together.

One year on she's having a double-think about where it's all going and what does she really want.

We are now in an open relationship, with us as primary, and have our own set of rules; but beware, opening up any relationship leads to changes.

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Posted July 06 2011 - 08:15 AM

I always wanted to try MMF MFF and MMFF with my ex wife. I was turned on by thoughts of us watching each other with and sharing other men and women. She wasn't the adventurous type, so I never brought it up. Everyone is different.

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Posted July 10 2011 - 04:24 PM

personally i don't see how a woman would be into that, but hey, to each their own.

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Posted July 10 2011 - 05:08 PM

personally i don't see how a woman would be into that, but hey, to each their own.

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Posted July 11 2011 - 09:26 AM

Would you be into an mff threesome?


only if it's with roseanne barr and kathy griffin. oh mama. :-)

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Posted August 18 2011 - 02:54 PM

My ex-girlfriend and i had talked about it many times and fantasized about it, and we eventually ended up having a threesome with a male friend once, and it was the sexiest thing ever! incredibly exciting and fun. But i guess all 3 people involved need to really be ok and want it.

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Posted October 18 2011 - 12:15 AM

well, coming from a wife, I am into trying it out. My husband is a beautiful, bisexual man, and I woudln't trade him for anything. He would like to have an experince with a man, and I would like to just watch. Perhaps, one day it may become more than that, but for now just wacthing him get what he needs that I cannot give him would be enough for me.

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Posted October 24 2011 - 12:02 AM

well, coming from a wife, I am into trying it out. My husband is a beautiful, bisexual man, and I woudln't trade him for anything. He would like to have an experince with a man, and I would like to just watch. Perhaps, one day it may become more than that, but for now just wacthing him get what he needs that I cannot give him would be enough for me.


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Posted October 24 2011 - 01:48 PM

You are an angel. I hope to have a wife like you someday.


I believe it would be a turn on for my wife to see me giving another guy a bj or even take from another guy anally but i don't think she would care for the intamacy as kissing and so forth but i'm not into that part of being with a guy ut to share a cock with my wife or let another man penetrate me while i'm doing my wife is a WOW thought but as we both feel it is wrong it will probably never happen

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Posted October 24 2011 - 02:37 PM

this makes me wish I could clone my boyfriend... :/

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Posted October 25 2011 - 08:46 AM

Itake it from post you like that so just out of curiousity how far would you want to see the guys get into each other

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Posted November 04 2011 - 07:24 AM

In my experience a lot of women are into mmf, and that makes me very happy. My best sexual experiences have always involved threesomes.
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Posted November 06 2011 - 12:36 PM

I hope I can convince my girl to include another man with us, I think it is super hot. But all my efforts have so far been denied, so I'll settle for her strapon for now...

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Posted November 06 2011 - 03:24 PM

This is one i think about and have a friend that wants to join me and my wife in a bi threesome but we try to stay away from it for religious reasons so i have thought about buying me and wife some toys but have yet to do it.

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Posted November 12 2011 - 10:50 AM

This is one i think about and have a friend that wants to join me and my wife in a bi threesome but we try to stay away from it for religious reasons so i have thought about buying me and wife some toys but have yet to do it.


You need to either find a new religion or let it go entirely. There's nothing wrong with consentual sex between adults unless it involves being unfaithful to someone. In this case it would not since you would both be participating. If you are both interested in trying it, then I say go for it. Threesomes can be extremely rewarding, as long as the people involved are all on the same page. I've had several girlfriends, including my current one, who were into group sex and it never caused any problems in those relationships because we were still committed to each other as far as our relationships were concerned. That's really important to me because as much as I enjoy being in the middle of a mmf threesome, I enjoy the rewards and security of a committed relationship even more.
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Posted November 12 2011 - 12:27 PM

You need to either find a new religion or let it go entirely. There's nothing wrong with consentual sex between adults unless it involves being unfaithful to someone. In this case it would not since you would both be participating. If you are both interested in trying it, then I say go for it. Threesomes can be extremely rewarding, as long as the people involved are all on the same page. I've had several girlfriends, including my current one, who were into group sex and it never caused any problems in those relationships because we were still committed to each other as far as our relationships were concerned. That's really important to me because as much as I enjoy being in the middle of a mmf threesome, I enjoy the rewards and security of a committed relationship even more.


As for the sex stuff I go nuts thinking about it but as far as it being wrong that's not what the bible interprets to me so I can't let go of it because we all got to stand in front of God one day and give an account for what we do and I'm not ready to bust hell wide open just to see if it feels good, I got enough to answer for now.

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Posted August 02 2012 - 04:00 PM

I'm a wife who is very open to trying almost anything at least once. My Husband and I have had FFM threesome where he got to play as much as i did. He is turned on by the idea of watching me getting screwed. I am turned on by the idea of having a MMF threesome whether or not my hubs would touch the guy or not. Dont get me wrong it makes me hot thinking of them playing together but even if he didnt want to, I'd be all for it.

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Posted August 04 2012 - 11:00 PM

As for the sex stuff I go nuts thinking about it but as far as it being wrong that's not what the bible interprets to me so I can't let go of it because we all got to stand in front of God one day and give an account for what we do and I'm not ready to bust hell wide open just to see if it feels good, I got enough to answer for now.


A human-created answer to the greatest unknown questions should have no say in what pleasurable, consensual activities you want to experience. Even if you assume there is a god (which there might be, who am I to say otherwise?) why would this all knowing being want you to not do something that would make you the most happy, especially if you believe we are his children. There is nothing sin-full about doing some kinky stuff. 'God' gave us a great imagination to make use of it in the most sensual and emotion filled, loving thing a human being can do to another (physically at least, and in a good relationship, emotionally as well).

I have nothing against people together following a common belief because it makes the world a more cheerful and peacefull place, I have problems with how people try and control other people through religion. And yes, I am assuming that one or many humans came together to form each and every religion that exists on this planet and came up with the 'sacred doctrine' that everyone who wants to be part of the religion must follow.

EDIT: And I know that many religions start from some spiritual premonition or vision or.. something, but people have these visions every night and every time they take any mind altering substance, or even just don't drink water or sleep.

Maybe I should just edit this and go over to the religious forum lol, sorry to hijack.

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Posted August 05 2012 - 06:57 PM

A human-created answer to the greatest unknown questions should have no say in what pleasurable, consensual activities you want to experience. Even if you assume there is a god (which there might be, who am I to say otherwise?) why would this all knowing being want you to not do something that would make you the most happy, especially if you believe we are his children. There is nothing sin-full about doing some kinky stuff. 'God' gave us a great imagination to make use of it in the most sensual and emotion filled, loving thing a human being can do to another (physically at least, and in a good relationship, emotionally as well).

I have nothing against people together following a common belief because it makes the world a more cheerful and peacefull place, I have problems with how people try and control other people through religion. And yes, I am assuming that one or many humans came together to form each and every religion that exists on this planet and came up with the 'sacred doctrine' that everyone who wants to be part of the religion must follow.

EDIT: And I know that many religions start from some spiritual premonition or vision or.. something, but people have these visions every night and every time they take any mind altering substance, or even just don't drink water or sleep.

Maybe I should just edit this and go over to the religious forum lol, sorry to hijack.

the reason he wouldnt want us to or could not want us to is because he didn't design us to be with same sex. I'm not going to put anyone down for doing it but i do believe there is a God, i believe the bible is his thoughts handed down and given to humans for us to understand him, and i believe he's coming back one day, and lastly i believe those who are not living and loving as he said will go to hell but if nobody else wants to believe that its their business. like i told somebody else if im wrong and their right then we are both ok, but if im right and their wrong they could burn

i will keep thinking about it though because i enjoy sex but its just not worth the risk to me

Edited by cman, August 05 2012 - 07:07 PM.
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Posted August 05 2012 - 07:17 PM

Well, I'm going back to the OP. He asked for a woman's take on our subject. My husband and I include one of our friends in mmf. The guys are both straight guys. So lucky me, I get all the attention....and love it. We have participated in many scenarios throughout the years with multiple partners, but mmf is my favorite. I will add that if my husband was so inclined I would not have a problem with any bi or gay activity. But today it's just him & me..... it's Naked Sunday & it's the best!!! Alas, Naked Sunday is at it's close....time to sleep and tomorrow start the dreaded clothed days and back to the rat race.....

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Posted August 05 2012 - 07:37 PM

if wife set it up id prob do it cause really dont think i could hold back but im holding on as long as i can