Why do some women play with their clits while being fucked ?

Discussion in 'The Orgasmic Experience' started by Bert2011, Feb 19, 2011.

  1. Geriatric Delinquent

    Geriatric Delinquent Member

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    If it looks like a Cockatoo's tongue then you've located the elusive little Pimpernel (Pimplenel?)!
     
  2. Bert2011

    Bert2011 Visitor

    Sweet and e7m8,

    I agree with you both and your posts make so much sense.

    It's also my fault for not elaborating further. In this scene, the man has quite a large penis and when he inserts it into her vagina, I can tell she's in a bit of pain. So she keeps massaging her clit constantly perhaps to alleviate this or to make her pussy wet. It's not being done for the viewer's pleasure, it's for her own purpose.

    If the woman were only playing with her clit and enjoying it, then the viewer can sense this and be aroused. Or if the woman were fucking the man only, then again this can be sensed and the viewer aroused.

    However, if she's doing both, I don't believe she's being told to do this for the viewers - she's doing it on her own accord. A woman playing with her clit while being fucked isn't going to arouse me any more than one who is not. It is the fucking action that is supposed to be arousing, at this point.

    Let me also say, that I detest porn where the woman seems to be forced into a painful activity and I derive no pleasure/arousal from this.

    Anyways guys, I'm real sorry for having to post such a long story and I understand your POV, but this case I believe is deeper than what it appears to be on the surface.
     
  3. MayQueen~420~

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    Some women can not get off on just being fucked alone and need clitoral stimulation as well. Aslo like daralicious said...It just feels good, lol.
     
  4. King of Zanzabar

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    To repeat the obvious: Because if feels good. DUH!
     
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  6. _Bob_

    _Bob_ Una Tana Bibi

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    All women are different-my first wife always had to have clitoral stimulation when we were fucking in order to orgasm. However, my second wife came absolutely every time without any clitoral stimulation at all. The few times I would try and stimulate her clit while I was fucking her, she'd pull my hand away and say that if her clit was stimulated, it would take away from the feeling in her vagina and make it harder for her to come, not easier.

    My current wife comes sometimes without stimulating her clit, sometimes she has to rub herself. Every chick is different. Just go with the flow and don't worry about it
     
  7. newbie-one

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    what you are seeing is acting. while it's possible that she may be experiencing pain during sex, it's more likely that she is pretending to be in pain, as many men who watch porn are turned on by this.

    No. It's pretty clear to me that it is being done for the viewer's pleasure. It's porn. She is is an actress. I don't think clit stimulation has any anesthetic properties, but don't take my word on it. If she needed more lubrication, she would probably use lube.

    No. While you personally may only like seeing one or the other, there are guys that like to see both. At the very least, it's a stock element of porn films.
     
  8. Telepath

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    The clitoris is the only body organ on huamns, male or female (though it's only on females ;)) that is there for only the purpose of sexual pleasure.
     
  9. newbie-one

    newbie-one one with the newbiverse

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    I hope that I don't come across as hostile, btw. It's probably a good thing that you are asking these questions
     
  10. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    or pimpleknee?:sunny:
     
  11. _Bob_

    _Bob_ Una Tana Bibi

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    My favorite organ, btw :)
     
  12. King of Zanzabar

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    In the book, THE BROTHERS K, the clitoris is called "her toggle switch." Description fits on several levels, really.
     
  13. MissingMyBoyfriend

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    It heightens climax. Feels all tickly and it makes the inside of my vjj ache... in a good way. So when his cock hits the gspot it's like a volcano.

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  14. Hippie McRaver

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    MissingMyBoyfriend, you have awesome tits. Thought you should know.
     
  15. Stopyerbitchn

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    The main oraginis zone is only 2 inches inside and the outside. If you feel inside to where the uterus opens up that's where it essentially stops. The outside is the best place. Organisms are a reproductive way for a woman to close the opening, hence the tightness during orgSim, to keep the sperm in and to open the canal to the eggs. Women in porn do enjoy it unless they are being forced to do the film or multiple scenes a day.
     
  16. Cutted

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    Because only about 30% of women can get an orgasm from intercourse alone. Another 25% can get one from clitoral stimulation plus intercourse, and about 25% from masturbation alone. The remaining 20% seldom or never get orgasms.
     
  17. I'mprettygoodatsex

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    I think this is very wrong... Girls don't massage their clits during sex to stay wet, they do it simply because it feels good. It's very possible she isn't enjoying it though and do it to make up for bad sex, which wouldn't be her fault if the guy fucking her is really bad at it
     
  18. nz male

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    Maybe they just like rubbing their clits because the partner is in a position where he can't reach her clit at the time & her own desires take over ?
     
  19. GBBlondie

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    Most women do it to increase their arousal levels, pure and simple. It really isn't related to "bad sex" most of the time. Some women get little direct arousal out of simple vaginal penetration by a penis, so rubbing their clits helps assuage that lack of arousal.
     
  20. Inca

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    ^^^^Spot on.....

    Research suggests only 20/30 percent of women have experienced vaginal orgasms.

    While the penis feels nice inside, and gives nice sensations, massaging the clit together with penetration makes climaxing easier.
     

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