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#1 Guest_Bert2011

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Posted February 19 2011 - 07:38 PM

I see this sometimes on films and wonder why ?

When they're being fucked, isn't that enough stimulation.

I get the feeling - and I could be wrong here, so please correct me - that they're not enjoying the fucking part, so they stimulate their clits to make up for this.

The other theory, is that they do this to keep their pussies wet, so that the sliding in and out of the penis is not painful. Why not use lubricant then ?

Any answers ?

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Posted February 19 2011 - 07:53 PM

becuse it feels awsome , duh

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Posted February 19 2011 - 08:10 PM

just the wording of teh question tells me gasshopper will never know.


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Posted February 19 2011 - 08:11 PM

Thanks daralicious,

I realize playing with your clit feels awesome.

But I sense there's something else happening.

1. They need to keep their pussy juices flowing or
2. They need to get some pleasure to make up for the hard big cock fucking them.

Do women normally play with their clits while being fucked ?

BTW, I apologize for not being clear. This is porn, so I'm not sure if the women are enjoying the fucking experience. I also apologize for my language, it's easier to just tell it like it is rather than finding the appropriate wording.

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Posted February 19 2011 - 08:17 PM

Some girls, myself included, can't get off with g-spot only stimulation. I can have a clit-only orgasm or a combo of clit and g-spot but never g-spot only. Unless I am in missionary or a position where my clit is grinding against his pelvis a certain way, I need a "hand" to get me off. In films though, I'm sure it's more for dramatic effect than anything ;)

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Posted February 19 2011 - 08:18 PM

just the wording of teh question tells me gasshopper will never know.


Males and females travel at different speeds. Some work on our part gets everyone closer to the finish line together.


Drum, I don't understand your 1st sentence.
Your 2nd one makes sense. Perhaps the woman wants to ensure she climaxes before the man, so she's not left wanting.

BTW, I see that you're a Supermoderator. There were 2 threads of mine that were removed. ' Why women fold their legs ' and ' Penis Envy ' . It made me quite angry, because I try as much as possible to tell the truth and I detest it when people do not believe me, especially on a Free Speech Forum.

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Posted February 19 2011 - 08:25 PM

Could Be Because Most Men Wouldn't Know What A "Clit" Was, Let Alone Know

Where To Find It..:eek: And If They Did, What To Do With It...:(.

Unfortunatly This Means The Lady Has To Take Care Of Herself...:(.

Sad State Of Affairs Really...:(.



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Posted February 19 2011 - 08:26 PM

Some girls, myself included, can't get off with g-spot only stimulation. I can have a clit-only orgasm or a combo of clit and g-spot but never g-spot only. Unless I am in missionary or a position where my clit is grinding against his pelvis a certain way, I need a "hand" to get me off. In films though, I'm sure it's more for dramatic effect than anything ;)


Thanks SweetBlasphemy, I think you're on to something here.

In films, the man does not get close to the woman (to kiss her etc). He keeps a distance so the film can capture his cock being rammed into her cunt, so there's no grinding of his pelvis against her clit. Perhaps, that leaves her unfulfilled and also gives her the room to play with her clit.

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Posted February 19 2011 - 08:28 PM

Could Be Because Most Men Wouldn't Know What A "Clit" Was, Let Alone Know

Where To Find It..:eek: And If They Did, What To Do With It...:(.

Unfortunatly This Means The Lady Has To Take Care Of Herself...:(.

Sad State Of Affairs Really...:(.



Cheers Glen.


Thanks Glen. See this is the power of brainstorming. Ideas pop out. Perhaps the woman has fucked so often in porn, that it doesn't turn her on anymore. So, she has to pleasure herself by playing with her clit.

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Posted February 19 2011 - 08:48 PM

please free yourself from the illusion that women are necessarily enjoying themselves in porn. porn is fiction about sex, it is there primarily as an aid to masturbation for men. It is not a sex education film. the women who act in porn films are there to make money, and they do what they are told to do. what they do in porn films has very little to do what fulfills them and everything to do with the directions they are given, which are based on creating films that make money. you would be ill advised to make inferences about women's attitudes toward sex and preferences based on porn.

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Posted February 19 2011 - 08:50 PM

Oh man, you don't get female anatomy that much.
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Posted February 19 2011 - 09:11 PM

are you talking about me or the OP?

I am well aware of the erotic powers of the clit,

however, what I said about porn still stands. porn is there to fulfill the fantasies of the men who watch it, not to satisfy the desires of the actresses. the extent to which porn-style sex would actually be pleasing to women is primarily coincidental

having said that, more women would probably play with their clits during sex if they were less sexually inhibited

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Posted February 19 2011 - 10:07 PM

please free yourself from the illusion that women are necessarily enjoying themselves in porn. porn is fiction about sex, it is there primarily as an aid to masturbation for men. It is not a sex education film. the women who act in porn films are there to make money, and they do what they are told to do. what they do in porn films has very little to do what fulfills them and everything to do with the directions they are given, which are based on creating films that make money. you would be ill advised to make inferences about women's attitudes toward sex and preferences based on porn.


^^^This. I was alluding to it when I said "it's thrown in for dramatic effect" but didn't feel like going into it. Thanks for elaborating, I agree 100% and it's a pretty important point in understanding sex IRL vs. the movies lol

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Posted February 19 2011 - 10:22 PM

:)

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Posted February 20 2011 - 10:47 AM

I like movie sex not porn sex movie sex it always seems more intense then real sex. maybe thats just my imagination playing with it but yea.

any who on topic they do it because it helps them cum and it feels amazing.

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Posted February 20 2011 - 10:56 AM

yet another man that has no clue about female anatomy and sexuality.

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Posted February 20 2011 - 11:07 AM

I'm not sure how some people end up so ignorant about these things. Questions like this seem to betray a complete lack of sexual understanding, as if it's a question with an easy logical answer. In porn, women rub their clits because the audience is generally turned on by it; in real life, I suppose they do it because it feels good. But everyone has a bit of a different reason or feeling of when or why they'd do it. "Why do women do x, y, or z?" is a bad question.

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Posted February 20 2011 - 12:32 PM

yet another man that has no clue about female anatomy and sexuality.

Hello vigilanteherbalist2,

If you're referring to me, then yes I admit I'm not an expert on female sexuality. I know a few things, but not everything, which is why I ask these questions.

I see that women give the best answers. Some men just guess or think they know a lot, but frankly it's the female answers that seem to make the most sense and satiate my curiousity.

BTW, it's not just for curiousity, but the next time I'm with a woman, I would know how to please her much better rather than being a clod who sticks his dick in and out and thinks that all that matters.

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Posted February 20 2011 - 12:37 PM

I think the clit is somewhere behind the knee, the left knee to be specific
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Posted February 20 2011 - 12:43 PM

I think this falls under-if a little is good-more is better.

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Posted February 20 2011 - 12:50 PM

I think the clit is somewhere behind the knee, the left knee to be specific


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Posted February 20 2011 - 01:19 PM

^^^This. I was alluding to it when I said "it's thrown in for dramatic effect" but didn't feel like going into it. Thanks for elaborating, I agree 100% and it's a pretty important point in understanding sex IRL vs. the movies lol


Sweet and e7m8,

I agree with you both and your posts make so much sense.

It's also my fault for not elaborating further. In this scene, the man has quite a large penis and when he inserts it into her vagina, I can tell she's in a bit of pain. So she keeps massaging her clit constantly perhaps to alleviate this or to make her pussy wet. It's not being done for the viewer's pleasure, it's for her own purpose.

If the woman were only playing with her clit and enjoying it, then the viewer can sense this and be aroused. Or if the woman were fucking the man only, then again this can be sensed and the viewer aroused.

However, if she's doing both, I don't believe she's being told to do this for the viewers - she's doing it on her own accord. A woman playing with her clit while being fucked isn't going to arouse me any more than one who is not. It is the fucking action that is supposed to be arousing, at this point.

Let me also say, that I detest porn where the woman seems to be forced into a painful activity and I derive no pleasure/arousal from this.

Anyways guys, I'm real sorry for having to post such a long story and I understand your POV, but this case I believe is deeper than what it appears to be on the surface.

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Posted February 20 2011 - 01:24 PM

Thanks daralicious,

I realize playing with your clit feels awesome.

But I sense there's something else happening.

1. They need to keep their pussy juices flowing or
2. They need to get some pleasure to make up for the hard big cock fucking them.

Do women normally play with their clits while being fucked ?

BTW, I apologize for not being clear. This is porn, so I'm not sure if the women are enjoying the fucking experience. I also apologize for my language, it's easier to just tell it like it is rather than finding the appropriate wording.


Some women can not get off on just being fucked alone and need clitoral stimulation as well. Aslo like daralicious said...It just feels good, lol.
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Posted February 22 2011 - 01:40 AM

To repeat the obvious: Because if feels good. DUH!
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Posted February 22 2011 - 08:38 AM

All women are different-my first wife always had to have clitoral stimulation when we were fucking in order to orgasm. However, my second wife came absolutely every time without any clitoral stimulation at all. The few times I would try and stimulate her clit while I was fucking her, she'd pull my hand away and say that if her clit was stimulated, it would take away from the feeling in her vagina and make it harder for her to come, not easier.

My current wife comes sometimes without stimulating her clit, sometimes she has to rub herself. Every chick is different. Just go with the flow and don't worry about it

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Posted February 22 2011 - 10:07 AM

the man has quite a large penis and when he inserts it into her vagina, I can tell she's in a bit of pain.


what you are seeing is acting. while it's possible that she may be experiencing pain during sex, it's more likely that she is pretending to be in pain, as many men who watch porn are turned on by this.

So she keeps massaging her clit constantly perhaps to alleviate this or to make her pussy wet. It's not being done for the viewer's pleasure, it's for her own purpose.


No. It's pretty clear to me that it is being done for the viewer's pleasure. It's porn. She is is an actress. I don't think clit stimulation has any anesthetic properties, but don't take my word on it. If she needed more lubrication, she would probably use lube.

If the woman were only playing with her clit and enjoying it, then the viewer can sense this and be aroused. Or if the woman were fucking the man only, then again this can be sensed and the viewer aroused.

However, if she's doing both, I don't believe she's being told to do this for the viewers - she's doing it on her own accord.


No. While you personally may only like seeing one or the other, there are guys that like to see both. At the very least, it's a stock element of porn films.

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Posted February 22 2011 - 10:12 AM

The clitoris is the only body organ on huamns, male or female (though it's only on females ;)) that is there for only the purpose of sexual pleasure.

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Posted February 22 2011 - 10:15 AM

I hope that I don't come across as hostile, btw. It's probably a good thing that you are asking these questions

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Posted February 22 2011 - 06:47 PM

If it looks like a Cockatoo's tongue then you've located the elusive little Pimpernel (Pimplenel?)!

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