Ladies, is it possible for a man to satisfy a woman without having a full erection and therefore no penetration. Can he do this by rubbing his soft penis against a woman's clitoris and getting her to climax this way ?
Yes it is possible if she orgasms via clitoral stimulation (which most do). But one would probably need to "hold" his penis in the right place to get the necessary "pressure."
What do you mean by ' right place ' ? Basically, the penis cannot enter the vagina, because it's not hard enough. So, the man continues with the same thrusting movements with his hips, but the penis now rubs against the clitoris (or that area). Using your hand to hold the penis in place may interfere with the rhythm and come in the way; besides what does it matter which direction the penis is facing or pressing as long as it rubs against the clitoris.
Tribbing - learn something new everyday. Although it's between 2 women, surely a man could do the same as well. I imagine the pressure between a soft penis against vulva would be less than vulva against vulva
Actually I have entered a girl soft and worked up to full erect before. It is tricky but it can be done. Stay, Brown, rev J
This actually segways into a question I have. As a female, I've been wondering if a guy can feel sexual pleasure from physical stimulation without getting an erection, if that is typical... and if that is different than w/ an erection? This seems to have happened with my bf a couple times now, like he'll be practically drooling but won't get hard over it so I have to get creative, "tribbing" etc...I just don't know what to make of that!
Yes - stimulation can be pleasurable even if it does not lead to an erection, although this is not usual. In my case, I need more stimulation to get / stay hard because of age and several medications I take which have "sexual side-effects." It is also not unusual for a guy to be hard at first, then during foreplay, if he is concentrating on her and not himself, to lose his erection. That's my6 experience anyway.
Thanks for the input. I've never been with anyone but this one person so I have no frame of reference besides, like porn. Figuring out how the piping works, at least this guy's, is like going through a maze (he's older, but not old, at 38). I don't want to embarrass him with my questions, since he seems to have some kind of complex psychological issue surrounding sex. Any insight into the possible male perspective is appreciated. That sucks about the foreplay... generally foreplay fills me with the desire to jump on cock and then suddenly there is nothing to jump on! MEN ARE SO SELFISH.
And don't forget fingers and tongue and toys -- there are many ways you can pleasure her and bring her to orgasm. And she can perform oral sex on you or give you a handjob and bring you to orgasm even if you do not have an erection (although the very fact of having her mouth or hand on your penis will probably cause some degree of erection).