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#1 NKUCheerChick

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Posted January 10 2011 - 07:16 AM

I have to vent to someone, since I am afraid to tell my boyfriend that I cheated on him. On Saturday, January 8, 2011 I had my first bi-sexual experience. It was with my best friend since middle school on the night of her bachelorette party. Neither of us are exactly sure what transpired just before the incident because we were both extremely intoxicated, but we both remember the incident extremely vividly. It was the first bi-sexual experience for both my best friend and myself. With that in mind, apparently performing oral on another girl is extremely instinctive because it was undoubtably the best oral I have ever received.

As a side note, when it comes to performing oral sex, performing oral on another girl is much less challenging than performing on a guy. And, the product "cum" from a girl taste much better (metallic in lieu of salty).

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Posted January 10 2011 - 07:40 AM

so congratulations - in my reckoning most people are bi but grow up with societies conditioning.

If bith you and she enjoyed the xperience - and if you were both drunk but vividly remember it, then it must have been something special.

And you were not cheating on your bf were you if it was another girl - who knows he might be keen to take part in the future.

As to easier head - well yeah I suppose it would be, not so much mouth full.

Relax - my wife got really turned on when we first had a mmf - it's all good fun............

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Posted January 10 2011 - 07:52 AM

I feel since it was your best friend since middle school that somehow its less of a "cheating" situation and more of a "self discovery" situation. Your friend is certainly in more potential hot water, being a fiancee.

Hot story either way :) congratulations

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Posted January 10 2011 - 08:02 AM

that is a lesbian experience btw...not a bisexual one...bisexual is what you are...not what you did

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Posted January 10 2011 - 08:05 AM

What, do ya gotta do both sexes at once for it to be Bi?

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Posted January 10 2011 - 08:40 AM

What, do ya gotta do both sexes at once for it to be Bi?

if one is 'bisexual'..it means sex with either male or female....but....woman on woman is a 'lesbian' experience...doesnt matter that both babes also like dudes..there were no dudes in the room...i suppose one could call a threesome with 2 sexes a 'bisexual' experience

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Posted January 10 2011 - 08:47 AM

hmmmm, I always thought you were bisexual if you were attracted to either sex.
Didn't know you had to have both sexes in the sack together.

That is sure gonna be harder, I mean rounding up two people everytime ya wanna have sex.
Damn and one is sometimes hard to cum by.

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Posted January 10 2011 - 08:50 AM

hmmmm, I always thought you were bisexual if you were attracted to either sex.
Didn't know you had to have both sexes in the sack together.

That is sure gonna be harder, I mean rounding up two people everytime ya wanna have sex.
Damn and one is sometimes hard to cum by.

not what i said...read the fucking post again...cant say it simpler..maybe you should stick to facebook discussions

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Posted January 10 2011 - 08:58 AM

eat a bug! your writing sucks:sunny:

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Posted January 10 2011 - 09:05 AM

eat a bug! your writing sucks:sunny:

thank you....5th in reputation on a site with 200,000 plus members says you are wrong..please stick to the thread topic and feel free to post any questions you have in a separate thread where they will be addressed appropriatelyPosted Image

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Posted January 10 2011 - 09:10 AM

thank you....5th in reputation on a site with 200,000 plus members says you are wrong..please stick to the thread topic and feel free to post any questions you have in a separate thread where they will be addressed appropriatelyPosted Image


just for the record 99% of reps I ever sent were because you begged for them :sultan:

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Posted January 10 2011 - 09:12 AM

not what i said...read the fucking post again...cant say it simpler..maybe you should stick to facebook discussions


Damn, you had to play the Facebook card :) Your reasoning was fairly clear to me. She's bi sexual and had her first lesbian experience.
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Posted January 10 2011 - 09:15 AM

what are ya running for office or something, who cares how popular you are.
look up bisexual before ya give any of your bullshit answers.

For a so called hippie, damn your touchy, uh how did the bug taste?
Oh yea, stop telling me what to do:)

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Posted January 10 2011 - 09:20 AM

just for the record 99% of reps I ever sent were because you begged for them :sultan:

your point?...takes a rep whore to know a rep whore...you know?Posted Image...and just so tanasi knows whats what..bbad is first in rep on this site

Damn, you had to play the Facebook card :) Your reasoning was fairly clear to me. She's bi sexual and had her first lesbian experience.

i have NEVER had a facebook acct. and proud of it..my same age friends all ask ''you're on facebook,right?''...they feel like idiots when i say ''no..but my teenager is''..some even try to get my son to 'add him'' lol..he laughs at their lameness...i would never have time to keep up with it any ways..:mickey:


now...lets try to steer this back to the op and her saturday january the 8th lol

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Posted January 10 2011 - 09:26 AM

what are ya running for office or something, who cares how popular you are.
look up bisexual before ya give any of your bullshit answers.

For a so called hippie, damn your touchy, uh how did the bug taste?
Oh yea, stop telling me what to do:)

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dont call me a hippie...:mickey: ...now please stop the bullshit and let the op expand on her bachelorette party:mickey:

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Posted January 10 2011 - 09:28 AM

I really don't feel like what you did was wrong and your boyfriend should be excited by the opportunities it may open for him.

But I will tell you my brother in law divorced his wife after catching her in bed with another girl, even after they invited him to join them. I never miss the chance to remind him of what a dumb ass he was for doing that.
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#17 NKUCheerChick

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Posted January 10 2011 - 09:31 AM

and if you were both drunk but vividly remember it, then it must have been something special.

who knows he might be keen to take part in the future.

As to easier head - well yeah I suppose it would be, not so much mouth full.


It was indeed "something special". As I stated before, it was undoubtably the best oral that I have ever received. It was the first time that I ever experienced multiple intense orgasms from recieving oral.

I serious doubt that an incident of this type will occur in the future. Also, I have no intentions of ever participating in a threesome.

Not exactly the response that I had expected, but extremely true!

Your friend is certainly in more potential hot water, being a fiancee.


We have discussed the experience and agreed that it should be kept between ourselves. We have been best friends since middle school, the guys in our lives know all of our secrets.

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Posted January 10 2011 - 10:28 AM

that is a lesbian experience btw...not a bisexual one...bisexual is what you are...not what you did


yeah, this is what i was going to say too.

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Posted January 10 2011 - 10:35 AM

I've always been one to say, "It's up to every significant other to decide what cheating is," but if you're boy thinks this is cheating, he's pretty lame.

Try to transcend any guilt you might have and remember what a good and important experience it was for you.
If you feel that you must tell him; don't wait too long, or if possible, tell him as if it happened a while ago and you never told him.

Do you have any way to gauge how your boy would feel about this?
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Posted January 10 2011 - 10:49 AM

I dont buy the "its not cheating if its with a girl" bullshit. Yes it was experimentation, and I totally support that. But cheating is with another person other then who is your boyfriend/girlfriend. Of course it totally depends on what your moral beliefs are. However, if a girlfriend of mine slept with another girl I would get upset. Because if I had a girlfriend and then myself slept with another guy I would imagine she would be pissed too.
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Posted January 10 2011 - 11:29 AM

Regardless of the outcome I would confess ASAP to limit the damage - the longer you don't talk the more suspect it is and more difficult it will be to deal with. If you'd told him straight out the next morning he probably would have just been turned on - you got really drunk and lezzed out - no biggie.

You tell him 2 years from now it's going to mean you've been lying to him for 2 years....

Which do you think sounds worse?

It's not the sex that is the problem in relationships, it's the lying.

Also - if you are the type of person who can't control themselves when drunk you may need to take a closer look at yourself.

Also - bragging about rep points or using them as a rationale for whether you are right or wrong is kind of like a retard saying that he's not retarded while he mispells the word retard at the same time.

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Posted January 10 2011 - 11:54 AM

Yes, it is cheating. You had sex with another person without your significant other's knowledge. (Strip out all the gender there) That's cheating in pretty much anybody's book.
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Posted January 10 2011 - 12:04 PM

It was indeed "something special". As I stated before, it was undoubtably the best oral that I have ever received. It was the first time that I ever experienced multiple intense orgasms from recieving oral.

I serious doubt that an incident of this type will occur in the future. Also, I have no intentions of ever participating in a threesome.

Not exactly the response that I had expected, but extremely true!

We have discussed the experience and agreed that it should be kept between ourselves. We have been best friends since middle school, the guys in our lives know all of our secrets.


.........the best oral ever........ ok, so now youl'll settle for 2nd best for the rest of your life and do the expected straight thing. No further discussion - it's your life lady but normally if you have a super new experience you keep an open mind if you know what i mean.............

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Posted January 10 2011 - 01:40 PM

I dont buy the "its not cheating if its with a girl" bullshit. Yes it was experimentation, and I totally support that. But cheating is with another person other then who is your boyfriend/girlfriend. Of course it totally depends on what your moral beliefs are. However, if a girlfriend of mine slept with another girl I would get upset. Because if I had a girlfriend and then myself slept with another guy I would imagine she would be pissed too.


Exactly. I dont think its for anyone else to put their own moral beliefs on others, and say things like "its not cheating" or "if the bf thinks its cheating he's lame". If you personally wouldnt think its cheating, then fair enough. Lots of people however, would, and its their right to be that way, just as it is for everyone who wouldnt regard it as a cheating.

If I ever had a boyfriend, I know I would be upset if I knew he'd slept with another guy while with me. I would be marginally more upset if it with was a woman, because at least if it was with a guy, Id know that it wasnt a problem with me as a woman, because no woman would be sufficient. But I most certainly would still regard it as cheating.

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Posted January 10 2011 - 03:26 PM

It doesnt matter anyway, the guys are going to assume you are going to cheat anyway, you're a girl so most of them will (wrongly) assume its easy for you to get, thats why most can be so overprotective.

Where as you girls, unless he's superhot will for the most part assume the only way he can cheat is if he pays for it, which doesnt really mean anything.

Like it or not, their is a difference there between the sexes. So you are going to limit yourself for a guy thats going to assume you've cheated anyway?

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Posted January 13 2011 - 11:28 AM

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Posted January 18 2011 - 03:23 PM

I don't consider this cheating. But then again, I simply can't be in a relationship unless we're both free to have sex outside of the relationship under conditions we both agree on. This was a special experience for you, with someone you trust. It was a first, and might have made you realize something about yourself. And in the end, you still care enough about your boyfriend to be concerned about your relationship if he found out.

I don't see what's so bad about that, whether he ever joins in or not.




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