Do you like to "edge" when you masturbate?

@ Alternative Thinker

It's not tantric at all. The ejeculation follows orgasm almost immediately. It's your skill to catch the moment and stop playing with your dick to have orgasm and avoid the ejeculation. I can teach you if interested

 

Can you teach me please?

 

No, I like to shoot it out lol.

 

Now I'm curious to about having an orgasm without ejaculatiing. Does it cause discomfort?

 

No discomfort. Basically it is the self control. If you can stop yourself just before ejaculating, you can achieve this.

 

A bit similar to a woman having an orgasm but without squirting?

 

Yeah. Something like that. But it can be achieved only while masturbating.

 

That's very interesting TEO. The reason why I said Tantric masturbation was because a part of the exercise is to train your PC muscle first via Kegel, then during masturbation as you approach an orgasm. When you feel an orgasm approaching, you tighten your PC muscle to REALLY "hold" your orgasm in while still applying stimulation to your penis. The stimulation can be very subtle so as to prevent yourself from actually going over the edge. But the idea is to keep stimulating your penis throughout this phase.

There are also other things like the breathing technique(slow, calm, deep breaths), as well as allowing yourself to be aware of all the sensations your body is experiencing during the session. In Tantric sex/masturbation as more of a strict form, you have to actually get into the whole spiritual side of things, too. The whole "Chakras", and things. I have to look into all that stuff myself, but I've been a bit lazy in that respect I must admit.

The holding part can be really difficult, and it can take a long time before you can do it right, because the hardest part is to keep applying stimulation while squeezing your PC muscle tight(sort of like when you're holding pee, lol) as you approach the point-of-no-return, and "ride through the orgasm" without actually ejaculating. But I've been doing this a lot more these days since I've been having a bit of a situation and I want to become sexually healthy again.

 

I find it to be exactly the opposite. The ejaculation begins before the orgasm, like loading a gun, which is the basis for my Dribbler technique.

The bullet goes in the chamber first (the semen rises), then the hammer normally triggers the explosion in the cartridge, forcing it out, but if you can stop in that moment when the semen starts to rise, just before the hammer strikes (when the orgasm would normally kick in), you can repeat this time & time again, until you can't hold back any more, when the eventual orgasm will seem like all those missed orgasms combined into one big one.

 

Exactly. And you CAN do this with your partner during intercourse. You wind up sort of having your own sloppy seconds, which is its own reward.

 

this is a great analogy. I DO find that when i do Ejaculate it is really intense assuming it is not directly after riding and edge. IE i find that if i am close to the point of no return (PONR) I need to take a break an let my excitment subside somewhat otherwise i miss out.

The other thing others have pointed out is that the "almost comming" can actually be an orgasm but, without the ejaculation. I find that my Penis throbs, pulsates and i may even have a slight semen in my pre-cum ooze but, if i have timed it right i and back off on the stimulation you can really ride this feeling of being on the edge for a while. For me though i have a purposeful "slow down" stroke that is very light. For me any contact with the head will cause me to spurt. Instead i lightly stroke my shaft. I also find i can not touch myself at all at this point and by watching girls/porn i can stay highly aroused.

 

I get this too! After some practice you get used to when to stop and you can make orgasms last ages until eventuially you allow yourself to cum with a such a huge orgasm it almost hurts a little!!
I can get this perfect with my fleshlight too!

 

Edging is the way to go...... I can fire a load a good 3 feet if I properly prime myself and build up the tension by denying myself an orgasm for a while.

 

Off subject, but don't know how to pm, do u have to b a paid member?

 

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I have a question, does it mean Kegel exercise?

 

When you are peeing, and you tense the muscles in mid-stream to stop the flow, you're using your Kegel muscles. These are also the muscles which, in the female, can be controlled to tighten & grip the penis during sex. The tighter the grip & the higher the degree of control, the more pleasure the man will experience.

The same also applies to control of the rectum for Anal Sex.

 

I'm always playing with myself when ever I lying down and it last as long as I wish or until I explode:2thumbsup:

 

I edge most every time. Ill do it for up to two hours before exploding.......literally.

 

Oh yeah I do that mostly I do it so I can finish watching a porn that's too long