Why do I want to watch my wife fuck another guy?

Discussion in 'Free Love' started by verkitwme, Nov 4, 2010.

  1. downsouth_81

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    the same reason you might want to watch your wife fuck other men is the REAL reason men like porn- we like to see women have sex and enjoy it. and you might want your wife to be your real-life porn star and you want to see her in sexual excitement with someone other than you. its a common fantasy among men and one of my biggest.
     
  2. ntglty

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    I have watched my wife fuck a younger man once and didn't think I would like it, but it really turned me on! I can't get the fantasy out of my head now.
     
  3. agron

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    Are you serious.!!
     
  4. Beenthere

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    My ex-wife and I partook of swinging for 12 years or so. Started off as MFMF 4somes but I quickly discovered I much preferred to watch her and/or join in with her than be with another woman so MMF was perfect for us. Over the years we tried it all including groups and gangbangs. Actually concluding that black guys were the best!

    This last point kinda plays to the size issue - I'm 7" and a pretty reasonable shag but some of these black guys are 9,10" plus - there's no way a mortal white guy can compete with that; BUT that's no reason not to allow a woman to enjoy it, so I strongly encouraged her and she loved it - hell who wouldn't!

    Each to their own of course but seeing a woman respond to a very well hung guy is SPECTACULAR.

    So why 'ex-wife' I hear you ask - nothing to do with it actually, our reasons to split were seated in a very different area, sexually we were fantastic together and we both still love remembering her sexual encounters. Hell we actually both still love one another but our lives had to take different trajectories. Point is, neither of us have a bad word to say about it!

    IF HOWEVER you're the jealous type or not 100% sure who you're going home with, do not touch it with a barge pole...

    ... and yeah you'll see guys who have bigger cocks or make her cum hard... and the secret is to say "holy shit love, how about taking him for a test drive, it'd be spectacular"! ... and enjoy/laugh about it - she married you for much more important reasons.

    :2thumbsup:
     
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  5. fishingnpole

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    Have done this in the past with my wife and enjoyed watching her taking his big cock in her pussy.been talkinf to her about doing this again and she says yes at times.
     
  6. fishingnpole

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    I have watch my wife having sex with other men in the past and loved it.Have been talking to her about her being shared again she says yes somtimes.I just need to find some new friends to help me get her done
     
  7. fishingnpole

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    I have watched my n.e.ohio wife with other men in the past and enjoyed it.Been talking to her about being shared again and somtimes she says yes.I just need to find some new friends to help me get her fucked.
     
  8. xyzniloc

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    This concept turns me on a lot, that's how I found this forum, but I have to say I think I would regret actually doing it. Did that happen to anyone reading this? Even though my gal and I have amazing sex, I think if I watched her have amazing sex with someone else that would be hot but then ruin it for me after. Also yeah if the guy was more hung than me and and really good in bed, and she loved it, well then why wouldn't she want to keep fucking him? I guess some of you would say that's the point. I guess it comes down to I want to be special to her more than I want to watch something really hot and naughty. I had a FMF threesome in college long ago, but that was different. I guess I could get into a MFM but probably with the F not being my gal.
     
  9. james73

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    I had the same fantasy,my wife is super hot young spanish woman,and I wanted to see her fuck A guy with a massive unit, it took a while to talk her into it, then she picked a friend of ours from germany and he was hung, i never imagined she would like it as much as she did.
     
  10. james73

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    I let my wife do it and we have a great relationship but i set up a spy cam to see if she would do it without me knowing and she does,and the wierd part is the videos are sexy as hell and I dont want to tell her that I know.
     
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    Any update please?:)
     
  12. james73

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    Does the other guy have a bigger dick than your husband?
     
  13. Adultbookmaker

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    This have been my biggest turn on in sexual life.. to be watcing my gal get used by others... am actually in midst of creating a community for people with different fantasies, deep discreet fantasises like this...
    hmmm
     
  14. chadcr01

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    Nice :sunny:
     
  15. enhancer13

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    My lady and I hooked up with our first couple this past weekend and I got to watch her with both the man and the woman! Got to tell you I loved every minute of it. She felt the same way about watching me with the other woman. Neither one of us had any problem with it after either. We are very close, secure with ourselves and our relationship and communicate about everything. If it was not like that with us we would have never considered living this kind of lifestyle. Not for everyone, just the people that know how to deal with it.
     
  16. Serene Divinity

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    I have fantisized my husband fucking another girl and it gets me off. Like I would want to be there to see it and all, but something about it makes me love him just a little more. And I want another man to fuck me in front of him as well
     
  17. jimandjan

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    I dated my wife in highschool. I was two years older, and had a few other lovers. I was her first. After she graduated. We started living together. We never talked about marriage. She was actually the one who stated,
    she wanted to experiement, before we made any commitments.
    After a couple of years living together, she still hadn't been with another man. She was attractive, and had a good body. So shouldn't of had any problems. One night we got together with another couple, good friends of ours. We decided to switch partner. Things didn't work out. It was new years eve, and way too much celebration had been done.
    Several months passed, and the couple told us they had went to a swing club, but just checked it out. We were interested in hearing more. and they told us a couple they meet, were planning a small house party. They said, if we wanted to, they would check with the host to see if it was alright.
    When the night came, my girl dressed super sexy. We arrived at the party, and seen there was about four other couples. The only problem we seen was the age difference. We guessed all the couples except our friends, had to be 30's or older. We were both early 20's. All the couples were friendly, and tried to make us feel comfortable. We had been there about half an hour, when a tall black man arrived. At the time I was talking to the man who hosted the party. His wife took the gentleman around and introduced him to everyone. After I was introduced to him, as [Tim]. when they walked away the host, told me Tim and his wife got together every now and then, and mentioned Tim was hung.and hoped I didn't mind him being here. I told him I didn't mind at all.
    Later I seen Tim talking to my girl. I was sure he was hitting on her, since she was the sharpest looking girl there. A few minutes later, they walked over to me. She asked me if I had meet Tim. I said yes. We stood there making small talk for awhile. Pretty soon the lights were low, and the music was soft. Tim asked if I cared if he danced with my girl. I said go ahead. Pretty soon the hostess, came up to me and asked me to dance. We were in their basement. which had a pool table at one end, and a open area at the other end, where we were dancing. I couldn't help but watching my girl, and they were close. When the song ended, the four of us chatted. The first minute me and my girl, got alone she said, Tim wanted to be with her. I told her I figured that. She said she hadn't thought about being with a black guy. I said what's wrong with that. She said; I guess nothing. I told her then go for it. Then I told her, besides I was told he was well endowed. She said ; she knew that. Later they disappeared, and never seen them again untill two hours later. On the drive home, I couldn't believe I got so excited, when she told me about her evening. A few months later we did arrange a threesome, with him. I enjoyed, but felt a bit cuckholded.
     
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  18. Mountain Valley Wolf

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    My wife is a Filipina and also has an amazing ability to move her vaginal muscles as well. I met her in Japan, and Japanese prostitutes traditionally used there vaginal muscles in a very old technique called 'kinchaku,' which means the Golden Purse----a gold purse that was closed with drawstrings---when done correctly while the man is coming, it can produce the sensation that she is sucking his come out with her vagina. (She was not a prostitute, and I learned this from my first wife who was Japanese, and had learned it from her first lover). When my present wife first did this to me, it was very good, and together we perfected it in the kinchaku tradition.

    I recently wrote about our open marriage experiences on another thread:

    ...Oh yes, and after being with my sexy wife for 18 years, in order to spice up our sex life, I tried to get her to do a menage a trois. She refused, but after a little nudging she settled for taking on a lover, with whom she pretends to always charge her cell phone, but in fact calls me and allows me to listen in on their lovemaking. Then she returns home and we re-enact everything they did. We sometimes did it all night, and then woke up horney as hell and repeated it some more. That was 6 years ago, and she still sees him occaisionally. He has no idea we do this, and one time when he was away, we even made love in his bed (she has his key, and he needed her to get something to send to him), and re-enacted some of their escapades there. She also had him take some photos of her in his bed which I look at while listening to them. After 6 years, it is still just about as exciting as the first time.
     
  19. FrostByte

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    I feel the same way about sharing my gf. My girl is a filipina, who I meet thru a dating site. She is in her early twenties and I like this girl a lot, like I’m thinking marriage material here...but I have this fantasy about watching her fuck another guy (or guys).

    I think it’s better to try this before a serious relationship starts. If it doesn’t work out, then all you lose (regrettably) is a gf, and if it does work out then you know you have found the perfect match....well sexually at least. Maybe others disagree, but that’s how I see it. I haven't discussed this with her yet, but the thought of another guy pounding her and cuming in or on her makes me horny as hell.
     
  20. Wrong un

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    My wife of 26 years still regularly fucks the boyfriend she was with before me. She met him randomly him many years after we married, and (with my permission) then met him for lunch from time to time.

    I knew before she admitted it, that she wanted to sleep with him again as she had often talked about their wild sex and his excessive size. The deal is that she always tells me details about their sex sessions.

    I would love to watch them as it is so damn sexy, but I have to make do with her accounts and numerous photos they have taken.

    It's not for everyone, but it adds a special something to our married life
     
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