Ladies, why do you enjoy giving handjobs?

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  1. johnnyshinta

    johnnyshinta Member

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    What makes you want to give one. Not just willing to?

    Trying to get some argument points for why to do them.
     
  2. King of Zanzabar

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    No responses, so I guess your answer is that they don't especially enjoy it. Any woman who "prefers" giving a handjob probably doesn't want to have sex for whatever reason. I've had a few women who gave it a try in a playful moment, but it's actually a hard thing to get right.
     
  3. Telepath

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    I don't enjoy touching dick. I mean I hardly do enjoy it.
     
  4. King of Zanzabar

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    My wife always said a horses' muzzle felt alot like the head of a cock. I can never pet a horse again without grimacing a bit. Still, it's an interesting comparison. I guess the skin on that portion of a man's body is pretty smooth.
     
  5. idioticnumbskull

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    I'd prefare a blowjob. I can already give myself a handjob.
     
  6. RobynCB90

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    We want to give one because it makes us happy that we can make our partner happy. If you care about someone, it's pretty nice to know that you can please them in a sexual way. Plus, hand-jobs are a lot less work then blow-jobs, so it's not a bad thing to have an easier and less tiring way to do it.
     
  7. idioticnumbskull

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    If I woman gets off on it, then I'm for it. I'd still prefare a blowjob though.
     
  8. johnnyshinta

    johnnyshinta Member

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    true enough
     
  9. Duck

    Duck quack. Lifetime Supporter

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    My girlfriend seems to like giving them because of the dominating/power aspect of it.
     
  10. Jackazz

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    My wife likes the feel of it in her hand and she knows it feels good so she will just start giving me a hand job, plus its easier to hide if you are in public
     
  11. The Imaginary Being

    The Imaginary Being PAIN IN ASS Lifetime Supporter

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    he'll leave you alone, without the sour taste in the mouth afterwards.
     
  12. Yazzz

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    Handjobs are silly to me - trust me - I can definitely do that better than she can...
     
  13. The Imaginary Being

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    the stranger?
     
  14. mfnicole

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    I dont really give hand jobs... I have, but yeah I just assume the man knows how to do it better than me, so I dont waste my time. He isnt, however able to suck his dick better.
     
  15. Si69

    Si69 Senior Member Lifetime Supporter

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    hopefully it's because they like the feel of a hard throbbing cock in their hand................ I know I do :sunny:

    Simon
     
  16. RooRshack

    RooRshack On Sabbatical

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    Do you like fingering her? If you don't, she probly doesn't....

    I personally can enjoy that, at least in public or something... but girls just tend to.... not like sex as much as guys. And not be as willing to work towards something that they do like.
     
  17. King of Zanzabar

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    I had a girlfriend who considered a handjob a tease. And it was! She'd stroke me under the restaurant table or driving home from the movies, and that would have me primed and ready for the evening. Hell, one time we barely got out of the car; pulled into the garage, closed the door, and did it right there on top of a rolled up rug.

    I guess, however, a handjob is a stroke-to-squirt affair, and I haven't known many women who actively did it unless there was another reason we/she couldn't do me that sort of favor another way (oral surgery, urniary infection, simply being sick, etc). Let's be honest, there are a lot of women who don't like to give head, and there are times when conventional sex isn't an option.

    The truth is, this is a very odd question, because it supposes that women enjoy that option of giving pleasure. It should be: "Ladies, DO you enjoy giving handjobs?"
     
  18. screwwho?

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    To get my husband hard, or because I don't want to have sex, which is hardly ever. He doesn't prefer a hand job over sex or oral, either. I really enjoy touching it in foreplay, etc., but not for the long haul.
     
  19. horny_as_hell

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    not a huge fan of hand jobs,
    but i love love LOVE giving blow jobs ;)
    it gets me all hot and bothered.
     
  20. johnnyshinta

    johnnyshinta Member

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    Ya...not my wife. He's a lucky man.


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