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#1 johnnyshinta

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Posted October 25 2010 - 05:03 PM

What makes you want to give one. Not just willing to?

Trying to get some argument points for why to do them.

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Posted October 29 2010 - 07:58 AM

No responses, so I guess your answer is that they don't especially enjoy it. Any woman who "prefers" giving a handjob probably doesn't want to have sex for whatever reason. I've had a few women who gave it a try in a playful moment, but it's actually a hard thing to get right.
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Posted October 29 2010 - 08:02 AM

I don't enjoy touching dick. I mean I hardly do enjoy it.

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Posted October 29 2010 - 01:28 PM

I don't enjoy touching dick. I mean I hardly do enjoy it.


My wife always said a horses' muzzle felt alot like the head of a cock. I can never pet a horse again without grimacing a bit. Still, it's an interesting comparison. I guess the skin on that portion of a man's body is pretty smooth.
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Posted October 29 2010 - 01:30 PM

I'd prefare a blowjob. I can already give myself a handjob.

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Posted October 29 2010 - 01:38 PM

We want to give one because it makes us happy that we can make our partner happy. If you care about someone, it's pretty nice to know that you can please them in a sexual way. Plus, hand-jobs are a lot less work then blow-jobs, so it's not a bad thing to have an easier and less tiring way to do it.
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Posted October 29 2010 - 01:40 PM

If I woman gets off on it, then I'm for it. I'd still prefare a blowjob though.

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Posted November 01 2010 - 10:10 PM

true enough

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Posted November 01 2010 - 11:19 PM

My girlfriend seems to like giving them because of the dominating/power aspect of it.
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Posted November 03 2010 - 08:58 AM

My wife likes the feel of it in her hand and she knows it feels good so she will just start giving me a hand job, plus its easier to hide if you are in public

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Posted November 03 2010 - 09:36 AM

he'll leave you alone, without the sour taste in the mouth afterwards.

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Posted November 03 2010 - 09:37 AM

Handjobs are silly to me - trust me - I can definitely do that better than she can...

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Posted November 03 2010 - 09:38 AM

Handjobs are silly to me - trust me - I can definitely do that better than she can...


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Posted November 03 2010 - 09:51 AM

I dont really give hand jobs... I have, but yeah I just assume the man knows how to do it better than me, so I dont waste my time. He isnt, however able to suck his dick better.

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Posted December 22 2010 - 11:50 PM

hopefully it's because they like the feel of a hard throbbing cock in their hand................ I know I do :sunny:

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Posted December 23 2010 - 12:33 AM

Do you like fingering her? If you don't, she probly doesn't....

I personally can enjoy that, at least in public or something... but girls just tend to.... not like sex as much as guys. And not be as willing to work towards something that they do like.

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#17 King of Zanzabar

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Posted December 23 2010 - 11:15 AM

I had a girlfriend who considered a handjob a tease. And it was! She'd stroke me under the restaurant table or driving home from the movies, and that would have me primed and ready for the evening. Hell, one time we barely got out of the car; pulled into the garage, closed the door, and did it right there on top of a rolled up rug.

I guess, however, a handjob is a stroke-to-squirt affair, and I haven't known many women who actively did it unless there was another reason we/she couldn't do me that sort of favor another way (oral surgery, urniary infection, simply being sick, etc). Let's be honest, there are a lot of women who don't like to give head, and there are times when conventional sex isn't an option.

The truth is, this is a very odd question, because it supposes that women enjoy that option of giving pleasure. It should be: "Ladies, DO you enjoy giving handjobs?"
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Posted January 31 2011 - 09:44 AM

To get my husband hard, or because I don't want to have sex, which is hardly ever. He doesn't prefer a hand job over sex or oral, either. I really enjoy touching it in foreplay, etc., but not for the long haul.

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Posted February 14 2011 - 12:04 AM

not a huge fan of hand jobs,
but i love love LOVE giving blow jobs ;)
it gets me all hot and bothered.

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Posted February 14 2011 - 07:20 AM

Ya...not my wife. He's a lucky man.

not a huge fan of hand jobs,
but i love love LOVE giving blow jobs ;)
it gets me all hot and bothered.




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Posted February 14 2011 - 07:48 AM

As a lady, I love giving them.
I'll never forget years ago (in my learning years) reading that you were suppose to grip it like a steering wheel and go at the speed of saying miss-is-si-ppi. Several pornos later I realized there were many other techniques that "heightened" the experience. For him AND me. Giving them, I can say, is a big turn on. It's not because I don't want to have sex. I enjoy watching him, seeing what gets him off. I figure he's been playing with it since he discovered it was there, so why can't I?!!

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Posted December 02 2011 - 06:33 AM

It can be fun. I never met a guy who didn't enjoy a hand job and I enjoyed giving them. I like playing with my husband's penis. It feels good in my hand and I enjoy stroking him and watching and he certainly enjoys it. (By the way, I also enjoy oral sex as well.)

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Posted December 02 2011 - 06:37 AM

As a lady, I love giving them.
I'll never forget years ago (in my learning years) reading that you were suppose to grip it like a steering wheel and go at the speed of saying miss-is-si-ppi. Several pornos later I realized there were many other techniques that "heightened" the experience. For him AND me. Giving them, I can say, is a big turn on. It's not because I don't want to have sex. I enjoy watching him, seeing what gets him off. I figure he's been playing with it since he discovered it was there, so why can't I?!!

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Lotion or tingle cream please, thanks for offering me a choice. You can start whenever your are ready

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Posted December 03 2011 - 04:27 PM

I love cock. Everything about it. I love to feel it in my hand. I even enjoy the arm ache when I'm pumping hard. I love pleasing the man, so yes, handjobs are fun times for me. Let's not forget blowjobs too! ^_^

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Posted December 03 2011 - 04:35 PM

Yes I enjoy it.

The best part is making it wake up and grow in your hand.
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Posted December 05 2011 - 05:32 AM

Yes I enjoy it.

The best part is making it wake up and grow in your hand.


Oh my God, yes. :drool5:

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Posted February 02 2012 - 07:21 PM

It is fun. It is sexy. It makes me feel good. It makes him feel good. It is a feeling of sexual power and energy. I like the feeling of stroking him, having my hand wrapped around him. I like watching -- my husband is uncircumcised and I like watching the foreskin pull back, return, pull back, return -- with the lovely rec head peeking out -- and I love watching him when he cums, spurting out. It just really makes me feel good to know I did that.

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Posted February 05 2012 - 08:49 PM

I don't really give handjobs. I'll play with it for a minute because I like the feel of it in my hand, but then I'll just stick it in my mouth or my pussy :)

I don't see the point of giving a handjob to the point of him cumming. They know they can do it better because they do it all the time.

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Posted February 05 2012 - 11:56 PM

I can say i have never received a hand job from start to finish, am i really missing out? Girls just rather put it in their mouth or poose, seems like a bit of a tease to me but i love being teased.

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Posted February 06 2012 - 06:19 AM

I can say i have never received a hand job from start to finish, am i really missing out?


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