love child

have any of you had a one night experience that was incredibly beautiful and loving with someone and then parted ways. then realised you were pregnant????

I don't know it just sounds kind of amazing. :sunny:

 

Sounds like the worst thing that could happen to me.

 

sounds like a nightmare

 

my ex girlfriend was the evidence of exactly that.

 

I mean at some kind of festival with incredible music playing, just making love in a tent. Maybe not even necessarily parting ways but reconnecting. The concept of a love child is kind of beautiful.

 

yup, that's what I mean to

 

really that sounds nice

 

Still would turn into the worst thing. I personally, don't want a one night stand, or a baby. Especially not as a result of a one night stand.

But each to their own.

 

you would like the pregnant bit? 'cos i've had nookie in a tent at Reading Festival but if I found out I was going to have a kid it would ruin the memory a little bit

 

happens to me all the time.

 

Well I just like finding out people were the product of such an event. I don't want to get knocked up. I do however want to fuck hard in a tent. Just saying.

 

HELL.YES. :cheers2:

 

Ewww, STDs.

 

The frolic might be a blast but the lifetime commitment last longer than any STD or fun memory.

If I was wanting to get pregnant with no a strings arrangement it might be a plan, otherwise nope.

 

The whole single mother thing sounds like complete and utter hell. I'd rather not have or be a love child.

 

that sounds terrible. and so unfair on the kid.

 

Calling it a "love child" doesn't make it a beautiful experience...that's just ridiculous. Being stuck with a child to either raise alone or put up for adoption would really suck a lot.

Love children usually happen to people having affairs with married men, so they spend the rest of their lives trying to get their fathers to acknowledge them.

Or just not being told who their father is. I have an ex who did not know who his father was until he was an adult. Now his mother is dead and he has no relationship with his father.

 

I do fantasize about knocking people up and down strewn all over the world, maybe even without revealing my real name...But those damn DNA tests and child support laws put the breaks on my designs!

 

i would hate to have a one night stand and be stuck with a baby that has no daddy...... the sex thing can be nice, just use contraception haha...

 

Yes it definetly isn't a plan to get knocked up. I just mean to say that a love child is different from a one night stand in the way that it was a loving experience and not just a quick fuck. One night of intense feeling. I just think if the two people were to later reconnect and find each other after thinking about eacher other all the time at a festival. And reconnect it could be beautiful.