Every girl I see is in a open relationship with me. It's so open they have no idea, I consent to them having sex with others and then I go home and imagine it, biding my time until the grand revelation
I tried to get such an arangement with my ex, but he would not agree to it. Cheating just does not sit with me tho and it was to the point where I knew I was going to, so I left him instead. Preferable imo to the sneaky devious underhand lying shit involved in cheating.
Monogamy is silly. I don't get it. Why would you want to limit your partner's happiness? I mean, I understand the worry of stds, but that is what protection is for. I simply couldn't deal with someone demanding something like that of me, and can't really imagine why I'd want to demand it of someone else. Your partner shares good times with others, play with others, works with others, goes to others for emotional support. As long as you and your partner are the most important ones to each other, how does having sex elsewhere affect you? All simply petty jealousy and possessiveness. The desire to own another human being. If you are fulfilled in yourself, a partnership with another person becomes a mutual, loving, supportive interaction. No need to own or control. Monogamy is only so common because it's custom. Arising out of a need to know the father of children, so property can be passed patrilineally. It doesn't really serve any useful purpose in modern society.
I have always wanted to try swinging but have never been with a partner that has agreed to it so i never have had a chance to try.
My wife and I have recently decided to give this a try. We have been married 10 years and thought this was a way to spice things up. We are secure in our relationship and both know its just sex
My girlfriend is bi, we have an agreement she can do what she likes with other girls. And we have both agreed to perhaps allow each other to have sex with others but only with each others consent. Or a MFF threesome.
Yes, but usually together. We have sex with a number of good friends. It is exciting to feel a different cock inside of you , every now and then.
Yes. Or you could call it an awareness shared by me and my partner that any measure of control we think we might have over one another is fictitious. So, simply wanting my partner not to have sex with someone else does not equal her actually not having it. And trying to ascertain that my partner never has sex with someone else would imply encroaching ever more zealously upon her personal space and vice-versa. Until we'd be no longer sure whether we were together simply because we enjoy each other's company, or because we do not have a choice. So, we decided to face the fact that losing one another is a distinct possibility and we do not have absolute control over that outcome. All we can really do is tell each other our hopes. --------- Edit: It is also a preference for a style of relationship in which we have things we share, and things that we keep personal. Sharing everything would, again, imply mixing what's voluntary with what is coerced.
There has be a lot of trust and honesty. It can be a wonderful way to spice up a relationship....HONESTY TRUST ........... did i mention honesty and trust?
I wish there was a way to separate the percentages of men and women responding. Because right now it combines them both. This is a very interesting poll though!
Too newly married..(less than 2 years)..My wife fulfills ALL! my fantasies..all I have to do is ask..we work on things..she is open minded enough tho..so who knows? But right now??..she is my dream girl..sexually..
This is not so if both are fulfilled with each other hence they are not limiting each others happiness. There are people in the world who are very content with one person (like me). I was married for nearly 13 years and it never crossed my mind (nor his until we were at the very end and he was gone). But to each his own. As long as neither party are hurting I could care less what others do. It's just not an options for me. I get jealous when I love someone.
I don't own my wife's pussy. She does, and she can let whoever she wants use it (and usually does). luckily I like to watch.