raising a family

Discussion in 'Nudism, Naturism' started by kyleman, Mar 30, 2010.

  1. kyleman

    kyleman Member

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    i nead help. my name is kyle. im 16. i want to get marred and have kids when im older. but im a nudest. i started a year ago. im not sure if i can raze my kids as nudest or not. and i dont want to raze them as normal people and then automatically force them to become nudest can you help:confused:
     
  2. ganesha1967

    ganesha1967 barefoot bellybearer

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    Well, if you wish to have your future children grow up in a nudist environment from birth on, you can do so... First and foremost, that's your decision ("your" in the plural form, meaning yourself and your lifemate being the future parents). If your kids are shown from birth on that nudity is a natural state of being, they won't be forced but just grow into it.

    The only potential danger could be from people seeing a nude family and thinking "perverts!" and call upon some authority to mess your life up. In saying that you don't want to raise them as "normal people", you should try and find like-minded people (ideally also parents) living a nudist life and be close to them, e.g in some kind of alternative commune (beware of cults, though!).

    At some point, your kids might take a different turn, when confronted with other "normal" people (e.g. their peers at school, teachers, etc.) who tell them that nudity is something evil, leading to uncontrolled sex and next to deadly sins... You might want to think about homeschooling, or having a teacher of a nudist mindset in that commune - just imagine: a little alternative non-official school full of happily skyclad people... wish I had been living in such an environment. :)

    Well, those are ideals and hard to find, but IMO a good basis to start an open-minded and natural life for your possible future children.

    Wiggling toes of a happy naturist,

    ~*Ganesha*~
     
  3. EnergyofInfinity

    EnergyofInfinity Member

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    I would try to raise them as free and open minded as possible,
    the rest they will decide
     
  4. kyleman

    kyleman Member

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    thanks for the help:D
     
  5. Kaalvoet

    Kaalvoet Banned

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    The latest trend is raising babies nappy free/dyper free.,this is the ideal starting point.Kids are natural nudists,if u choose not to raise them dyper free,the best time is as soon as they are potty trained,to start of by putting them to bed naked,and in the morning,leaving them naked...BUT YOU MUST ALSO BE NAKED AROUND THEM,this makes it "normal" for them.If kids remove their clothes during play,leave them naked and put away their clothes.
     
  6. GardenGuy

    GardenGuy Senior Member

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    Kyle, you are a few years away from marriage, but thinking ahead about the possibilities is a sign of wisdom on your part. You may meet a free spirit who will adopt nude living with your encouragement, it happens a lot that way. But if you can meet a girl who is already a nudist, you have the best chance of being a 100% nudist family. There are clubs for young naturists (nudists too of course), people your age who have great times and no hangups about clothes.

    I agree with Kalvoet that when parents and kids are naked most of the time, it works out for the best.

    I will only add one other suggestion: If you can, when you start raising a family, try to hook up with other nudist families and let your kids play together. That is easy to do in summer at nudist places, but if you have other nudist families in your town, you and your kids can have that additional friendship and encouragement all year around. That helps everyone feel less weird and isolated. Have a private back yard, travel to nude beaches when you can. It's a great life!

    Kids are born natural nudists and they stay that unless society or parents teach them otherwise.
     
  7. MasseurNaturel

    MasseurNaturel Members

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    I was brought up in a naturist family and have been a naturist ever since. I have no regrets whatsoever about my upbringing. My parents were both naturists and we would all be naked among both their naturist and their textile friends. We also socialised naked and went to naked clubs and on nude holidays. They led a somewhat alternative lifestyle and were very open with me about everything, as such I have also always been a very openminded person too. Nudity was always something normal to me, and still is now.
     

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