What's everyones favourite way of wanking? Is it the common one handed tecnique or does anyone have any special techniques that work better for them? Share your methods so we can all give it a go! Myself, i like to do it with two hands, the way you would hold a recorder, that's how I get the most intense orgasms
Most of the time I use the FleshLight, but other times, if I'm just heading for a quick climax, then it's the standard fist. But, if I'm looking for a long session & an extreme orgasm, then it has to be the Dribbler. If you are unfamiliar with this, it's a step up from the basic Stop-Go method, only you continue masturbating until you actually feel the semen starting to rise, but stop before the orgasm kicks in to give it the power to ejaculate it with any force. This means that the semen escapes under its own power (hence the Dribbler tag), and since the masturbating was stopped before the orgasm, this means that it is possible, after a moments relaxation to continue & do it again & again, for as many times as you have the will power to hold out. My personal record is 10 dribbling ejaculations before having to give in to the ultimate orgasm, which is totally mind blowing, as it seems as if each one of those orgasms that you held back on combine their potency, gradually increasing the eventual effect when you finally give in to that imminent climax of all climaxes.
hmm.. im trying to do it but usually im already half way through the orgasm before i feel my cum I had a great wank attempting it last night though.. so still fun.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Orgasm_control Yeah I thought jerking off was the same old shit til I tried "edging" for myself. I can actually have sessions now instead of just wanking for 2 minutes lol.
The Dribbler is close to Edging / Stop-Go, but with a very minor variation. Edging / Stop-Go method is merely a matter of stopping when you feel yourself approaching orgasm to allow the penis to recover slightly before continuing. The Dribbler, on the other hand, requires that you not only sense the impending orgasm, but that you also sense the semen starting to rise into the seminal ducts in readiness for the orgasm to pump it out before actually stopping. It is at this point when it is most difficult to stop & requires a great deal of will power, which gets increasingly tough on each successive expulsion of semen, which can't be exactly referred to as an ejaculation, as it doesn't have the force of the orgasm behind it. I gave it the moniker of The Dribbler because I've never come across any mention of it anywhere else. It's a very hard technique to master, but you will agree that it's well worth the effort once successful.
Lmao, I like that creative name, do you think that'd help with things like actual sex? Have yet to sex it up and might as well get my lasting abilities up ahead of time if possible lol.
Three fingers of right hand working dick, left hand playing with balls and anus. Closer to orgasm it's a full hand working speedily and a squeeze of the balls. Not many noteworthy variations, save for maybe foreplay being with the left hand. The olive oil suggestion is interesting; may give that a test. Later... Oh gosh! Olive oil... I tried a small variation: dribble some into belly button, then sit up as it dribbles down ... then rub-a-dub-dub, all over the "bub"... Verdict: a fantastic experience, but much like wrangling a salamander, only much, much more sensual. Highly recommended A++! PS: Have to go easy on the Extra Virgin Olive Oyl... it's expensive stuff!
I imagine that it is possible during actual sex IN THEORY. The reality is, though, that once you should continue masturbating until you actually feel the semen starting to rise, just before the orgasm kicks in. At this point you must stop all stimulation entirely and forcibly relax all those kegal muscles that you will be all too familiar with - the ones that you normally feel tightening up, closing the urethra from the bladder, giving that familiar sensation that you are doing you best to avoid peeing. If you don't concentrate on relaxing these muscles, you may well continue into the orgasm anyway. It takes enough will power to manage it during masturbation, but when receiving additional stimulation from a partner, that's likely to make it impossible to stop. Even if it's only mental stimulation, by having him or her watching you, that may well make it even more difficult to maintain control.
PineMan, holding back on the cusp of orgasm really is extremely difficult; not to say it can't be done, but I think most guys will blow — true, with any additional stimulation or audience. I have tried it several times overnight and only succeeded once, but the joy of getting it out was far greater than holding it back, which didn't seem to achieve much. What do others think??
You seem to be missing the point. It's not the holding back itself that is the ultimate target, but each successive orgasm that is evaded seems to go into a 'bank' of orgasmic pleasure. One orgasm is one thing. Two orgasms is just another orgasm. But if you can imagine having BOTH of those orgasms at the same time, then you're getting there, and the more times you can manage it, the more orgasms you build up in that fund to go on that climactic spending spree once the Piggy Bank can hold no more.
Get completely naked, spread your legs far apart, and go to town. When you are about to blow, press two fingers down on the skin right under a your balls and hold it there while you squirt. It's a great way to jack off