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#1 chiara21



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Posted December 27 2009 - 01:26 PM

Hi all,
I am seeing this guy and we are having a lot of fun together.
One little little problem is that sometimes he cannot get hard. Actually not always, but in frequent occasions.
Specially if we go out with friends and drink a little too much.
I know it's perfectly normal.
When it happens I feel sorry, because I know he wants to have sex. So I often help him (with hand) and with my surprise he always cums, even though he has no erection... but it is "completely asleep".

My question is: Did it happen to you? Can a guy reach the orgasm without erection?

He seems to enjoy it allot, so I have no problems with it.
One interesting thing (also the reason why I am writing) is that few times he told me that the orgasm quality is very intense compared to when he has an erection.
I just never head of it, so I was thinking:

any experience in that sense?
did it ever happen to you?


#2 xcandykidx



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Posted December 27 2009 - 01:29 PM

Yea, it's possible to have an orgasm without an erection. It's also possible to have an erection but never be able to cum

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#3 dastud



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Posted January 01 2010 - 10:08 AM

There have been times when I really wanted to masturbate and have an orgasm and for some reason I just could not get hard. With the right stimulation I have been able to have an orgasm when soft but for me it is not nearly as pleasurable as when hard.

#4 jo_k_er_man



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Posted January 04 2010 - 08:39 AM

milking the prostate.. cumming without getting hard.. actually very mind blowing to a guy that is used to being hard and cumming.. should work well for your guy friend as long as he doesn't think "its gay"

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#5 Fastswitch


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Posted January 14 2010 - 02:34 PM

Gramps (age 75) says that if you needed a hardon to orgasm, he'd never have one. So, yes, it is possible and you are a rare woman to take responsibility for his pleasure. I certainly hope he is being as concerned about you and getting you off with his tongue (which, BTW, is a favorite way in China to raise an elusive erection!)

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Posted February 18 2010 - 07:38 PM

milking the prostate.. WoW!!! It's awesome let me tell ya baby!!!