sex with another man

Discussion in 'Free Love' started by jayjay08, Nov 16, 2009.

  1. jayjay08

    jayjay08 Banned

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    hey

    question for the ladies
    If your boyfriend asked you if you would have sex with another man and he could watch because it turned him on would you do it?
     
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  2. Curlygirl

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    I would tell him "Find another Girlfriend!"
     
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  3. Piaf

    Piaf Senior Member

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    No.
     
  4. psquidy

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    YEEEEEEEEEEEES!
    You're a lucky lucky girl.
    Do IT! It'll be so much fun.
    Trust me.....
     
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  5. sith1

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    this topic has been posted to death in some other threads

    by the way, I asked my wife to do it, she wont
     
  6. OzSteve

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    The thought of it, is hot. But I could not share my mrs, to in love with her for that.
    She would not do it either. She says I am more than enough for her needs :)
     
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  7. atla23

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    people and their whole i just want to watch attitude.....WHY? when you could participate
    thats my 2 cents
     
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  8. ShyCouple

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    Sounds extremely hot, just not sure if I could do it or not.
     
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  9. DazedGypsy

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    yes that'd be hot

    because there's something beautiful and inspiring about watching your mate with someone else..
     
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    ofcorse
     
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    Eh she's done it a few times so far
     
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    How do you feel about it?
     
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    don't feed the aminals
     
  15. Geneve

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    I do this regularly anyways. The only difference would be letting him watch....
     
  16. letmeSleep

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    I would love for him to ask me and offer up somebody new for me to ride.
     
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    My ex asked if I would do that once, personally I thought it would be pretty hot. It just depends if your comfortable. Because if your not, then your just gonna feel terrible.
     
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    I probably would if I knew he was comfortable with it, but I would be to worried that after it was done, he would change his mind and not feel the same about me, knowing I've been with someone else. So, to answer, probably not.
     
  19. ManNotMachine

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    If you've been put in this position, the question is, is that something you would like to do?
    Would you be able to walk away feeling good about yourself afterward.
    You need to feel in your gut why you're not sure about it.
    You need to figure it out, and break it down into a series of statements.
    "It makes me uncomfortable because I am not sure how to feel about being with another man" is not even enough. it's not basic enough.
    Why not, is the question. You need to realize that why not.
    Maybe because you would feel dirty, because you were raised that way. That's fine.
    Maybe you're afraid you'd be cheating, even with his blessing. That's also fine, but that's something you're beign told by the man you trust is NOT the case, and the answer to that is to have as many discussions as it takes to learn that isn't the case.
    Sometimes, we have secrets. Maybe you've cheated, and you enjoyed it, and you're worried this could make you feel guilty again, or that it is too close to your own desires to be just his fantasy, and thus it feels like cheating.
    These are things you won't tell him, I'd assume.
    If this is the case, you should decide either to keep to yourself and fake a reason to not do it, one he can't argue with. one with mroe reason than "I don't want to" because he offered a piece of his soul asking for this, and such a response would be childish, he needs those "why nots" and needs them to be good. he needs to hear something that says "that goes against my darlings nature and I would never want to change her"
    Or you should realize that desire is ok. Tell him you'd enjoy it! That's what he's hoping you'll do!
    He just wants to be there for it but his fantasy includes your orgasm, I promise.
     
  20. In the dark

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    i so wish my man would ask me that ! i think i may have him talked into a ffm but not real sure he totally is down with it.
     
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