I Dont Know How To Masturbate

this is ummm a very embarrassing thing to say, so i would really appreciate it if no one would like post something like mean. ok sooo i have no idea how to masturbate. i've tried ALOT of times but man i dont know it just doesnt seem to work.....

ok soo heres my question (for girls): how do i masturbate? or what can i do???

 

Just do wot feels good, we're all different in that way. I always find it works best wen there is no pressure.

 

i cant make myself orgasm... it sucks. i want to buy a vibrator but i dont have any money

 

Why not? What do u try? My 1st time wasn't until I was 17 in the bath, very relaxed and no pressure.

 

i dont know i just cant get turned on enough by myself... i almost always orgasm when someone else is down there though

 

I feel bad for you girls... I guess being a guy is way too easy... Good luck though! <3

 

i feel ya there. i can never get turned on by myself. cant orgasm, it really sucks. drives me crazy. its been about 6 months since i masturbated

 

does watching anything turn you on? like porn? do you have a good imagination?
when i first started i humped pillows, sounds lame but you can stimulate the clit really easily that way and use your hips to control what you feel...

 

u should use a dildo stacy. and if it makes u feel anybetter, i came lahk 5 minutes ago.

 

porn is like the biggest turn off ever for me, holy shit, its just so unrealistic and fake i just cant stand it.

 

i agree with check...
I could never orgasm from myself but i have from someone else...

and porn is ewww.

 

How about real stuff... Like a special video or pics from a boyfriend?

 

ok well i was just asking, what about imagining something...takes time sometimes, but it can get you going and if the clit is being stimulated while imagination is going on things may work out.

side note sometimes i can get off in like 2 mins sometimes it takes like 20-25...patience does help on occasion

 

i agree man like why do i wanna watch to other people i dont even know go at it??

i tried that... and it felt nice ya know but then it was like not feeling like anything so i stopped lol

i've been like really really in the mood before and it still doesnt seem to work lol

 

You just gotta know how to work yourself. Play with yourself alot and you will be able to figure it out!

 

Try lying on ur front. Works a treat 4 me wen 'struggling'

 

There are many different types of porn though. There is a lot of great stuff out there...

 

If it weren't for porn I wouldn't currently be in a 4 hour masturbation session.... Heh. Kinda like some of the posters here I can't put an end to this session, but only because it feels so fucking good. Technically I could have busted a long time ago (5 min into the session if I wanted to), but I can't bring myself to do it .

 

I know it may seem a bit bizarre for a male to give advice on female masturbation, but the method I have found to work best during foreplay is when holding the partner from behind, so my arms would be in the same sort of position as hers then, with the palm flat, covering the clitoris with the inner knuckle region, slide the hand up & down with a vertical motion, allowing the middle finger to enter the vagina, gathering the increasing natural lubricants in the process.

When I have performed this method on any of my female partners I've always controlled the stroke rate according to their body language - naturally, when doing it to yourself, you would already know the best rate for yourself.

Interestingly, the same method can apply as a technique for Male Masturbation, with the middle finger pressed against the underside of the penis, along the urethra, with the inner knuckle of the finger stimulating the underside of the glans.

 

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