Sphincter Stretching

I am a young gay man, and I was wondering if (especially for you older men out there) anyone knows about sphincter stretching, and more specifically if it can be permanent. Like, does your asshole eventually become loose like a vagina would?

 

sphincter stretching is called 'goatse.'
if you go to google images and, enter the term goatse, you will know what it is when you see it.

 

people should be put to death for doing that to themselves.

I find it incredible fucking dumb in a society that makes smoking marijuana illegal and boasts anal stretching..

though I cant tell if those are assholes or just pictures of oprah winfrey big fucking mouth...

 

i agree with you 100% on that orison!
about 10 years ago, someone sent me a jpg of a goatse to my inbox.
i remember looking at that photo and, my first thought was...HOLY SHIT! my next thought was... nice, but don't need to wear diapers for life after doing that?

 

did the OP quote Dragonheart in his sig?

Props for that...

 

It is your ass, so you do what feels right to you.

I would however, think very long and hard before I went there. That is, unless you want to spend your gay life without getting any.

Most tops are looking for a tight to a very tight guy. Loose holes are generally not much in demand.

KD

 

It depends on how often you do it and how big you stretch. I have taken some big dildos but my hole goes back to being fairly tight if I stop for a few weeks. So, no, it's not permanent.

 

Sounds like a sure-fire way to give yourself rectal prolapse

 

You are a man obsessed, my friend

 

HE SURE IS!
if that kind of thing 'lights his fire,' he should go over to the website rotten.com.
at rotten.com; they have photographs, of what happen to a weightlifter, involved in a college competition when, he lifted too much weight.
it is one "lovely" sight, seeing his guts hanging out of his asshole!

EWWWWW SO GROSS!
i just felt so sorry for that poor guy!

 

anal stretching doesn't mean you have to go to the level of goatse. I have taken part in extreme anal for years and on an almost daily basis...toy playing, fisting, group sessions etc. My ass is tight as ever, I mean sure it gets loose WHILE i'm being stretched, but not all the time and not just from taking a cock. If anything I have more control than ever. If you want to stretch your ass, go for it. Do what feels right to you.

 

The original intent of this question was out of fear of the permanence of anal stretching, not the desire for it. Haha. :cheers2:

 

Which I think i answered in a round about kind of way. Anal play will not make you wear diapers. Your ass is just like any other muscle in the body. If you work it out, it builds strength.

 

you should be scared of it being perment!
it does become perment in some cases (i stress, IN SOME CASES.) not all or, even most cases.

i worked almost five years in an e.r. and, i saw a good number of people, who gaped their assholes and cunts for life. none wanted to live that way so, they under went reconstructive surgery. exspensive and painfull as a motherfucker too!
in almost all of their cases, someone talked them into doing something stupid, they had been drinking or, doing some type of drugs, someone drugged them then, exploited them or, they did something stupid to themselves.

if your going to explore ass play here is my advice... you can take it or leave it for what it is worth.

1. don't drink or do drugs before or, during ass play. KEEP YOUR MIND AND THINKING CLEAR!

2. don't let anyone talk you into something you don't want to do. if you get the 'feeling,' that there is something not quite right about someone... trust your 'feeling' on this matter. better to be safe then sorry!

3. if you feel pain STOP AT ONCE! don't try to be mr. macho and "work through the pain."
don't use any product (like 'anal eze') to desensitize the nerves around and in your asshole.

all three of these suggestions are common sense. follow them and, you should have no major problems with ass play and anal stretching.

one last thing. i saw a porn movie awhile back, where a woman took six (6) hands in both her asshole and **** at the same time. that was twelve (12) hands all together! just seeing that looked and felt painfull and scary as all hell!
a lot of things in porn movies are staged (faked.) i pray that that was all faked!
her asshole and **** were gaped wide open even before she was fisted.
that type of perment gape thing seems to be the "up and comming" thing in porn and, i'm sure other people are going to try and do that too.
i just can't see, how that cannot but ruin their health in the long term.
PLEASE, DON'T TRY ANYTHING LIKE THAT!

 

Nothing like responding to a 7 year old poster that hasn't been online in 5 years. I have been putting things in my ass going back to my childhood beginning with pencils. I always enjoyed the feeling. I think those prolapsed anus pics are from extreme anal stretching where footballs are stuffed up their asses. If you keep it within reason you should be fine. I can handle up to 7.5 inch circumference with no issues. I will keep that as my limit. My asshole goes right back to normal afterwards. Maybe we can breathe life back into this thread for new members that are interested in this topic. Anyone else enjoy that feeling of your asshole snapping over that plug?

 

Still a bit of good advice

 

I've shoved a LOT of shit up my ass over the years. And none of it has had lasting effects. I'm turning 49 in about a week and I've toyed my ass brutally over the years. Don't listen to urban legend stuff about losing bowel control. If anything I have better control than any of my peers FROM the fact that I know what my muscles down there are doing. Constipation? Lol, never been a problem. Pooping myself? Not a problem either. Best of both worlds. Enjoy your asshole.

 

I've been slowly opening up my hole for the past six months now using lots and lots of lube and ever increasing cucumbers. I can get one around 6 inch girth now.
I love the feeling of my hole being opened up.
I also love to put cucumbers up my ass and leave it there till the next day.
Wonderful feeling it gives me.

 

Jsb, can you message me? I also am alot like you in regards to this. Would like to exchange ideas and thoughts with you. Pat

 

patindaytona, I tried to message you and it was rejected.