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#1 Dein Liebsten

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Posted May 18 2009 - 07:55 PM

It's a question I have. Lately, I've been having sex with my girlfriend and she's been really really enjoying it (I'm her first, and my previous encounters have given me a bit of technique to use). The other day we were getting it on in her bathroom while she was sitting on the sink (don't ask. It just happened ;D) and after we were done, her legs were shaking a lot and she could barely stand. She wasn't in pain (she was laughing) but why does that happen? Am I a powerful sex God that just creates a catastrophic orgasm? Or is it just her?

I'm betting on the latter, because she was extremely loud. I've actually never heard a girl say "fuck" that much while having sex.

Yeah this is kind of a bragging post (I'm just in love lol) but I would like to know why girls shake after an orgasm. :P

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Posted May 18 2009 - 07:58 PM

I dunno....
we just do.. lol
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Posted May 18 2009 - 08:25 PM

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Posted May 18 2009 - 08:28 PM

I dunno....
we just do.. lol

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Posted May 19 2009 - 06:04 AM

well.... it's like you guys trying to explain what you feel when you cum to us.. we'll never truly understand and neither will you, plus I have no clue why scientifically it happens lol I just know that it happens..
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Posted May 19 2009 - 06:36 AM

I dunno....
we just do.. lol


That's a perfectly good answer. Some things just can't be explained very well in words.

Why do women, including me, sometimes cry after sex? I dunno that, either. I guess because it creates powerful emotions. Men tend to equate crying with unhappiness, but it's just any strong emotion.

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Posted May 19 2009 - 06:38 AM

It's a question I have. Lately, I've been having sex with my girlfriend and she's been really really enjoying it (I'm her first, and my previous encounters have given me a bit of technique to use). The other day we were getting it on in her bathroom while she was sitting on the sink (don't ask. It just happened ;D) and after we were done, her legs were shaking a lot and she could barely stand. She wasn't in pain (she was laughing) but why does that happen? Am I a powerful sex God that just creates a catastrophic orgasm? Or is it just her?

I'm betting on the latter, because she was extremely loud. I've actually never heard a girl say "fuck" that much while having sex.

Yeah this is kind of a bragging post (I'm just in love lol) but I would like to know why girls shake after an orgasm. :P

thanks!

You've got a good one there. She's comfortable with you. :) As for the shaking, it's the cutest thing ever. That's all I know.

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Posted May 19 2009 - 03:11 PM

I guess because she has so many nerves really excited it takes a minute or two for all the adrenaline to wear off.
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Posted May 22 2009 - 09:11 AM

Sometimes I tremble if the buildup to orgasm has taken a long time, or if the orgasm is unusually powerful. I'm pretty weak after that kind of climax.

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Posted May 22 2009 - 09:42 AM

It's a question I have. Lately, I've been having sex with my girlfriend and she's been really really enjoying it (I'm her first, and my previous encounters have given me a bit of technique to use). The other day we were getting it on in her bathroom while she was sitting on the sink (don't ask. It just happened ;D) and after we were done, her legs were shaking a lot and she could barely stand. She wasn't in pain (she was laughing) but why does that happen? Am I a powerful sex God that just creates a catastrophic orgasm? Or is it just her?

I'm betting on the latter, because she was extremely loud. I've actually never heard a girl say "fuck" that much while having sex.

Yeah this is kind of a bragging post (I'm just in love lol) but I would like to know why girls shake after an orgasm. :P

thanks!


Enjoy it while it last bro, and get a few more licks in when she is trembling after a powerful orgasm. I love doing that :D

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Posted May 23 2009 - 12:37 AM

Potential medical answer: Mostly involuntary shivering for me. Your brain floods the body (primarily the brain) with various different pleasure causing chemicals. Heart rate shoots through the roof. Trembling is a symptom of tachyardia (high heart rate.)

Personal answer: it feels like the waves of pleasure still have a few eddies left here and there and they hit me and I tremble and shake.

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Posted May 23 2009 - 08:45 AM

Some women tense their tigh muscles during sex rally hard, but because of the endorphins and whatnot they don't feel pain because of it. During orgasm tension reaches the peak and then goes the way. Tired out muscles my spasm. I had experienced it during sexual situations and during PE.

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Posted May 23 2009 - 02:02 PM

I mean, why do you scream when you orgasm? This question isn't going to have a satisfying answer because the answer is just because.

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Posted May 24 2009 - 09:10 PM

It's a question I have. Lately, I've been having sex with my girlfriend and she's been really really enjoying it (I'm her first, and my previous encounters have given me a bit of technique to use). The other day we were getting it on in her bathroom while she was sitting on the sink (don't ask. It just happened ;D) and after we were done, her legs were shaking a lot and she could barely stand. She wasn't in pain (she was laughing) but why does that happen? Am I a powerful sex God that just creates a catastrophic orgasm? Or is it just her?

I'm betting on the latter, because she was extremely loud. I've actually never heard a girl say "fuck" that much while having sex.

Yeah this is kind of a bragging post (I'm just in love lol) but I would like to know why girls shake after an orgasm. :P

thanks!









An orgasm is the contraction of muscles, and when those muscles tighten and untighten, the muscles become lose and relaxed. Causing trembles of sorts. The contractions (trembles) are everywhere;your hands tighten up, you may arch your back, your facial expression is intense, your breathing pattern changes to short gasps, your legs tremble, your toes curl under. Some can see it as a shock to the nerves. To put simply like a release of pent-up sexual tension.

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Posted June 13 2009 - 07:10 AM

Yes they do, after a women orgasms, a womens brain releases oxytocin which apparently causes the vagina to rythmically contract so it seems to me that this may also cause her to lose control of other parts of her body to some extent.

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Posted December 24 2009 - 09:27 AM

I love when women shake... it makes you feel like the man!

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Posted December 29 2009 - 12:52 PM

An orgasm is the contraction of muscles, and when those muscles tighten and untighten, the muscles become lose and relaxed. Causing trembles of sorts. The contractions (trembles) are everywhere;your hands tighten up, you may arch your back, your facial expression is intense, your breathing pattern changes to short gasps, your legs tremble, your toes curl under. Some can see it as a shock to the nerves. To put simply like a release of pent-up sexual tension.


Yes, also men can have the same problem after sex. Specially when stading up and either getting laid or a blow job. I have givin my husband a BJ stading up, he cummed all over and then fell to the floor with legs twitching. I have done this several times, and he has to me also.

I love it when he eats my pussy out after he cums from fucking her and my legs are trembling still.

Also I get foot cramps when having sex very often when I get the toe curls goin on.

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Posted December 29 2009 - 01:54 PM

My legs tremble. LIKE CRAZY. My partner thinks its cute. It makes him feel good about himself and I think its funny :] We both win.
And ive had foot cramps after aswel! But thats not fun - it hurtsss.

#19 GentleBen

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Posted December 30 2009 - 03:09 AM

I think orgasm for a women is the culmination of a lot of affective foreplay after a long time, I'm beginning to think an amount of women actually do try to resist it because they are afraid of losing control of their bodies - fuck it just piss or shit or whatever let it go, I think you'll find you won't piss or shit, you'll probably just squirt out fluid thats it.

And if you worried about anything dont because your missing out on the ride of your life.

For some strange reason I think I blacked out whilst my partner was orgasming ??

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Posted January 09 2010 - 06:37 AM

Sounds dangerous and life-threatening. Are you sure she's not having a sex-induced seizure? Perhaps she's lost all consciousness and awareness of the world around her, and she's helpless to defend herself. Stop having sex with her immediately, and call a doctor!!!

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Posted January 10 2010 - 08:06 PM

By the way, how many men are here who can have an intenssse orgasm while standing and will never hold something for support? I guess this does not happen to women all the time.

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Posted October 13 2012 - 06:51 AM

I think it must be oxytocin or vasopressin something like that ???

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Posted October 13 2012 - 07:01 AM

An orgasm is the contraction of muscles, and when those muscles tighten and untighten, the muscles become lose and relaxed. Causing trembles of sorts. The contractions (trembles) are everywhere;your hands tighten up, you may arch your back, your facial expression is intense, your breathing pattern changes to short gasps, your legs tremble, your toes curl under. Some can see it as a shock to the nerves. To put simply like a release of pent-up sexual tension.


I think you nailed it which is why some women have orgasms while giving birth (myself included) :)

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Posted October 13 2012 - 07:18 AM

I almost always shake after I get off and right before.

What's that like, having an orgasm while giving birth? :D

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Posted October 13 2012 - 07:43 AM

I felt NO birthing pain even while giving birth naturally. No drugs were needed or wanted for that matter. It was the natural numbness I read about in books and never thought it would happen to me.

The orgasm itself felt exactly like during sex (only with dr's around) - pure pleasure! Ohhhh yes, and my legs shook very hard afterward :)

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Posted October 13 2012 - 01:14 PM

I felt NO birthing pain even while giving birth naturally. No drugs were needed or wanted for that matter. It was the natural numbness I read about in books and never thought it would happen to me.

The orgasm itself felt exactly like during sex (only with dr's around) - pure pleasure! Ohhhh yes, and my legs shook very hard afterward :)


That's amazing. I'd like to know more about how that is possible for some women but not others. Can you teach women how to avoid the pain? Is. It therefore less traumatic on the body? Please explain more. Pm me if you need to.

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Posted October 13 2012 - 01:51 PM

I had no birthing pain but I didn't orgasm. I was just lost in 'the zone' and so focused I didn't really feel a thing, all natural, no drugs etc.

I shake after an orgasm, especially if its been a while. I shake, without fail, if I climax during oral. Its amazing. I also shake, a lot during an orgasm as well as after, I like the feeling of being so 'shaken' that you can barely stand and are all sensitive :p


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Posted October 13 2012 - 03:31 PM

Pm me if you need to.


I sent you a PM.

I had no birthing pain but I didn't orgasm. I was just lost in 'the zone' and so focused I didn't really feel a thing, all natural, no drugs etc.


It happened with my second child and I didn't plan on it but was blessed to experience it.

Its amazing.



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Posted October 13 2012 - 03:48 PM

I think the trembling is part of the orgasmic release.
your post made me smile ~ "i'm just in love" haha awwwww
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Posted October 13 2012 - 03:58 PM

I think you nailed it which is why some women have orgasms while giving birth (myself included) :)


I could have only WISHED that would have happened to me. Felt like I was squeezing out a goddamn Volkswagen! :daisy: