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#1 LnC

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Posted May 05 2009 - 09:55 AM

Hi

We are going to a nude beach this June for our holidays. We have been before and enjoy being nude on the beach... But sometimes i do get a semi hardon... Not sure why and i have to lay on my front.
We don't normally go to the front of the beach where all the other bathers are but towards the back where fellow nudists are scattered..

Should i worry if i get a slight hardon? or turn over and hide it until it goes down..

Also i take lots of nude pictures of my wife on the beach and it tends to happen then lots... I just want to carry on rather than hide myself.... if i put my shorts on i think it will look really silly..
would others be offended?

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Posted May 05 2009 - 11:10 AM

Should i worry if i get a slight hardon?


no!

Also i take lots of nude pictures of my wife on the beach and it tends to happen then lots... I just want to carry on rather than hide myself.... if i put my shorts on i think it will look really silly..
would others be offended?


as long as you care to do this with the right people around (no children, no narrow-mindies etc), i guess no one will make problems if you get "proud". I think it would be more strange to put on shorts than to stay nude and be honest.

Btw. i like this state of a bold, but not full erect penis. If i take nude photos of men i always propose to pose this way.

I've just posted some thoughtrs at a similar thread. Lazy as i am, i copy and paste my post down here.

Depends on the circumstances. I would be disappointed if i stay at the beach with my boyfriend and he won't get a boner the whole day *lol*

I also dont't care if someone else gets hard, as long as it happens in the right setting he behaves adequate. Just lying there with a boner usually is nothing to worry about i guess as long as adults are around. And is's a sign that all works fine, he feels good and is healthy.

But i hate those beer-belly guys only going to the beach to look at naked young chicks (or worse, at children) just to become aroused and show off their hardons. If i see this, i really feel bothered!

If you go to the beach with men for the whole day maybe some will eventually fall asleep. I guess i never was with a guy who didn't get hard while sleeping, probably cause of nice dreams. I think this is kind of sweet and i always wonder about his dreams' story then. Unfortunately, if you ask later about, they can't remember usually.

If you are unsure, if the people you go to the beach with will find it ok to see you with a woody, i propose just to ask. You then know if you can let it happen if your mood turns this way or if you better turn on your belly or grab a towel to cover. Snuggling with a friend also minimizes what others can see, and it's a good feeling for both.

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#3 nldn

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Posted May 05 2009 - 12:00 PM

You should be aware of those around you and some may be offended, though it's less likely that you'll cause offence if you are with your wife. If you sit in certain positions, and make sure you haven't a full bladder it's less likely. Sitting cross legged has worked for me, though I've got so used to sunbathing or having a sauna nude that it's rarely an issue.

#4 robin banks

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Posted May 06 2009 - 03:22 AM

You can always pretend you are digging for clams.

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Posted May 08 2009 - 04:57 AM

I am a 17 year old girl and have been going to the local nude beach for two years now. Not many guys get erections at the beach, but when it happens most people don't care. As a girl I can tell you that most women like to see guys walking around with an erection. I find it very flattering when a guys is talking to me and he gets hard while we are talking. If it happens just go with it you might enjoy it as much as I do.
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#6 FLTom

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Posted May 12 2009 - 11:35 AM

I'm a regular at Haulover Beach in North Miami, probably the largest nude beach in the country. I've been nudist for over 30 years. Regarding erections, it's never cool to flaunt one on the beach or in a nudist park or resort. Some guys get the notion to walk around with a hardon at Haulover, and they very quickly get reported to beach staff. If they persist in flaunting, the police are called.

However a simple erection is usually no big deal. Just don't flaunt it or actively masturbate. Sexual activity in public is illegal, and that includes beaches, nudist parks, and nudist resorts. I personally have seen guys hauled off the sand in handcuffs.

#7 _summer_

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Posted April 25 2014 - 08:41 PM

Don't you see other men with erections? seems a normal response to me

#8 meeses

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Posted April 26 2014 - 02:33 AM

Many will use nude beaches for sexual thrills and /or to look at kids. Not real nudists I'd say. I don't care if someone gets an a boner by accident or just for being new to the lifestyle, but if one was to parade around for display, I wouldn't be long telling them. I'm open minded and if I noticed a couple in action in a secluded area, I wouldn't care but not out for all to see. Those are the reasons our nude beaches are being closed by authorities and real nudists end up labelled as pervs. Just my opinion.

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Posted May 10 2014 - 07:17 AM

In all the years Phil (hubby) & I have been to naturist beaches/spas/clubs he has never had a hard on! I'm not one who would be offended by a semi either, if it happened I would just ignore it. As long as any guy I was chatting to was giving me eye contact rather than looking at my girly bits, any involuntary movement in his nether regions would not trouble me unduly!

#10 hadynmatthews

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Posted July 08 2014 - 08:06 PM

I think this "no erections" rule is a relic from the early days of nudism.

I go to the nude beach with my lady all of the time. We've been together 5 years, and I still love to watch her naked around the house, or walking around in skimpy panties. She doesn't shave or even trim her bush at all, so her hair is always peeking out from her panties. When we're in public at a pool or beach, she'll wear "boy shorts" to cover up her pubes - but when we're alone, she'll even wear tiny bikinis, with half her bush showing over the top and sides. I know this is not the thing for many people, but it just DRIVES ME WILD to see that! (But that's for another post on another topic.)

Anyway - Sometimes at the nude beach, she'll wear this skimpy bikini and let bush peek out over the top. And like, I said, this drives me wild. And I get visibly excited at the beach.

We'll usually just hang out on our blanket and read or play games, but I usually have a full-on raging hard on - and I don't make any attempt to hide it - sometimes just lying on my back, flying the flag at full mast.

But - I don't ever do anything sexual with it, no hand jobs, never walk around and flaunt it in anyone else's personal space or anything like that... Anyone can look if they want to, but they don't have to - but it's just me, my girl, and my hard cock having a picnic. What's the harm in that?

People definitely notice, and sometimes point and gasp, but so what?

Honestly, I've never even gotten a dirty look - sometimes a raised eyebrow from the guys, but nothing but smiles from the ladies, that's for sure!

I've done this a half dozen times, probably seen by hundreds of passers by, and no one has acted the least bit offended.

Now, this would probably be quite different if I was alone, and walking around trying to attract attention to myself - I could see people being uncomfortable with that - but for me to be hanging out with my lady on our own blanket, drinking wine, playing cards, why would someone care if I was hard?

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Posted July 09 2014 - 12:58 AM

You could try getting a room :)

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Posted July 11 2014 - 02:24 AM

I think it´s normal to have erections. Don´t worry, show proud your thing and don´t look back :)

#13 Yorik99

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Posted July 11 2014 - 04:06 AM

To be perfectly honest, i cant see why people get so shitty about erections, maybe the little guys get jealous of the bigger guys and don't want to get out-dicked down the nudist club lol.

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Posted July 11 2014 - 04:13 AM

I think it´s normal to have erections. Don´t worry, show proud your thing and don´t look back :)


At my beach this will actually get you escorted off after 10 people start yelling at you. Just sayin'.

#15 Yorik99

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Posted July 11 2014 - 04:24 AM

At my beach this will actually get you escorted off after 10 people start yelling at you. Just sayin'.


Thats a shame, narrow mindedness still alive and kicking in the nudist world. Theres a brilliant video on youtube where a guy on a textile beach shoves a bottle down his shorts, making it look like he has a monster boner, try and find it, its hilarious.

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Posted July 11 2014 - 08:00 AM

Well, no one has ever even said anything, let alone yelling at me. If I was making people uncomfortable, I would probably not feel comfortable myself,, and the stiffy would go away on its own.

#17 Yorik99

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Posted July 24 2014 - 04:48 AM

An erection is a good tool for weight distribution and balance.

#18 kiltdude

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Posted July 24 2014 - 08:46 AM

An erection is a good tool for weight distribution and balance.


It also makes a good place to hang your towel! :)

--Rick

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Posted July 24 2014 - 09:24 AM

Can I just add that I would not view a full erection as complimentary! To be honest, I would rather NOT see a guy with a hard on sunbathing (or worse still walking about) near me. I know you guys can't control it, but you would be doing us ladies a huge favor if you turned over & hid it from view!

 

if it feels good.....do it!


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Posted July 29 2014 - 05:40 AM

Can I just add that I would not view a full erection as complimentary! To be honest, I would rather NOT see a guy with a hard on sunbathing (or worse still walking about) near me. I know you guys can't control it, but you would be doing us ladies a huge favor if you turned over & hid it from view!


Is that all ladies? from what i can understand i would say that quite a few wouldn't mind seeing the odd erection. The anti-erection obsession appears to be mainly an English trait. I think it is an accepted thing on mainland Europe and erections are either discreetly observed or politely ignored, even tho i am a hetero male the sight of another male with a throbbin erection doesn't really bother me and on the occasion i have had one, i see no need to dive into the sand risking severe abrasions, but i dont exactly wave it in peoples faces either.

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Posted July 29 2014 - 08:00 AM

I used to go to a semi private nude section of my aunt's beach. She was very cool and quite the free spirit. I always had an erection but I usually kept my shorts on. Of course she would notice and encourage me to not be embarrassed saying it was completely natural. I was only 14 and 15 at the time so I was quite shy about it all but she eventually got me to shed the trunks and to not be so reserved about it.

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Posted July 29 2014 - 06:42 PM

I never went to a nude beach. But if guys walk around with hard ons, I would prefer it. My husband is always nude and hard at home. Guys look better hard anyway.

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Posted July 29 2014 - 06:44 PM

I have only once been to a nudist beach. I was about 19 and had an erection pretty quickly despite my best intentions. I was so embarrassed I went into the sea and stayed there until it went away. I enjoy being nude so its a pity that I worry about being erect in public. If I had known people like dragondenoir didn't mind, I would have gone again so this is encouraging to read.

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Posted August 02 2014 - 04:20 PM

I know you guys can't control it, but you would be doing us ladies a huge favor if you turned over & hid it from view!


doesn't this contradict your signature motto - "if it feels good, do it" - that's exactly what I'm doing when I let my erection fly free. It does feel good, so I do it. ;-)

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Posted August 11 2014 - 03:34 AM

I reckon we should have a 'Flaunt my Erection' day. I get a constant supply of tits in the papers on beach, what else have us males got to show off, my cock is my tail feather.... :crowngrin:



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Posted August 11 2014 - 05:28 PM

I have only once been to a nudist beach. I was about 19 and had an erection pretty quickly despite my best intentions....

 

At 19 what guy would not have an erection at a nude beach?

At that age I would have been hard in anticipation as I arrived in the parking area.



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Posted August 14 2014 - 08:39 AM

Nobody said you had to look.

 

Why should it be the responsibility of the entire rest of the world to determine what you see? Have you no control over your eyeballs? It's not all about you, you know.

 

 

Can I just add that I would not view a full erection as complimentary! To be honest, I would rather NOT see a guy with a hard on sunbathing (or worse still walking about) near me. I know you guys can't control it, but you would be doing us ladies a huge favor if you turned over & hid it from view!



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Posted August 14 2014 - 09:17 AM

Guys.....just stop & think with your brains for a few seconds! Erections are good & wonderful things.....in the right place & at the right time! The beach is neither of those. It's not a European thing either. I doubt there are many women in the States who would find the notion of a stranger wandering around with a hard on to be appealing, let alone exciting (though I'm sure some of you will prove me wrong!). 

What I'm saying is that i love to see a guy naked on the beach...specially if he is fit, but I have no desire to see him get a hard on in such a public & potentially risky situation (risky as in children being present & the possibility of being seen as a sex offender). Also, while I am sure guys think that the sight of them getting hard should be seen by any females within eyeshot as complimentary, I would much prefer you to stroll over & engage in a meaningful conversation, NOT WAVE YOUR WEDDING TACKLE IN MY FACE!!!!


 

if it feels good.....do it!


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Posted August 23 2014 - 11:51 AM

At 19 what guy would not have an erection at a nude beach?

At that age I would have been hard in anticipation as I arrived in the parking area.

The first time I went to Wreck Beach in Vancouver in 1973, I got a Massive Erection. I was 21.  My young age coupled and being nude is what did it. I got a few compliments from some 'old broads' in their '30's, due to me being quite a bit bigger than Average! 



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Posted September 24 2014 - 08:44 AM

I recently had the opportunity to try a nude beach and was pleased to have my gf join me!  She cracked me up because she found herself looking for erections and enjoyed seeing the variety of different body types, as well as just enjoying swimming naked.  I didn't have any issues with having an erection myself, but we certainly weren't offended by it.